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Forum: Games and Things Yesterday, 04:33 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I've done it for 4 months now, and the only things I've learned is that you still don't know what accommodation or disability means, and I was right about my abilities the whole time. You said I had...
Forum: Games and Things April 14th 2024, 07:13 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If you're stringing me along until I'm a neurotypical extrovert, you may as well tell me I'll be promotable when I get taller. I'm not sure you really get that. Also, I think she's doing my review,...
Forum: Games and Things April 8th 2024, 04:11 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Are you understanding the part where I'm not available for full-time hours ONLY because I got another job so I could STAY with you, after you told me I would NEVER have full-time hours again? Yet...
Forum: Games and Things March 29th 2024, 05:42 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

As someone who's had more than his fair share of privileges because the manager is your friend, you don't get to complain about things not being fair.

This is why I said, and will continue to say,...
Forum: Games and Things March 18th 2024, 10:27 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

When we eventually have the conversation that lays it all on the table, it's going to be VERY interesting. If you weren't as good a person as you are, I'd say you don't deserve me.
Forum: Games and Things March 11th 2024, 05:45 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If you value family time that much, and I'm not saying you shouldn't, then you're in the wrong business.

STOP complaining to me about your hours. You are full-time, yours are guaranteed, I was...
Forum: Games and Things March 3rd 2024, 11:30 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Thank God I have leverage for now, because 90 days in, and you're already trying to screw me over. But, for the record, I ASKED, I didn't TELL you, I made ZERO mention of it, and you'd have nothing...
Forum: Games and Things February 29th 2024, 05:14 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I kind of hope you're back in tomorrow, but I'm not sure if I'll be happy to see you, or just want to yell at you.

I see what you're doing, the least you could do is respect me enough to admit...
Forum: Games and Things February 26th 2024, 04:13 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Personally, I don't think you're doing well enough that you can afford screwing over some of your most loyal and dependable employees, (or take the risk of being accused of discrimination.) But,...
Forum: Games and Things February 21st 2024, 07:21 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You keep saying, when your youngest graduates, you can leave and go anywhere you want. I mean it when I say that if you leave, I leave. Even if it's years away.

And, I know you're jealous. ...
Forum: Games and Things February 17th 2024, 12:49 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm watching closely and considering my options carefully. Don't think for one second that I will let you jerk me around. Especially with seniority and protection on my side.
Forum: Games and Things February 5th 2024, 10:47 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

The fact that I only get my schedule, and not the whole thing makes me suspicious. But, I know you mostly open, and all of my few shifts are mornings now, so I wonder if that's a coincidence. Or,...
Forum: Games and Things January 16th 2024, 10:32 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Say whatever negative things about it that you want, and they're all true. But, it means that I really trust you. You might be a hypocrite of the highest order, you might screw me over, and I may...
Forum: Games and Things January 1st 2024, 01:30 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I HATE having to bother you multiple times, especially knowing you're on vacation. But, if you had sent me the schedules like you agreed to do, I wouldn't have to. So, it's kind of your own fault. ...
Forum: Games and Things December 23rd 2023, 04:49 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

What part of "Night owl turned vampire, who got off at 11:30 last night" are you not understanding?! You insist on making me work mornings, despite knowing that he has me work nights. I'm exhausted...
Forum: Games and Things December 14th 2023, 05:20 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I want to trust your words, but your actions speak louder. "We're both doing what we have to do for right now." "I'm proud of you, I would've done the same thing." This was the best decision under...
Forum: Games and Things December 3rd 2023, 03:37 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You can have great qualities and still screw people over. You knew exactly what you were doing, and I would've had more respect for you if you just admitted it.


I'm 99.99% sure it's never...
Forum: Games and Things November 29th 2023, 06:17 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I want to believe what you say, and that you want to keep me, but I feel like you really don't. That the promotion I want, and even full-time will never come. That you already know that, and just...
Forum: Games and Things November 20th 2023, 07:56 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

The situation is hard enough, but this makes it so much worse. I guess "The road to Hell is paved with good intentions." is true. In an effort to avoid crushing me, because you love people so much,...
Forum: Games and Things November 17th 2023, 06:02 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

