[Janie]

You should not ever have to make the choice between these two people. You have to do what is best for you. I always worried about this sort of thing because for me I knew I could never abort or adopt as it would be with me for the rest of my life but at the same time there is so much else to think of. Try talking to his parents maybe, or get yours to talk to him or his parents?
My heart really goes out to you in such a difficult situation, however boys sometimes don't really feel connected to a baby until once it is born... maybe he would be different as time passed?
I really hope you end up doing what is best for you and always remember that you have to think of your health as well as the babies.