I knew about
TH before I joined, like, a full year before I joined. I was on it once or twice as a guest, I guess.
The first time I've ever remember finding
TH was when I was feeling horrible about my body image, but I got over it.
The actual reason I joined? Being
LGBT, questioning trans, questioning FTM, not feeling like I belonged fully in either trans or cis, and sometimes depressive... - A whole lot better now ;D