As sick as it makes me to think about, I think this was the last straw. It's a shame you're probably going to lose who you admit is one of your best employees over bureaucracy and policy, but here...
Forum: Games and Things November 14th 2023, 03:58 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I may struggle with criticism, but at least I'm not immature, petty, and passive-aggressive to the point of demoting myself or getting myself fired for being stupid. I assume by now you realize what...
Forum: Games and Things November 11th 2023, 02:10 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I need full-time, or I have to leave; and not because I want to. If I'm not getting them now, I'm sure as hell never getting them, and I can't do this anymore.
Forum: Games and Things November 7th 2023, 06:25 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I hope he was just wrong; because otherwise you BLATENTLY lied to me.
Forum: Games and Things November 4th 2023, 04:18 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You need to stop contradicting yourself. It's infuriating. "I can't promote someone who can't hit standards." and explaining that if I couldn't meet said standards, you would let me down easy.
...
Forum: Games and Things October 24th 2023, 01:00 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I hope I'm wrong about what I think I overheard. You know you deserve better, right?!
Forum: Games and Things October 18th 2023, 05:12 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Just because I know why you're like this, doesn't mean it's acceptable. Your expectations are unrealistic, and I'll give up or quit LONG before you get what you want.
Forum: Games and Things October 10th 2023, 02:40 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Assuming you had time, which you don't, I would NEED you to understand that my disability is real, and the ways it affects me are valid before anything else. I keep "focusing on" my diagnoses...
Forum: Games and Things October 6th 2023, 07:58 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You didn't even almost have to do that, but you did, and I can't thank you enough. But, I know it's not your job, so I'll try not to lose it that badly again. But, if we're really going to do this,...
Forum: Games and Things October 1st 2023, 06:47 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I would love that, and I know you have a passion for it, but you don't have time; so I'm not even going to ask. At least not until we're fully staffed and out of survival mode.
Forum: Games and Things September 22nd 2023, 08:00 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

One more thing you did to me. You took my stubbornness and replaced it with learned helplessness. I used to pursue things I wanted with EVERYTHING I had in me, and never said die. Now, if there's...
Forum: Games and Things September 16th 2023, 07:11 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I want to trust you, and unlike the other times, you're willing to actually work with me. But, I'm afraid I'm going to hit a neurological brick wall that you don't believe in, somewhere on this...
Forum: Games and Things September 12th 2023, 02:40 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I wonder if you're going to stick to your crap of "nobody being ready," while you become a giant asshole to your remaining employees, or if this changes things. Because if you think it's bad now,...
Forum: Games and Things September 4th 2023, 11:15 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If your plans don't change, you are incredibly selfish, everyone will be beyond pissed, and you'll be lucky if we don't all quit. Not to mention, this WILL get back to your boss. Plus, stepping up...
Forum: Games and Things August 26th 2023, 08:15 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm 100% serious, I'm just not sure it's possible. Because past patterns prove otherwise, and for reasons outside my control. But, I want to trust you, and something keeps telling me to stay. But,...
Forum: Games and Things August 22nd 2023, 08:18 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I don't want to insert myself into drama, but I think you have a right to know they're being nice to your face and blaming you behind your back, to avoid accountability for the part they fucked up. ...
Forum: Games and Things August 8th 2023, 09:03 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Please call me in, but at a reasonable time considering I'm going to bed at 5 AM
Forum: Games and Things August 1st 2023, 01:52 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

We're having a conversation. You said you have a plan, and I have one too. Between the two of us, we should be able to come up with something. Plus, when you see the schedule, you'll lose your...
Forum: Games and Things July 27th 2023, 02:58 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You wouldn't call the manager who cut my hours in half, a name to a coworker you know wouldn't repeat it, but you'd break the cardinal rule and expect that either, I wouldn't tell on you, or that...
Forum: Games and Things July 23rd 2023, 07:44 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I can't believe, as a friend, you would put me in this position. I know you have a stubborn streak, but when you are junior management level, you can't just do whatever the fuck you want, because...
Forum: Games and Things July 9th 2023, 03:19 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I have a feeling you sacrificed your own hours and cut other people for me, and I hate that. I'm okay with the cuts making the rounds, instead of it only/always being me who gets taken from, but I...
Forum: Games and Things July 3rd 2023, 05:38 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I know you're fixing it, but I hope I still get to close with you, since we both love it so much. And please don't call me in early tomorrow. Not enough warning, will not be awake.

If I do...
Forum: Games and Things June 29th 2023, 08:11 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I want you to take the schedule back over. You don't get to wonder why I'm paranoid anymore. And my review is late; but I expected as much.
Forum: Games and Things June 25th 2023, 05:54 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Regardless of how or why, based on what it looks like and what you JUST told me, I have every right to be triggered over it.

