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Re: Threatening loss of interest - March 15th 2012, 08:33 PM

Hey there lovely <3

I was wondering, if saying it out loud means accepting that yeah this is happening and this is what makes everything come crashing down. Is that it? Even if it is, it is okay. It is okay to reach this point in life. What is important is that you step on the path to recovery and try and get better.

No one knows how much this will help you, but you won't know till you try. And don't worry if it doesn't work, something else will. Every problem has a solution, you just have to look for it.

Opening up might take some time simply because it is something new for you. You've been private all your life. No one expects you to just change that in a single day. Take your time, prepare yourself mentally before an appointment about what you have to talk about and all that. Don't worry, you will get there eventually when you're able to speak out about your problems easily. Give it some time.

And as for your grades, I'd say, take up a piece of paper and make a schedule for yourself. Set some goals about what all you have to do in a day and make a time table. And try and stick to it Don't worry if you're not able to stick to it at once, keep trying. Even if you're able to stick to a single thing that you planned to do during the day, congratulate yourself. Take little steps, one thing at a time. Eventually you will get there.

If you need to talk, feel free to shoot me a VM/PM anytime.
Take care and stay strong

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-Albus Dumbledore, Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows