Re: Religious girls/guys and sex -
November 5th 2011, 07:20 PM
Unfortunately, since her reasons behind the guilt are religious, there isn't anything you can do to really change her mind. She was most likely raised to believe in the 'wait until marriage' aspect of the religious community. That should be respected, and shouldn't be pushed upon her or pressured upon her either. You could try explaining that sex is a sacred thing, and that people have been doing it for years, even before marriage, and that even though waiting is okay, that if she decided to change her mind, God wouldn't punish her for that. But, if she still doesn't budge, I would just let her be and respect her decisions. I would hate to have a partner who felt guilty for doing something sexual with me afterwards.
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