He's over budget because she's allowed to work as many double shifts...
Forum: Games and Things June 19th 2023, 09:59 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Why are all the adults who used to love me immature, selfish, assholes?! She says they'd still show up in a crisis, but I doubt that now. I assume I'll be facing the worst day of my life a lonely...
Forum: Games and Things June 10th 2023, 10:12 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

We're political opposites and disagree on major things. But, I can live with it because you're not an asshole. At least not to me; yet.
Forum: Games and Things May 25th 2023, 03:10 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I tried to say thank you several times, and I'm not sure you ever really understood the impact you had. As the one tasked with facing my dream-turned-nightmare head on with me, I learned SO MUCH...
Forum: Games and Things May 18th 2023, 06:21 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

As much as I may need that, and want it from you, I refuse to make it your job; because it isn't.

I was right, it's a trap, and FYI: If and when you leave this company, so do I. I've already been...
Forum: Games and Things May 13th 2023, 07:25 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Please take care of yourself. Even though you're my boss first, I care about your well-being. I know you're stubborn, and you're going to do what you want, but some recent changes have me genuinely...
Forum: Games and Things May 9th 2023, 05:28 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Get me a schedule far enough out, and I'll make an appointment; so you are no longer responsible for my brain that was never in your job description to begin with. Because I'm starting to feel bad...
Forum: Games and Things May 3rd 2023, 03:35 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

My brain is not your job, and as much as you're fulfilling an unspoken need, I don't want my insecurities and deficits to define our entire relationship.

Based on the little bit that I overheard,...
Forum: Games and Things April 24th 2023, 06:54 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Its never enough and you're asking a lot for low pay. I could fail the same somewhere else and get paid better to do it. And then to go on about what a great job I do and joke about me moving up...
Forum: Games and Things April 15th 2023, 05:04 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I officially go directly to you for EVERYTHING now. You are the only reason I'm still there. You write the reviews, your expectations are the ones I care about, and YOU know how to effectively...
Forum: Games and Things April 10th 2023, 11:44 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

She's your favorite and everyone knows it. She gets the full-time and everything that comes with it, without all the responsibility. Meanwhile, you make it clear that I'm not even eligible a lower...
Forum: Games and Things April 7th 2023, 02:34 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If that means what I think it means, I couldn't be more proud of you!

You're writing reviews? You said a year, not 6 months. I know you like me better than I do, but just the thought of them...
Forum: Games and Things April 2nd 2023, 01:43 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

So, you just throw out there that we're hiring for full-time, after telling me 3 times that I'm not eligible, but both of you absolutely LOVE me... Looks like we're having a conversation then. If...
Forum: Games and Things March 29th 2023, 02:12 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Everyone can tell she's your favorite, and almost everyone has complained about her to you. Addressing her behavior is part of your job whether you want to or not. If you don't it will be one of...
Forum: Games and Things March 24th 2023, 01:25 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Is this the writing on the wall that he predicted when he said "You wouldn't believe how many of these stores close within a year?" Or, are we just behind and he saw things he wasn't supposed to? I...
Forum: Games and Things March 23rd 2023, 12:22 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

This is chaos for my neurodivergent brain, and I'm starting to drown, It's too much change at once, no one is telling me or explaining a damn thing, my schedule has gone from practically 0 hours,...
Forum: Games and Things March 18th 2023, 05:04 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I suppose I should've asked you to show me how to do it myself. But, this is exactly what I was talking about. Before you make a big deal about him in front of me, you might want to consider that...
Forum: Games and Things March 6th 2023, 05:17 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

She's on vacation and I'm still barely on the schedule. PLEASE give me at least one shift. I know you like me enough to do what you can (and probably more than she does), again, the favoritism is...
Forum: Games and Things March 1st 2023, 07:08 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Maybe I should've known, (and have since learned) not to trust you/anyone with that much information. But, your failed attempt to gaslight me in response, instead of just telling me the truth, has...
Forum: Games and Things February 25th 2023, 02:15 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I don't necessarily care if you play favorites, as long as it doesn't affect promotions and whatnot. But, you might want to make it less obvious.
Forum: Games and Things February 20th 2023, 07:11 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm both dreading and looking forward to the conversation I assume we will have tomorrow. You retained me by handling the first one well, which is why I want to trust you this time, but I can't. ...
Forum: Games and Things February 13th 2023, 09:15 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You can probably tell, which makes it even more awkward for me. But, there's no way in hell I would, or ever need to, bring it up. And it's not like I'm ever going to do anything about it. So, how...
Forum: Games and Things February 13th 2023, 01:30 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I have a therapist specifically so that my issues don't become your job. The fact that everybody feels like they can talk to you about anything, almost everybody says you're an amazing human, and...
Forum: Games and Things February 9th 2023, 02:30 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I fear for my hours when you aren't doing the schedule because you like me enough to give me enough. I'm not sure they do.

