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Forum: Why Me?

Yesterday, 04:31 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Nauseous before an overnight with my least favorite manager, who literally never lets you breathe all night. I REALLY don't want to do this.

Forum: Why Me?

May 2nd 2024, 05:27 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Next performance review will be very interesting. And where the fuck is the schedule, while we're at it?!

And that's called karma, bitch, and it's coming for all 3 of you. I'm sick to death of...

Forum: Why Me?

April 28th 2024, 05:09 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

So, yeah, you tell me to be patient, and that I'm doing a great job. But, also that she isn't getting promoted over me when it's blatantly obvious, and that he doesn't have it in his character to...

Forum: Why Me?

April 24th 2024, 12:48 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Well, yesterday's shift was a fucking nightmare, maybe tomorrow will be better. But, promotion is seeming less likely by the day. Giving my brain all the more reason to fucking destroy me. And, my...

Forum: Why Me?

April 20th 2024, 07:51 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

All the more reason I would love for this to work out. I was told they'd be "rare" but they're 1/2 or 2/3 of my shifts. And, I hesitate to adjust availability unless I know for sure he can cover...

Forum: Why Me?

April 16th 2024, 11:52 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I'd say I'll just be the better person/employee and let things play out until I have her job. But, the last time I said that, it DIDN'T HAPPEN

We're being visited tomorrow. If he's still there...

Forum: Why Me?

April 16th 2024, 05:28 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

It's almost guaranteed that you'll change your mind, or you lied to me, or you meant something else. You really shouldn't say things in writing if I can figure out within seconds of looking at the...

Forum: Why Me?

April 12th 2024, 07:26 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I FINALLY got it all sorted out, so OF COURSE you would CHANGE yours! I'm asking nicely for you to put mine back. Then I ask not so nicely, then I just call off. And, even if you say that wasn't...

Forum: Why Me?

April 5th 2024, 01:35 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I need a day off so bad, but I have no idea when my next one is. But, this is EXACTLY why I asked you NOT to give me a shift. I'm exhausted and I don't need it!

You have ONE chance to give me...

Forum: Why Me?

April 1st 2024, 07:23 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

So, technically it was my fault. But, if you hadn't been an ass hole, I wouldn't have wanted to get rid of you, and I would've done it right the first time, so, it's still partly your fault. If...

Forum: Why Me?

March 26th 2024, 05:45 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I only want to work when I'm not scheduled, explain that. I know what I want, and failing that, what I would be willing to accept. The problem is that it would take a miracle to get either. So, I...

Forum: Why Me?

March 18th 2024, 10:36 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I would only do that for you, and in return, I got shafted, and she didn't even speak to me; which may have another explanation, but is still off-putting. Maybe I'm not as welcome and wanted there...

Forum: Why Me?

March 13th 2024, 06:46 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Some of that was deserved, but if that's seriously going to be your issue EVERY time I touch them, then I'll either stop admitting it's me, or you can do them yourself.

So, I might've REALLY...

Forum: Why Me?

March 8th 2024, 03:33 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Something feels off, and it would help if I could check for my schedule, or reset my expired password from here instead of having to wait until it dies down tomorrow.

Worst fucking day, and I have...

Forum: Why Me?

March 2nd 2024, 03:20 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Assuming things don't get any worse, and I hold out that long, it could be another 3-6 months. And even then, I doubt it'll do any good..

Forum: Why Me?

February 25th 2024, 08:36 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Even if the position opens, she will 100% get it over me. That's what he means by "other things" he won't elaborate on, and it's how he's justifying everything.

I don't want to, but I need to if...

Forum: Why Me?

February 21st 2024, 03:11 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I need more hours from you, because he doesn't have them. But, you're screwing me now too, so I don't even want to see what you said in response.

I'm probably just overthinking, but knowing that...

Forum: Why Me?

February 12th 2024, 09:04 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I don't want to, but I will absolutely do so if necessary, you will NOT push me around. And she'd better be retiring, and those hours better come to me. 2 days at one, 3 at the other, no 15 hour...

Forum: Why Me?

February 8th 2024, 12:08 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

6 years, and I'm STILL fighting with these COMPLETELY INCOMPETENT idiots. If I STILL have coverage I shouldn't have, it's because YOU didn't do your fucking job, and I'm NOT paying the price for it....

Forum: Why Me?

February 2nd 2024, 10:43 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Every single Saturday except one that was already scheduled, and now all my shifts are overnights! I don't like you enough yet to do this willingly.

Forum: Why Me?

January 29th 2024, 04:47 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I really hope you didn't text the wrong person and that it's NOT truck day. I need the shift, but I HATE truck day.

You forced me to mess with it, and it's not my fault it's confusing. So, I...

Forum: Why Me?

January 26th 2024, 01:21 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Is he screwing me, not sending me the schedule, so I don't know, and this is just more excuses? Or is he telling the truth? I want to trust him, he's jerked me around, but has he royally f***ed me...

Forum: Why Me?

January 21st 2024, 04:39 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

He's trying to see if I'm going to quit, or maybe he wants to let me go, but he cares too much, so he wants to make sure if he does, I'll be okay with another job. Maybe that's just me being...

Forum: Why Me?

January 18th 2024, 04:28 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I don't have proof of any of this overthinking. But, considering how often I'm right about the scenarios I come up with, I have theories, and I'm just waiting for the truth to come out. And I'd...

Forum: Why Me?

