I have thought this plenty of times.
However, I realized that it's not about pushing men out of my life, it's about finding someone who makes me happy. Whether it be a woman or a man. Someone who is caring, kind, and treats me wonderfully whereas I can do the same for them.
You didn't mention if you're attracted to women. Are you? If you are, seeking a woman partner could be effective in your life to find someone you're looking for personality wise. If not, don't push yourself to pretend to be attracted to someone.
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