I can't say it clearly enough: I DON'T WANT TO BE DOING THIS! But, you...
Forum: Games and Things February 4th 2023, 01:03 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I just got an offer to interview for a position that would be a promotion with another company. Your hang up is clearly not an issue for your competition. So, if you want to retain someone you...
Forum: Games and Things February 2nd 2023, 04:20 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You call to ask me to give up my ONLY shift for the week and say you HOPE I can keep my only shift for next week, 2 days after telling me to my face that I have no future with this company. Yet, you...
Forum: Games and Things January 30th 2023, 01:39 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Oh no honey, you are NOT about to gaslight me about a situation you haven't lived through. I know what 4 managers did and didn't tell me. There was bait and switch involved from day 1, and it feels...
Forum: Games and Things January 25th 2023, 01:28 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You BOTH owe me a W-2, and I'm locked out of my online accounts, so you better mail them ASAP. I only need you to do your jobs ONCE and then I can put you behind me.
Forum: Games and Things January 17th 2023, 07:28 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You're my favorite manager and I really hope you're closing tonight

It's not your fault, but after all the hassle, and already being up and dressed by the time I got the message, it would've been...
Forum: Games and Things January 13th 2023, 05:24 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

It has NOTHING to do with you, it's everyone before you who broke me. If anything, you treat me TOO well. I'm not used to being treated like a human by authority without eventually having them turn...
Forum: Games and Things January 9th 2023, 02:12 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I hope you don't think I ask questions because I want a promotion. I did tell you I wanted full-time, and it's still true, but I'm not even entertaining it until you make it abundantly clear that...
Forum: Games and Things January 7th 2023, 03:44 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You specifically said you wanted to work with me more and considering you do the schedule now and gave me over 40 hours this week, you'd better be there, or I'm going to be mad.
Forum: Games and Things January 5th 2023, 01:53 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You had to have been a therapist in a past life. You're one of a handful of authority figures to treat me like a human and actually APPRECIATE the hell out of me. I know it's weird for you, but...
Forum: Games and Things December 25th 2022, 01:29 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I find it really interesting that after everything you put ME through, you're the one who cut ties, and THAT was the last straw. I'm completely fine with it, I almost did it myself after all. It's...
Forum: Games and Things December 21st 2022, 10:05 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I didn't pick up a shift because

A: I've worked 5 days straight (for one day off) and going in would've made it 8

B: The fact that you can't seem to schedule people appropriately, and that we...
Forum: Games and Things December 19th 2022, 08:05 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I know you worked with him for years and that all of this is new to all of you. But, those aren't excuses; this is common sense. You don't drown 4 people by leaving them to handle the entire store...
Forum: Games and Things December 15th 2022, 02:21 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You were either a therapist in a former life, or you've been through something incredibly traumatic that's none of my business. I'm relying on a trauma response/survival mechanism and trying to be...
Forum: Games and Things December 12th 2022, 05:05 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Every shift, you make me want to quit, question what I'm even good for there, and remind myself the pay isn't worth it. Every time my name comes out of your mouth, my first thought is "What the fuck...
Forum: Games and Things December 10th 2022, 04:30 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

They overlap because they DON'T FIT and you made us CRAM them in there. You can't have it both ways
Forum: Games and Things December 4th 2022, 09:36 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Have fun doing price checks every 2 minutes then. I hope he tells me to go ahead or that you get to do all of them yourself since its your fault. Nothing is ever right for you people And yes,...
Forum: Games and Things December 1st 2022, 09:16 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You know I'm the only one on the floor. Either schedule better, lower expectations to reasonable, or fucking chill. I can do one thing at a time!