January 15th 2024, 03:09 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Why would you transfer the prescriptions without refills, when I literally renewed them all before the end of the year to avoid this exact issue?! And fix your system so i can pay and be done with...

Forum: Why Me?

January 11th 2024, 05:02 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

What I didn't screw up, your nightmare of a system did! I will never enjoy it, but assuming the fucking thing cooperates and I can handle a no-receipt return, then I'm promotable, and you can't hold...

Forum: Why Me?

January 7th 2024, 11:00 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

No, I really don't want to go in tomorrow, especially for a day shift, especially after losing it today. But, I need the hours and you need the coverage.

Worst day in a long time, aside from...

Forum: Why Me?

January 2nd 2024, 09:00 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Yes, I know better, but I'm also working overnight tomorrow, and need my circadian rhythm as backwards as I can get it. So much for these being "rare" even I can't handle them this often.
...

Forum: Why Me?

December 28th 2023, 06:03 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I would only consider it because it should take about 5 minutes. But, it's not even close to worth risking. I can do it tomorrow.

I can only hope that that schedule isn't official yet. ...

Forum: Why Me?

December 24th 2023, 02:03 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

If things don't get better and/or you don't fix the schedule that you screwed up, then I have to decide if this is worth it. You said overnights would be "rare" 3/4 shifts is not even close. And if...

Forum: Why Me?

December 22nd 2023, 07:39 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

2 more shifts and I'll FINALLY get a break, but sensory overload almost fucking killed me first.

Forum: Why Me?

December 17th 2023, 05:07 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I'm not going to make it to Christmas with my sanity intact. And, with that new schedule, I now have to make it to New Years before things calm down. I avoided this because I knew my limits, and it...

Forum: Why Me?

December 13th 2023, 03:36 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

You'll either regret this or not, and do something about it, or not. If I'm as valuable as everyone says, then he shouldn't have to literally FIGHT you every month, to give me what I'm asking for. ...

Forum: Why Me?

December 9th 2023, 05:53 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Christmas can't come soon enough, I need my normal life back.

And, I still wish I didn't need both jobs. Even though it pays better, and can guarantee hours and advancement you can't, if you...

Forum: Why Me?

December 9th 2023, 05:53 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Forum: Why Me?

December 4th 2023, 08:54 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I don't want to do this and the nerves are finally setting in. I have to accept that, as obvious as it is to me and everyone else, I will never be what you want, and that you can be a decent human...

Forum: Why Me?

December 1st 2023, 05:34 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Change is never easy, and I'm dealing with a shit ton of it at once. I'm shocked my anxiety isn't through the roof, but I'm sure it will show up eventually. It was worse before I decided what to...

Forum: Why Me?

November 27th 2023, 06:26 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Part of me is still hoping for a miracle I won't get, so that I don't have to do this.

It's ironic that when I complain about the situation he's been forced to put me in, you say there's nothing...

Forum: Why Me?

November 24th 2023, 01:33 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I don't want to do this

Maybe the fact that there will always be somebody better is my answer.

Forum: Why Me?

November 21st 2023, 03:36 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I hate when my head and heart are at war with each other. Because logic usually wins, and the loss hurts like hell. This is so fucking stressful, and no matter what I end up doing, the outcome...

Forum: Why Me?

November 17th 2023, 04:01 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I guess I should've known better. This is the same shit that always happens. But, just the thought of having to take another job or leave is making me sick. And the fact that I'll continue to get...

Forum: Why Me?

November 9th 2023, 11:53 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

"I know you guys don't like it, but it could help me get promoted (to a job that isn't even open)"

I don't give a shit about your promotion because you have this selfish streak in pursing it that...

Forum: Why Me?

November 6th 2023, 07:21 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I knew as soon as I thought I wasn't going to catch this cold, I was doomed, and here it is.

Forum: Why Me?

October 23rd 2023, 07:35 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

The new hire is faster on her first day than I've gotten in a year. He can't promote if I can't hit standards. This is never going to happen. I'm not capable, I'm going to fail, and I'm going to...

Forum: Why Me?

October 18th 2023, 07:53 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I finally get what I want, and instead of what I've looked forward to, it's going to be miserable, because the stress is getting to him, and he's taking it out on me.
The fact that I'm conflicted...

Forum: Why Me?

October 15th 2023, 02:30 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Either it's never going to happen, it's never going to happen, and he already knows that, I'll be ready with no openings, or, I just have to be more patient, while I'm right about all of these...

Forum: Why Me?

October 11th 2023, 05:45 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

The FUCKING AUDACITY of these people; who have NO right to say ANYTHING or to treat me, or anyone else like that! You manage the way they treat me, or I will leave. You may allow them to treat me...

Forum: Why Me?

October 5th 2023, 07:41 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Well, at least you know what I'm dealing with here. I'm becoming more and more convinced it just won't happen. Between that, the fact that I'll never get keys if I can't count money, and that I...

Forum: Why Me?

September 25th 2023, 03:11 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

If this really happens, I'll probably need to go back to therapy. Which I will need a consistent schedule to plan for, and I don't know if I'll get that either. And WHY am I looking forward to it...

Forum: Why Me?

September 21st 2023, 08:43 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

You said yourself, it's all or nothing which means failure is immanent. The only thing more painful than giving up on myself, is working my ass off to lose it anyway. And if I'm not promotable, I'm...

Forum: Why Me?

