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Re: should i stop sleeping with him? - April 20th 2012, 11:07 PM

Well, only you know him and what you're comfortable with. From what I understand this is a friends with benifits type relationship, right?

There are three kinds of people in this situation:
Those who can handle it, those who think they can but can't, and those who know they can't.

It's really up to yourself to decide if you can continue this, because it's different for everyone. Just as some people are okay with sky diving, the next person might not be, but no one can make the choice for you, can they?

If you do decide this isn't the type of relationship for you, come right out and say it. Don't beat around the bush, simply say that you can't handle this right now. Be clear and to the point. The idea of a friends with benifits relation is that you can have sex without attatchment, so an abrupt and sudden end is to be expected by both parties.

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