I really hope I didn't overhear what I think I...
Forum: Games and Things November 26th 2022, 03:42 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You deserved the apology this time, but I still say that day was uncalled for. You either need to increase staff or decrease expectations to reasonable and back off. And I'm still not sure it's...
Forum: Games and Things November 25th 2022, 02:46 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

My best guess is that you're throwing a tantrum like you've done my whole life, coming up with some bullshit story about how you're a victim instead of being an adult and contacting me like you've...
Forum: Games and Things November 22nd 2022, 05:48 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

As much as I hate closing with you, I hope I see you tomorrow. A short shift with a late start the next day would be the best day for it.
Forum: Games and Things November 17th 2022, 11:01 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Stop extending her 2 weeks, you're the only one who likes her. The rest of us can't wait until she's gone.
Forum: Games and Things November 13th 2022, 08:40 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I still consider you condescending. Maybe it's me, but at least I don't have to like you. OMG STOP SITTING ON ME. If you don't like the way I do my job, then do it yourself or stop whining.

I...
Forum: Games and Things November 13th 2022, 04:45 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You can't give me a hard time about not learning everything if you don't make sure I TRAIN in everything. If it comes back up that I was never cross trained, it's your fault, not mine. And, I...
Forum: Games and Things November 4th 2022, 04:03 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

What part of "I did not train at the other store, I don't know how to do something I haven't been shown." are you not understanding?!
Forum: Games and Things October 31st 2022, 11:52 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

It is and has ALWAYS been more than anxiety. I need you to get that through your head!
Forum: Games and Things October 31st 2022, 12:31 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I've literally been through it all.
Been gaslit
Been backstabbed
Had my reputation destroyed with lies
Been told only good things until I almost failed
Been told only bad things until I almost...
Forum: Games and Things October 20th 2022, 02:14 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If you're going to be that strict with everyone under you about breaks, then you should really stay off your phone. It looks bad. I don't mind coworkers with authority, but I mind if they're...
Forum: Games and Things October 16th 2022, 04:04 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

It was obviously done on purpose. So, is this yet another red flag that you screw up payroll, or am I missing something? I mean, I know you can't take money back, so I'll see if it happens again I...
Forum: Games and Things October 12th 2022, 05:58 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You aren't necessarily any better than the people you spend your life trying to "take down" If people find them through you, then you're helping, not hurting them, by bringing attention to it,...
Forum: Games and Things October 5th 2022, 08:05 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

People like you are the reason I turned notifications off. You are a fucking idiot who needs to stop moral-policing the internet.

You need to let her BREATHE. If you spent your entire day in...
Forum: Games and Things September 25th 2022, 12:17 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I plan to tell the truth. Even if it takes longer to get another job because it looks bad, that's just one more way the system is f***ed up. Because I'm still the better person. You admitted I did...
Forum: Games and Things September 13th 2022, 02:26 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

That is total BS and we all saw right through it. You all need to grow up and stop being so F***ing selfish

I guess I burned that bridge after all, which is what I expected. But, why put so...
Forum: Games and Things August 28th 2022, 06:52 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I usually have SOME idea as to what is going on or how to help, but I really think this is more of a "You need to parent your child, stop expecting medications to work miracles, and don't expect a 9...
Forum: Games and Things August 23rd 2022, 09:24 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

He's AMAZING at his job, I know that from one interaction that lasted about 15 minutes. Make sure to keep him. Also, your directions are INCREDIBLE. I wish everybody gave me that much detail.

I...
Forum: Games and Things August 9th 2022, 02:09 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I would love to know what your thought process was, just because I'm curious.

If there was an issue with my position after the restructuring, you could've just told me instead of creating a job...
Forum: Games and Things August 2nd 2022, 02:44 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Not personal my ass. You wanted me gone for no reason the second you walked in the door and left me with no choice. I'll believe it was nothing I did, but it was personal, intentional and f***ed...
Forum: Games and Things July 28th 2022, 07:03 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I miss you, and you've probably already forgotten me. You wanted to know when my last day would be and it just happened.
Forum: Games and Things July 24th 2022, 08:29 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Every once in a while, like now, I miss immensely the benefits you forced me to give up. Not the fact that I had to, or even the way I did it, because I really had no choice. But, I loved the job...
Forum: Games and Things July 18th 2022, 10:28 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I have no reason to turn this down, and in the crazy long interview, you were already talking about eventually promoting me to practically management. But, there are some not so great things about...
Forum: Games and Things July 16th 2022, 04:13 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I never expected a response, so I'm not surprised, but I wonder if you brought it up and she lied to you. There was absolutely ZERO reason for her to prevent me from earning more good money with...
Forum: Games and Things July 13th 2022, 02:17 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I don't know why you had to ruin my great thing just because you could. But, it's called KARMA bitch and I hope yours is coming fast and hard.