September 19th 2023, 09:20 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

When you make me do a million things, none actually get done

I give up. The fact that no is a possibility means that no is the answer. It won't happen because I can't do it and I'm not wasting...

Forum: Why Me?

September 17th 2023, 07:51 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Now I wonder if I should've just given her the website, instead of your number. But, you did say that if I knew of anybody who was looking, I could give it out. And she's out of a job tomorrow, on...

Forum: Why Me?

September 13th 2023, 02:18 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Your communication rules are stupid. You expect everyone to automatically know what to do, but also force them to tell us every 2 seconds. But, the big things, no one has to mention those! Make up...

Forum: Why Me?

September 12th 2023, 09:16 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Probably not my smartest decision, but it's livable. And I'll feel better about it once I get paid and confirm that it's really done. Plus, with everyone gone, hours should be coming up because he...

Forum: Why Me?

September 8th 2023, 05:30 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Training me means TRAINING me. He's expecting me to be ready by now because I SHOUD BE. And, we've had this discussion before: If I can't be fired for not doing it, then I'm NOT DOING IT (and you...

Forum: Why Me?

September 6th 2023, 07:24 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

If you're back, I don't know why he's still working so much. And I hope that you're really stepping up; not just doing the bare minimum and leaving again because you aren't "supposed" to be here,...

Forum: Why Me?

September 2nd 2023, 06:49 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

It figures, 3/4 of those positions open, and I'm best fit for the one that's not! And I don't know why me wanting jr. management after 6 YEARS is such a shock to people!

You may have covered me...

Forum: Why Me?

August 24th 2023, 03:19 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I want to trust you so badly, but I feel like I'll just be putting more effort into something else that will fall apart on me. And part of me feels like you're telling me things just to pacify me so...

Forum: Why Me?

August 20th 2023, 06:20 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Now that I know I'm FINALLY getting my review tomorrow (3 months late, because they forgot about me. Again), I'm not sure how I feel about it. I got the raise, so it can't be that bad, but I've...

Forum: Why Me?

August 19th 2023, 05:50 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I've had glasses for about 30 years, and they're NEVER ready in 3 days. I'm half expecting something to be wrong with them.

Forum: Why Me?

August 16th 2023, 03:55 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I really hope tomorrow doesn't suck like it looks like it will. And, if you know we're being visited, why are you off AGAIN?!

I am NOT picking up her slack, and I will absolutely tell him off...

Forum: Why Me?

August 15th 2023, 05:54 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I'm expecting them to either fight with me, or for this to be pointless. If she had only done her fucking job, I wouldn't have to put up with this crap.

Forum: Why Me?

August 11th 2023, 06:45 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Yeah, you'd BETTER fix some things. And then stick around long enough for them to actually happen. That's aside from I fucking told you that the second you leave, they screw me. And apparently,...

Forum: Why Me?

August 7th 2023, 01:52 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I could be wrong, but I said no for a reason and I have a feeling, I'm going to be right AGAIN, and this will be ONE more thing this fucking diagnosis is going to take from me.

At this point I...

Forum: Why Me?

August 2nd 2023, 06:21 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Since no one understands what the fuck ADA means, and it's financial January, I have no choice but to try the register. And if I melt or shut down in front of customers, then I fucking told you so. ...

Forum: Why Me?

July 30th 2023, 03:26 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Forget helping other stores, ours is falling apart and if you don't get your ass back in there for more than 2 minutes and handle my schedule yourself, you'll lose me. I won't have a choice but to...

Forum: Why Me?

July 21st 2023, 02:30 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I feel weird and I don't like it. I'm bored and we need our GM back ASAP so he can do the schedule correctly before everyone revolts.

Less than 20 hours this week, fucking awesome. But, I close...

Forum: Why Me?

July 14th 2023, 10:18 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

You are the ONLY one allowed to touch my schedule from now on! She seems hell-bent on fucking me over and I'm SICK of it

And no, as badly as I want the hours, I'm not working 10+ days in a row...

Forum: Why Me?

July 13th 2023, 02:22 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

If I assume that she's right and this is my answer, then you're at least worth the conversation. I respect you enough to make sure you understand where it's coming from. It's one thing if there...

Forum: Why Me?

July 8th 2023, 06:08 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I'm mentally preparing myself for the same or fewer hours, and the conversation I don't want to have again. As amazing as the people are, it's been bait and switch and red flags from the beginning,...

Forum: Why Me?

July 5th 2023, 03:28 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I don't know why I'm excited to close with him tomorrow. Given my short shift, he'll probably be in the office by the time I get there, and I won't even see him.

Forum: Why Me?

July 1st 2023, 02:39 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

You'd BETTER take care of it. Because if you think I need to calm down now, you haven't even BEGUN to see me MAD. But, since I reminded you you JUST said this wouldn't happen, and you tried to...

Forum: Why Me?

June 29th 2023, 08:17 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

If you are out there again making that noise at the crack of dawn, I'm losing it.

And I don't understand why I have to go out of my way on my day off for this; especially since I ended up going...

Forum: Why Me?

June 22nd 2023, 07:39 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Yes, I'm in a mood because SO IS EVERYOME ELSE who can't be bothered to use the FUCKING COMMUNION DEVICES and get pissy because the GM told them to do something you don't like! Get off your God damn...

Forum: Why Me?

June 17th 2023, 08:38 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

When someone else is on their break in the break room with you, TURN YOUR FUCKING PHONE DOWN!

Forum: Why Me?

