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Originally Posted by Mistpool5
Question for both guys and girls...
What would you rather, if you had to choose one?
A) Your boyfriend/girlfriend falling in love with another person?
or...
B) Your boyfriend/girlfriend having sex with the opposite sex(multiple times)?
And, why?
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Either would be a betrayal, and either way I'd drop her. Hard. But for pretty much the reasons Elliotte gave, I think B would be worse (OK, there are ways around it, like an open relationship, in which A would be worse). It's a deliberate act of betrayal. I take the cynical view that if a girl falls in love with someone else while she's in a relationship, she was probably out looking for it. But it doesn't take the same total lack of respect that cheating does.