I would go back to it without you, but you ruined...
Forum: Games and Things July 8th 2022, 03:32 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm not "ridiculous. You need to learn to mind your own business, "he is toxic and has been for decades, you're delusional if you agree with him, and you just insulted me more in 2 sentences than...
Forum: Games and Things July 3rd 2022, 07:55 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You got what you thought you wanted. But you'll lose. The department will drown without me and everyone knows it. Plus, I didn't tell anyone who will blab that I told your boss everything. I know...
Forum: Games and Things June 30th 2022, 02:14 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You want it done by the book, fine.
You don't have to tell me anything, I found it on my own
I have to apply like everyone else (reasonable), done
You want open availability, you got it
But, I do...
Forum: Games and Things June 26th 2022, 10:40 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm not getting my hopes up, but maybe. If nothing else, you're covering your own ass, because you realize everything I said was 100% true. Best case scenario is that it goes to those above you,...
Forum: Games and Things June 22nd 2022, 07:22 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You brought this on yourself by screwing me over twice. The money is needed and would be nice, but I'm not rescuing you. Do the schedule right the first time and you won't have this problem. ...
Forum: Games and Things June 10th 2022, 02:07 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I would never go if I wasn't forced. But, I'm a grown woman and I wish you would ASK me if I want to do something rather than just deciding things.

I'm 99% sure those go to your boss, but either...
Forum: Games and Things June 2nd 2022, 03:25 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You know being offended is a choice. I technically don't have to specify, overexplain, or justify what I say with details you aren't entitled to in order to not upset you based on something I didn't...
Forum: Games and Things June 1st 2022, 07:40 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You should really be careful not to make an interview seem like a casual formality if it isn't. I can't tell how it really went, but was leaning towards well, until I didn't hear from her after you...
Forum: Games and Things May 26th 2022, 08:06 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You think we don't bash you behind your back. That's hilarious

If you're desperate enough to call me back after I didn't bother returning your call, then you can pay me more than that.

I heard...
Forum: Games and Things May 23rd 2022, 07:07 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I absolutely HATE that this is the position you have put me in. I know you think it's my own fault, but I was doing just fine before you and you proudly owned the decisions that completely screwed...
Forum: Games and Things May 19th 2022, 02:46 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If your plan is to send me home tomorrow, then I want sick pay. It's my time that I earned, and I'm entitled to it. The fact that the budget is messed up is NOT my fault.
Forum: Games and Things May 18th 2022, 04:01 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I get that your kid hates to be out of routine and when stuff doesn't work. But, he NEEDS to LEARN how to manage. This happens in life all the time. Having a backup is one thing, but you're doing...
Forum: Games and Things May 16th 2022, 02:21 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

The pay and benefits are too good and your budget isn't my problem. Part if me wants to make you try and fire me without cause so at least I can get unemployment and stop having to justify leaving...
Forum: Games and Things April 29th 2022, 04:06 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If you want to own the decisions, you own the consequences and HAVE the conversations you don't want to have. It's part of being a manager, so do your fucking job. Almost 5 YEARS I worked my ass...
Forum: Games and Things April 24th 2022, 12:44 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I have done everything, including the assessment. Even if it says I didn't, I have the email as proof that I did it. The ball is in your court, and if I hear nothing and walk in to a replacement, I...
Forum: Games and Things April 20th 2022, 10:55 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

My anxiety is through the roof, which is unfortunate because after what you've put me through, you don't DESERVE to cause me anxiety. I'm the obvious common sense choice, and it's obvious you don't...
Forum: Games and Things April 10th 2022, 09:48 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I know you're swamped and she waited until the last minute. But, since you have my ID, can you please finish so we can get it over with?
Forum: Games and Things April 7th 2022, 06:42 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I don't know what's going on, but I REALLY hope you're okay. Because something tells me you're not. And if you do leave, you have to tell me or I'm going to be mad.
Forum: Games and Things March 31st 2022, 04:57 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You have no idea how many times I've had versions of that conversation, and it's always the same things. I was right that I knew what I was walking into, you were just the nicest version I've ever...
Forum: Games and Things March 28th 2022, 03:52 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm LEARNING and you NEVER specified HOW they needed to be done; even after reviewing EVERY ticket I put in for MULTIPLE shifts. I'm allowed to fuck that up, and I'd throw back that you are supposed...
Forum: Games and Things March 21st 2022, 03:40 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I feel like you lied about how well I did, and I'm in tears, but I'm pretty sure it's because I'm exhausted and I've definitely had worse days.