June 16th 2023, 07:00 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I either need a vacation, (which is unpaid so I can't afford it), more than one day off at a time, a shift in the back, or maybe a couple of shorter ones. Not enough to destroy my income, but enough...

Forum: Why Me?

June 15th 2023, 06:19 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I find it ironic that I'm so invaluable that you need and expect me to get too much done in not enough time, and yet can't for the life of you REMEMBER my fucking BREAKS! And get mad when you...

Forum: Why Me?

June 10th 2023, 07:39 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Cover your mouth when you cough (at work after having Covid), and DON'T chew with your mouth open.

I'm 99.9% sure that I just triggered myself and I'm being paranoid. Part of me wants to talk to...

Forum: Why Me?

June 6th 2023, 05:26 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

It's supposed to be fixed, she took it to the DEALER for fuck sake! If it dies ONE more time, she's going to get a new one. As much as she loves this car and doesn't want to, it literally has one...

Forum: Why Me?

June 3rd 2023, 12:06 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

scheduled 7 days in a row, but at least I didn't find out until I was almost halfway though.

The only thing worse than 9-hour Sunday floor shifts are 9-hour markdown shifts. And after tomorrow, I...

Forum: Why Me?

May 29th 2023, 03:30 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I was told I would have access to that email "forever", but they switched companies and I lost access. Which means I no longer have the few emails from the amazing professor who just died. I...

Forum: Why Me?

May 28th 2023, 08:09 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I don't see my favorite manager until Wednesday now.

And this death is hitting me differently than I thought it would. He was one of those extremely rare people who are just amazing and knowing...

Forum: Why Me?

May 24th 2023, 02:42 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

What is the point of building big teams if you're going to pull EVERYBODY but me to do something else?! And I want this fucking review over with ASAP, so you can tell me for the 4th time that...

Forum: Why Me?

May 20th 2023, 03:46 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Anything in writing will come back to bite me in the ass, so I was careful. He knows everything I could possibly come up with anyway, so I'm not digging my own grave. One day off before a 17-hour...

Forum: Why Me?

May 19th 2023, 03:46 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

It's pointless because you've created a culture where we can come to you with anything and you HANDLE it immediately. Anything I would bring up, we've already talked about, probably more than once. ...

Forum: Why Me?

May 15th 2023, 07:09 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Grow up, asshole. If that was a typo, you have the wrong generation; if not, you're a disgusting excuse for a human being.

Tomorrow is everything I hate about a shift, long, early, and on the...

Forum: Why Me?

May 12th 2023, 03:04 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I'm ready for a day off, but 8-hours tomorrow first; and I don't see my favorite manager until Tuesday :(

Forum: Why Me?

May 9th 2023, 01:42 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I got a therapist specifically so he didn't become my therapist; and it happened anyway.

Yes completely unrealistic expectations, that could only ever be met by robots, trigger the shit out of me....

Forum: Why Me?

May 5th 2023, 03:53 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I don't know why it's different with her, but your entire team is feeling it. So, I'm going to bring it up until you LISTEN and DEAL with it. You think we're slow and non-compliant now, wait until...

Forum: Why Me?

April 30th 2023, 07:23 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

As SOON as I get decent hours back, we hire?! I see how it is. The fact that you like me may be job security for now. But, if you think it means you can jerk me around or take advantage of the...

Forum: Why Me?

April 29th 2023, 05:37 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

An 8-hour Saturday because I agreed to stay before you realized you didn't need me, for someone I'm almost positive doesn't really want me to. Fucking awesome. Then a long Sunday and long and early...

Forum: Why Me?

April 26th 2023, 01:18 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

This review will be very interesting. The guy who can't sugarcoat anything hasn't had anything negative to say, but the atmosphere has shifted the last 2 days, I'm no longer comfortable and I'm...

Forum: Why Me?

April 23rd 2023, 05:36 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I'm desperate for a day off, I get the whole weekend and I'm bored by the first day. Still better than work though, I guess. I need a life.

Yes, I mind. That's why I'm not answering, take the...

Forum: Why Me?

April 19th 2023, 02:07 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I am getting REALLY sick of you not UNDERSTANDING shit! It goes to the INSURANCE COMPANY, not the doctor, THEY were supposed to send it FOR ME and YES I threw away the PAPER versions, it's in my...

Forum: Why Me?

April 14th 2023, 02:37 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Are you fucking kidding me, is all I'm going to say right now. But, if this is still gnawing at me on Monday, or if something else happens before then that adds to it, we WILL have a conversation...

Forum: Why Me?

April 10th 2023, 01:51 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I really hope I'm hanging tomorrow, but I don't think the truck had that much apparel on it. I would tolerate markdowns, they just take FOREVER. And hopefully the car starts. Just because my...

Forum: Why Me?

April 4th 2023, 11:58 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

So, even though I've known for AT LEAST 3 MONTHS that I need new glasses, I have to either find an optometrist to verify it or wait at least 4 MORE MONTHS to get them because you couldn't be...

Forum: Why Me?

April 1st 2023, 03:20 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

They both get the whole weekend off and I'm forced to survive insanely long shifts for the next 3 days! In theory, he gave them a break, so someone else could have the hours. And the hours are up,...

Forum: Why Me?

March 25th 2023, 03:02 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

It's barely 11:30, and even with caffeine, I'm exhausted. But, at least I can sleep as late as I want tomorrow

I hope the 7-hour shift I picked up on the morning of my day off is a hanging shift...

