I started having sex with my boyfriend and its great. He really loves it when I give him a Bj...but I don't know what I'm doing wrong! he says it feels great and stuff but its like I can't even get him close to cumming. when we have sex he comes after a few minutes, so I know its not that he can't. He's kind of shy and stuff so I don't know if that could be why or if I'm doing something wrong.
I really wish he'd take control too, but I'm not sure how to even suggest this without it sounding really weird, lol!