I really hope its going as well as you're saying it...
Forum: Games and Things March 19th 2022, 06:13 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Why even bother linking to it if you're not going to give me a password and I have to do it from inside the building?! You people suck at communicating, these are red flags, and I'm now in an...
Forum: Games and Things March 16th 2022, 02:37 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I don't want to call off, but you made me do this, you don't care, and I basically have no other choice. Until I'm trained and you change my availability, I have to do what I have to do.

I...
Forum: Games and Things March 14th 2022, 03:34 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You may not be leaving, but she admitted that I was right. Either you give me the hours I know you have, or I will have 2 jobs and I won't come in if you call me. Give me the hours in the first...
Forum: Games and Things March 11th 2022, 12:36 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You'll probably figure out eventually that I have 2 jobs. I'm not stupid enough to tell you, but it's kind of common sense at this point. ANY counteroffers WILL be put in WRITING before I change...
Forum: Games and Things March 7th 2022, 07:18 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I think I might've been right that you're struggling with something. You never have to tell me anything about it, but I haven't seen you, so I hope you're okay.
Forum: Games and Things March 3rd 2022, 11:32 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You had the hours before, because I had them. And you had them, and more to use for nepotism. So, you have them to give back to me. Correct this. CONSITSTENTLY. ASAP. Or I walk. I've already...
Forum: Games and Things February 23rd 2022, 04:35 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

No, I don't really want to do this. Just the IDEA of trying to do both jobs without completely exhausting myself and losing my mind is not registering. But, YOUR poor decisions forced my hand. Not...
Forum: Games and Things February 13th 2022, 01:54 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If no one up front was helping you because they were insanely busy, I don't know why on Earth you thought screaming HELLO at me repeatedly at the top of your lungs would get you what you wanted. I...
Forum: Games and Things February 8th 2022, 04:16 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If you left and I got my hours, I would stay. But, it robably won't happen, I deserve better, and I need more money
Forum: Games and Things January 31st 2022, 01:41 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

And if I cry walking out of there on my last day, it won't be for you; and it won't be because of you.
You don't deserve that reaction. It will be because of the amazing coworkers I'm losing, and...
Forum: Games and Things January 27th 2022, 02:36 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I don't know why that hurt, it's not like you're the first one to not work, or not be okay with me. But, I'm not meeting until I'm ready, I won't be pushed into it, and I'm not going to do it as an...
Forum: Games and Things January 25th 2022, 11:34 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You know exactly what you did. Personal or not doesn't matter. And the fact that you're the only one who's okay with it, is just proof that you did in fact screw me over. The victim-blaming when...
Forum: Games and Things January 21st 2022, 02:35 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If I run into either of your bosses or her again, I WILL IMMEDIATELY tell them what you've done. It's clear you don't want or think you need me, I don't owe you any favors, and they like me a lot...
Forum: Games and Things January 18th 2022, 07:30 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Phone interviews are a thing, WHY do I have to meet in person forever away for a job that is supposed to be 10 minutes from home!?
Forum: Games and Things January 15th 2022, 07:19 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You're so sweet. "I wish there was something I could do, if it was anybody but her..." I wish I could take you with me, I'll miss you SO MUCH

After 4.5 years of busting my ass to keep things...
Forum: Games and Things January 10th 2022, 06:16 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If you try to call me in, I will be torn. You cut everyone's hours to shreds, so I need the money. But, I am SICK to death of picking up everyone else's slack, only to end up screwed over in...
Forum: Games and Things January 7th 2022, 02:56 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I will not allow you to pass blame to me for your shitty management decisions because you are unwilling to take responsibility for them. The reality is you screwed me over because you could and...
Forum: Games and Things January 2nd 2022, 08:13 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I want to complain about how horrible people are, and they are! But, I almost feel sorry for them. You're so bored and unfulfilled in your own sad little lives that you get completely up in arms...
Forum: Games and Things December 21st 2021, 01:11 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You are a bitch and everyone hates you. That's why we're leaving in droves. We went from having the best manager most of us had ever had to dealing with you, your shitty management style, and your...
Forum: Games and Things December 12th 2021, 05:37 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

25 years later and you're STILL haunting me because you chose humiliation over constructive help. You were the adult, and had you acted like one, I might not be this f***ed up. You weren't the only...
Forum: Games and Things December 5th 2021, 04:18 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Every single one of you needs to grow the fuck up
You are in for a rude awakening, you're a judgmental asshole
They act like that when it's just you because they get away with it. Do something...
Forum: Games and Things November 28th 2021, 04:50 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