Forum: Why Me?

March 23rd 2023, 03:23 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

That wasn't there when I got here, so I did what it said and he told me to hang. Not my fault.

Forum: Why Me?

March 23rd 2023, 03:01 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

So, I picked up a morning shift on my day off to help you out, you weren't even there, and she complained within my earshot to someone else that I was working too slow. You either want me there or...

Forum: Why Me?

March 21st 2023, 08:07 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

This is chaos for my neurodivergent brain and I fucking hate it.

WHY did I pick up a 5-hour morning shift on my DAY OFF?!

Things are changing and I don't like it. I don't know if it's just...

Forum: Why Me?

March 19th 2023, 06:41 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Thanks for CLEARLY implying that I'll quit my job within a year of starting it. I've had to think about it, but I love the managers too much. And yes, there's a part of me that thinks that I'm...

Forum: Why Me?

March 16th 2023, 01:32 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Something is going on that I don't have the details of, and I don't like it. I know not everything is my business, and maybe ignorance is bliss. And that's fine, but a lack of information makes me...

Forum: Why Me?

March 14th 2023, 03:15 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I hope this pharmacy is better because the people at the other one are STUPID. HOW did I get 2 MONTHS of prescriptions when you aren't in-network?! For the MILLIONTH time, I DO NOT HAVE MEDICAID!!!!

Forum: Why Me?

March 11th 2023, 04:22 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I won't see my favorite manager all week.

And I've been without one of my meds for days because the doctor's office wouldn't fill it, and now the pharmacy DOESN'T HAVE ANY WTF?!

Forum: Why Me?

March 5th 2023, 02:15 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

The favoritism is incredibly obvious. And either, you shouldn't have offered that as an accommodation (because you can't make it reasonably work), or someone needs to review the ADA. Because,...

Forum: Why Me?

February 25th 2023, 07:29 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I FINALLY got put back on the schedule; it's supposed to be getting better, not worse. Either keeping me off the register shouldn't have been offered as the accommodation, or you need to look at...

Forum: Why Me?

February 20th 2023, 01:08 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

If that's your threshold for complaining, then I'm not your problem. My first official complaint EVER and I've had A LOT worse than you. I hope you're proud of yourself bitch.

I should've...

Forum: Why Me?

February 15th 2023, 02:12 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Are we hiring again after you JUST said we weren't, because we don't have the hours to give as it is; and that I couldn't be considered for open positions, even if we were?! Saturday can't come soon...

Forum: Why Me?

February 9th 2023, 07:52 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I'm torn about going back to work, but I definitely want my favorite manager to come back from vacation.

At some point, sure. But, not while I'm having to consider (or actually juggle) 2 jobs.

Forum: Why Me?

February 5th 2023, 08:01 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Even if you want to give me 4 hours instead of 5, I'll take it. I'm SO fucking BORED and I still have to wait until Friday to work again. That alone is reason enough that this situation better...

Forum: Why Me?

January 30th 2023, 08:10 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I literally can't with you. I need her for THIS exact reason. I try to explain that I have no options and that the things we did did NOTHING and I "don't need to yell" at you. But, I talk normal...

Forum: Why Me?

January 29th 2023, 11:59 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

That was literally the EXACT answer I was afraid I would get. So, either you're wrong, doing it badly will have to be enough, or I'll be moving on soon. Because you just told me I have no future...

Forum: Why Me?

January 24th 2023, 07:44 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

5 hours that will end up being less than that, and I'm one of the lucky ones. You are amazing, I know your hands are tied, but my bills don't give a shit why. I'm not walking away from the best...

Forum: Why Me?

January 21st 2023, 04:13 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

"If all these other people can move up, then so can you."

Nope, that's not how it works. There has to be an opportunity available. That I'm qualified for. That my disability doesn't prevent...

Forum: Why Me?

January 20th 2023, 02:27 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

You just HAD to fucking spiral me. You couldn't leave well enough alone. I don't even want to bother having the conversations because I already know the answer is that I'm permanently stuck in a...

Forum: Why Me?

January 18th 2023, 01:46 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

And the toilet is broken again and was running for 5 hours. What part of we need a new one are you not understanding.

Forum: Why Me?

January 14th 2023, 06:45 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

How hard is it to not come to work while vomiting?! You don't need money that bad, and we're all exposed to whatever the fuck for coming in NOT sick.

I don't want to wake up early to do this, and...

Forum: Why Me?

January 12th 2023, 04:59 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I want to tell him everything, and that's exactly why I can't. Not only is everything in the world wrong with it, but the LAST thing he needs is to deal with me.

I don't like it, but it's none of...

Forum: Why Me?

January 10th 2023, 07:21 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

This is exhausting, I hope it pays off.

Forum: Why Me?

January 7th 2023, 05:48 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

It may be because he likes me and wants to work with me more, but I'm going to be EXHAUSTED. And if I pace myself, they're going to complain that I'm too slow.

Whoever decided to schedule...

Forum: Why Me?

December 27th 2022, 05:05 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I know and hate that I do this. I think I know why, but that doesn't really help. This tendency is a real problem.

Forum: Why Me?

December 22nd 2022, 07:59 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I don't get paid when I call off anymore, and I took a pay cut. But, it's never worth the risk.

Forum: Why Me?

December 21st 2022, 03:38 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Maybe I overestimated because I didn't realize that, but add in the sympathy and it's okay.

Forum: Why Me?

