I think my feelings are best summed up with this quote: "It's been said suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Of course, sometimes the problem isn't temporary. We empathize with those who elect to end agonizing, inescapable ordeals."
This girl, in my opinion was very rude to put it that way and I'm glad you said what you said to her, through private message of course.
As a side note: I don't equate suicide with SH
. I cannot grasp why hurting oneself makes one feel better. Then again, I don't SH
. So maybe I'll never understand it. Suicide I understand because when you are gone, you are gone. No more pain or suffering. Just a quick end to everything that hurts you.