[Ghost On The Highway]

Any of y'all have experience dating someone "holier-than-thou," in the sense of wanting to wait on sex or even third base for religious reasons? I don't intend to engage in one-night stands or have a fuck buddy, but I'm not exactly keen on waiting for marriage either. I believe sex is best in a loving, steady relationship, but my "lady friend" seems to take it to another level.

My girl always seems conflicted in that she wants to be intimate but feels guilty about it afterward. I don't want her to blame me for "taking things too far," but I'd like to at least have oral now and then. Is there anything I can say to her to help her feel less "sinful?" And she's otherwise an awesome person, so breaking up doesn't seem like a valid option right now.