December 16th 2022, 10:47 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I desperately need to go back to therapy before I lose/quit this job, or burden (the most amazing) managers. But, the receptionists leave at 4:30 and get the weekend off.

12 hours are you...

Forum: Why Me?

December 14th 2022, 04:19 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I don't know why I'm excited about this, it's not going to be fun. And with my luck, he probably won't even be there tomorrow.

Forum: Why Me?

December 2nd 2022, 08:55 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Right. Because you hadn't just seen me in the back and knew I was INCAPABLE of getting that. And thought that I didn't hear you the first 3 times you've told me. But, no. Let's make sure to say...

Forum: Why Me?

November 26th 2022, 06:27 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I figured it out. When I told him it was easiest to give me a task and let me go, he listened, they didn't. If you tell me to do something, you have to let me DO it. Or, I'm going to wonder why...

Forum: Why Me?

November 24th 2022, 06:25 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

It's not horrible, but it's not great either. Once she's gone, it'll be better, but is the one manager worth staying for through the nitpicking, micromanaging, and the pay cut?

I apologized...

Forum: Why Me?

November 20th 2022, 04:59 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I know it doesn't technically qualify as micromanaging, but I will forever hate having to constantly check in with, and respond to management while being told what to do and when I can take my...

Forum: Why Me?

November 19th 2022, 04:19 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

You seriously need to fucking chill. And since you ended up keeping me until 10, I was technically owed the second break I never got. I really hope we're working under him tomorrow, because as much...

Forum: Why Me?

November 16th 2022, 01:32 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Our oven finally died and the TV is acting up. At least once it's fixed or replaced, it'll be over with. But, we now have a ton of frozen food we can't make and I don't want to think about how...

Forum: Why Me?

November 15th 2022, 12:29 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I really wish there was a shift option between open and close, where I didn't have to get up at the crack of dawn, and also got to leave on time.

And I hope, not for the customer's sake, that when...

Forum: Why Me?

November 12th 2022, 03:43 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Well, that figures. I finally bit the bullet and bought a new laptop, only for this one to suddenly stop having all the issues I've been putting up with for MONTHS, within less than an hour of...

Forum: Why Me?

November 9th 2022, 10:38 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I hate having to tell people and get permission for everything. I came in, did my job and left for 5 years and no one gave a shit. I took my breaks when I wanted. They knew when I was there, had...

Forum: Why Me?

November 8th 2022, 06:08 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I never want to go to work, but it's almost always fine once I get there and I'm getting shorter, later shifts now with management who appreciate the hell out of me, and treat me wonderfully 99% of...

Forum: Why Me?

November 4th 2022, 04:07 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I've never felt more in the way in my entire life. Part of your job is to train and get your job done without taking the frustration out on us who HAVE to learn everything ASAP

So, you're...

Forum: Why Me?

October 30th 2022, 11:18 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I hate that I have NO realistic idea of how I'm really doing because they're being overly encouraging to everybody. It's like I'm waiting for my first performance review to finally get the truth out...

Forum: Why Me?

October 28th 2022, 12:55 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I hate feeling like I have to be babysat and then wondering if it's actually a reality and they're just being nice, or if it's really not true. They keep telling me it's fine, but I've never felt my...

Forum: Why Me?

October 24th 2022, 01:59 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I really need a day off. Even with part-time hours, more breaks than I'm used to, and longer lunches, these long shifts that start early are killing me.

The only thing I've done so far should be...

Forum: Why Me?

October 19th 2022, 11:27 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

This no closing shifts until we open thing is bullshit. I'm exhausted. And so is the GIANT paper in the office with the schedule by initials. Get us into the system already! And WHY are we still...

Forum: Why Me?

October 16th 2022, 04:20 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I'm not comfortable yet, so this anxiety is crushing, and for some reason I got an extra pay check which isn't helping. No, I don't want to do 7.5 hours tomorrow, but at least it's slightly shorter...

Forum: Why Me?

October 15th 2022, 01:21 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I survived, but holy fuck! It was the longest 8 hours of my life and everything hurts. Based on just today, I wouldn't give me the full-time, so I'm not expecting to get it. Just give me something...

Forum: Why Me?

October 11th 2022, 10:38 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

You claim to have done this several times before, so why is it so fucking disorganized?! I apply for full-time, only to be told I have to reapply for part-time to be considered, which is the same...

Forum: Why Me?

October 10th 2022, 06:51 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Sometimes I look back and wonder how long I was actually taken advantage of. I think it was a lot longer than I realized. Never again.

I've learned enough about forcing things to want to leave...

Forum: Why Me?

October 4th 2022, 07:40 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I'm torn between nagging and not nagging. They're disorganized enough they may have actually forgotten about me. But, part of me wants to wait and let things happen however they're going to.

Forum: Why Me?

October 1st 2022, 07:16 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I'm kind of wishing I hadn't taken it after they bait and switched me, but I would probably feel the same way about any job in a new environment. It's not like doomsday anxiety, just the regular...

Forum: Why Me?

September 28th 2022, 02:04 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Anxiety and having to be there at the crack of dawn (for me) tomorrow will make for a fun night tonight. But, at least I know everything on my end is done, the other email never came. I'm sensing a...

Forum: Why Me?

September 25th 2022, 08:06 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Repeated rejection is taking a toll on me. I can usually move on within a few days or be totally fine not getting one. But, if I lose out on this last one, I will be very disappointed.

I got it,...

