[Chris]

Just do you know, most teens go through an 'alone' stage - your not alone. To answer your question, you will NOT be alone forever - thats an extreme exaggeration.

You basically answered the main question of why you have not had many boyfriends.

confidence

Yes, Confidence is a MAJOR part of finding someone to be with, or just building simple friendships. If you aren't confident, then guys wont want to even try. Confidence attracts.

Love is not something you fall in and out of, love is a choice - You choose to love the people you love, and thats why it is so very important to choose to love ourselves first: to take care of ourselves, to treat yourself with the same kind of compassion, forgiveness, and respect that you give the people you love the most in your life. You have to love yourself before someone else can love you back.

What I'm getting at is having confidence, and being proud of who you are is a big part of loving yourself. Guys, just like girls, can tell who has confidence. You need to build up your confidence and focus on yourself, not others. Once you have the confidence, start to mingle, flirt, be socially active, and have fun. We often run into our lovers by not thinking to much about it - don't go into a situation thinking you will find someone to love, because in most cases, love comes to us unexpectedly.

Best wishes,
Chris