Forum: Why Me?

September 20th 2022, 01:04 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

This had better be the last one, because I am legitimately out of options. Even if I don't stay as long, it's easier to get one with one, and I can use my money to move on once I know I have more...

Forum: Why Me?

September 16th 2022, 01:38 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Can't remember if I took my meds or not, and counting them revealed that I'm missing 2 which is no help. I don't remember taking it for the life of me, but the withdrawal should be worse than this...

Forum: Why Me?

September 13th 2022, 05:36 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

THIS is why I think they're bashing me. I give availability for an interview when asked, and they just ignore me.

If I got an offer, it would be too good to pass up, but I'd definitely be out of...

Forum: Why Me?

September 10th 2022, 02:41 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

That was 3 weeks, not 2 months, it only feels like it. WHY didn't I just tell her no and walk away. I'll definitely be cancelling that.

Forum: Why Me?

September 6th 2022, 08:18 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I'd give up, but I can't afford to. I'm never going to work again, am I?

And yes, I blame you. If not for you getting rid of me on purpose for no reason, I'd be gainfully employed and making...

Forum: Why Me?

August 31st 2022, 08:00 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I see where you got that now. It's conservative right-wing bullshit. Unless that logic also applies to my abortion rights, you're just a hypocrite.

WHY the fuck would you send me a message...

Forum: Why Me?

August 25th 2022, 06:19 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I don't want to do these, they never get easier. But, the alternative is unemployment. I have a feeling tomorrow would be a better fit unless I'm doing math. The "fast-paced call center" concept...

Forum: Why Me?

August 17th 2022, 04:31 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

It's a long shot anyway. But, if I get a chance at it, I hope it's not too far, because that would be a good one.

It's REALLY starting to feel like I'm never going to work again.

Forum: Why Me?

August 7th 2022, 12:02 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Any time I start to regret the way it went down and the possible consequences, I remember that it was basically my only option.

Just one more way society is fucked up. You very clearly and...

Forum: Why Me?

August 5th 2022, 03:54 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I'm not going to call and nag people. If they want me, they'll let me know, if they don't they don't, and if they can't, then I wouldn't want to work for them anyway.

I know its worse for you,...

Forum: Why Me?

August 1st 2022, 07:32 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I'm not crushed that I bombed that, but this is harder than I thought. At least I can take a break for a couple weeks.

Forum: Why Me?

July 30th 2022, 07:04 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Even if I had put in notice, not going in, or calling them off would've still left me in poor standing with a bad review.

I am not okay and I do and don't know why. I miss what I had (and him)...

Forum: Why Me?

July 27th 2022, 10:56 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

This one isn't my fault. I've applied to several, so they all run together and this is the ONLY one that even mentions it. Plus, I had ghosted them expecting an interview for a better fit to go...

Forum: Why Me?

July 26th 2022, 07:22 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I don't know if this would be worth it, it's A LOT but the only other interview I have is too far away, unless they offer me A LOT of money and amazing benefits.

Forum: Why Me?

July 25th 2022, 03:03 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I'm beyond blacklisted. What the fuck are you telling people?! At this rate, I'm never going to work again.

Forum: Why Me?

July 21st 2022, 12:47 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

There might've been a "better" way to do it, but I still have no regrets. Because the thought of doing it the "right" way literally made me sick BEFORE the last time she screwed me. Now if that...

Forum: Why Me?

July 18th 2022, 02:19 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

It would literally take a miracle, so the chances are less than zero, but there's a tiny part of me that believes in karma and poetic justice, holding out hope.

And it sucks that the next closest...

Forum: Why Me?

July 14th 2022, 05:04 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I'm starting to want to go back because the money and benefits were unmatched. But, you had to ruin it for me for no fucking reason. Now, I'm hoping for a job with a massive pay cut and expecting...

Forum: Why Me?

July 12th 2022, 06:50 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I really hope he isn't, but you're making it sound like he's fucking dying, or that you'll have to retire him months after getting him. How does no one catch these things?!

Forum: Why Me?

July 9th 2022, 05:54 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Covid test was negative, but whatever this is is miserable right now

Edit: 2 days later and mom and I are both positive. Ugh.

Well, a job is a job. Even at a major pay cut. it's better than...

Forum: Why Me?

July 3rd 2022, 02:28 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

The only downside, besides the obvious, is that I'm going to get extremely bored.

And if you try to process it as a termination and deny me my
vacation time pay out, I WILL FIGHT YOU. Doing it...

Forum: Why Me?

June 28th 2022, 02:51 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

With my luck neither of them will be there and not a word will be spoken to me. But, regardless, the amount of leverage I have is undeniable and my threats to walk are not empty.

I know and...

Forum: Why Me?

June 23rd 2022, 12:07 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I love how you don't require the questions, but then respond by refusing to move forward with my application until I answer the questions you didn't make me answer. Shit like this is why people hate...

Forum: Why Me?

June 19th 2022, 07:49 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Yes, I'm calling off again. No, I don't give a fuck. Quit screwing me over and give me my hours back. You wanted her, you got her. And if she can call off 3 days straight in her first month with...

Forum: Why Me?

June 15th 2022, 11:24 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

"You might've talked yourself out of a job." Well, fuck. I thought it went well, except that freaked him out, but once I disclosed, he showed me and said it could be accommodated. So, fingers...

Forum: Why Me?

June 6th 2022, 02:30 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I'd give up, but I can't afford to. Playing favorites much?! Even if it didn't work out with her, I know now I'd NEVER get it because you'd rather screw everybody over until they quit than admit...

Forum: Why Me?

May 31st 2022, 05:40 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Trying not to count the chickens before they hatch, but I'd be surprised if I didn't get that. Which is shocking because it really didn't go that well. Found the link she didn't send and filled it...

Forum: Why Me?

May 29th 2022, 08:11 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

What if I take one on to make this work, only for them to screw me in return and I end up fired? If they want to screw me, they will and they obviously want rid of me. This bitch needs to get the...

Forum: Why Me?

May 25th 2022, 06:23 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I NEED more money, but these salaries aren't even close to competitive. Even if I stay for the high wage and the benefits, I need another job which is proving impossible to find. With almost 5...

Forum: Why Me?

May 23rd 2022, 07:01 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I want to believe it's all for a reason that will some day make sense, but I don't see how any of it has worked out. Like, after everything I survived, this was the "better" I held on for? Is this...

Forum: Why Me?

May 19th 2022, 01:06 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I can't tell you how badly I want to call off tomorrow, but considering that all the available jobs are miserable with no money, I'm going to be stuck there FOREVER.

Calling off because I just...

Forum: Why Me?

May 16th 2022, 04:03 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Even if we assume that's the case, you're still a shitty manager. Giving me the hours would've been a lot cheaper than the cost of onboarding a new hire and then paying us both. So, this explains a...

Forum: Why Me?

May 12th 2022, 07:41 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Well, if you did your job right, it wouldn't be an issue would it?! You don't get to complain about problems you brought on yourself after your actions made everyone quit.

Forum: Why Me?

May 12th 2022, 01:00 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I guess I'm taking this job, but the fact that I was hesitant means something. As does the fact that she's giving me time to decide! I could always do both, at least for awhile, which is probably...

Forum: Why Me?

May 9th 2022, 05:36 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I will NEVER enjoy these.

Even if that wasn't too far away, they are unnecessarily strict so I'd never get it. I fucking hate this, and that it's the position I've been placed in by shitty...

Forum: Why Me?

May 5th 2022, 03:37 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I just don't fucking want to. Things were perfectly fine before you, and now I'm only left with bad options because staying isn't one of them.

Exactly as I thought. That means one of two things....

Forum: Why Me?

May 2nd 2022, 03:33 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

That was never in the post and it's never been an option in that department. There was NO WAY for me to know unless I was TOLD, and considering that you "don't have to tell me anything!" I was...

Forum: Why Me?

April 30th 2022, 05:05 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

Can I stick it out long enough to get the money I'm owed, or at this point does it not matter enough? I'm looking at at least another month, and I don't know if I can hold on that long.

Forum: Why Me?

April 26th 2022, 07:14 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I want to let my guard down, but I can't. Anxiety is gone, but if I relax, I could end up blindsided again. And if that happens I want to be mad. I refuse to give them the satisfaction of seeing...

Forum: Why Me?

April 23rd 2022, 03:12 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

The 13 hours between shifts SUCKS. The fact that tomorrow is an early and 8-hour weekend shift where I potentially get into it with my manager... I'm NOT looking forward to this.

I realize I'm...

Forum: Why Me?

April 20th 2022, 05:40 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I literally couldn't care less anymore. Part of me hopes I get to quit just to get out. And part of me hopes I get it because I deserve to, everyone knows it, and if I don't, there won't be a valid...

Forum: Why Me?

April 18th 2022, 05:20 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I really wanted to have that sandwich for my birthday, and it doesn't look like they have it anymore.

Forum: Why Me?

April 15th 2022, 01:53 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

This headache is insane. I'm about to schedule an appointment for them. Enough is enough.

Today was ROUGH for some reason. Then I walked off with the radio, almost forgot to sign the tax form...

Forum: Why Me?

April 11th 2022, 07:26 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

This is just my brain doing what it does. Part genuine concern, part coping mechanism. Kind of wish it wouldn't, but it's done worse.

Forum: Why Me?

April 7th 2022, 12:44 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I don't know why I want to try that again I've already failed to get it at least 3 times. But, it would solve the income issue and I know I can handle it.

If I were sure that were true, I'd quit...

Forum: Why Me?

April 4th 2022, 08:06 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

We have SO much proof that's not true. STOP SAYING IT!

You obviously have the hours. The fact that you don't want to pay me is not my problem. Give me them back or I'll find someone who will. ...

Forum: Why Me?

March 31st 2022, 04:59 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

One more thing this fucking disability has cost me. Is there NOTHING I'm capable of?! How the hell am I supposed to live and support myself if I get "nicely" let go from EVERY job I've ever had...

Forum: Why Me?

March 28th 2022, 11:36 PM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

I fucking knew it, if they can't come up with an accommodation that helps, I'm going to have to quit. Fuck this disability. And I just realized I made ANOTHER mistake! Nothing I can do about it...

Forum: Why Me?

March 26th 2022, 06:08 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

If you switch my day off permanently, I will literally NEVER have any. Not that you give a shit about anybody but yourselves and your little clique that tolerates your bullshit.

Forum: Why Me?

March 23rd 2022, 01:01 AM

Replies: 10,627

Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.

Views: 334,210

Posted By Kate*

Re: Screaming thread.

My job could be posted again, but considering that with just 2 of us, I already don't have enough hours, if you hire someone else or over me again, it will just remind me of every reason I took the...

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