His neurodivergent daughter is his hero. Yours is your shame. I have unapologetically decided I deserve better. I feel bad because you don't realize what you've done, or what you've lost. But,...
Forum: Games and Things November 20th 2021, 07:45 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

My mind has gone there, not because it's possible, but because I'm a traumatized mess. And I hope you can't tell because I know nothing will EVER happen. So I never want to admit to you that I've...
Forum: Games and Things November 19th 2021, 01:56 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

This was done on purpose, the timing is too weird. But, it shows you I'm flexible without volunteering myself for the insanity I originally limited myself to avoid. Oh, and I CAN'T change it for...
Forum: Games and Things November 18th 2021, 04:33 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I get that you're probably trying to avoid being seen talking to me now, and I completely get it, but WHY would you tell her that and not me? I wonder if you can tell and you were afraid I would...
Forum: Games and Things November 16th 2021, 01:09 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

People don't leave bad jobs, they leave bad managers

If you like me, I'd hate to see you interact with someone you don't

You got about 30 minutes of tears and one day of intense emotional...
Forum: Games and Things November 15th 2021, 01:40 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Whether I want it, or you assumed I didn't, isn't the issue. You hired her behind my back without telling me it was even an option, and that my choices were to take it or have my hours cut...
Forum: Games and Things November 14th 2021, 01:25 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Thank God she's going over your head for me (I didn't ask, she volunteered) I assumed the GM knew, but it sounds like you screwed me all on your own. Even if nothing can be done for me now, I hope...
Forum: Games and Things November 11th 2021, 04:14 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You were right, it's not because I did anything wrong. It's because you f***ed me over and didn't even have the guts to tell me to my face!

I have a feeling you like me, but since I'm quitting,...
Forum: Games and Things October 20th 2021, 08:01 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

After the bullshit you've subjected me to and "reviewed" me on, you're going to drastically cut my hours during peak season?! Not saying I won't appreciate the time off, but now I'm paranoid about...
Forum: Games and Things October 7th 2021, 01:14 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm not even going to read them. Today went as well as it could've, I'm finally in a good place after a week literally bestowed on me by Satan, I'm insanely tired, which makes me more likely to...
Forum: Games and Things September 21st 2021, 01:57 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

4 years, I was one of your favorite coworkers, but you didn't even tell me you quit. I don't blame you for jumping ship, but that was a slap in the face.

If those theories are true, you hate...
Forum: Games and Things September 13th 2021, 12:55 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You have to notify people of your changing boundaries before you have a right to be upset with them for crossing one.
Forum: Games and Things September 9th 2021, 05:49 AM
Replies: 10,421
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Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

[SIZE="2"]I miss you, but it sounds like you're doing amazing, and that's what really matters.

Yeah, I still said it. Advocacy for one cause is tainted if you villainize another in the process. ...
Forum: Games and Things September 5th 2021, 08:42 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I am not neurotypical. Therefore, my life will not be or look typical. If that bothers you, it's not my problem.
Forum: Games and Things August 25th 2021, 04:36 AM
Replies: 10,421
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Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Newsflash: Just because you don't BELIEVE IN LIKE, or AGREE with something, doesn't make it wrong, bad, or untrue. Accepting that is the definition of maturity, and most of society is missing that....
Forum: Games and Things August 18th 2021, 05:21 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Interesting, that list of things had NOTHING to do with me, but was left in my area by a manager since it's her day off. And the tone of it makes me want to punch management in the face.
Forum: Games and Things August 15th 2021, 04:06 AM
Replies: 10,421
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Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

4 years, same story, nobody tells me a damn thing. Next time the rules change overnight, can you TELL me before you yell at me?!
Forum: Games and Things August 12th 2021, 04:45 AM
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Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You are a disgusting group of human beings. Wasting your lives accusing people of faking illnesses, only backing off when they DIE from the illnesses you claimed for years they didn't have. The...
Forum: Games and Things July 29th 2021, 05:29 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

How about you HELP him instead of riding him so hard?!

I hate your management style; the attitude is condescending and my review was complete bullshit (said a manager who actually knows me and my...
Forum: Games and Things July 24th 2021, 02:41 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You felt so bad that I didn't contact you on Father's day that you waited over a MONTH to tell me. Yet, you forgot when I had SURGERY and have almost forgotten my birthday multiple times. I feel...
Forum: Games and Things July 21st 2021, 06:02 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I know today is the worst day of the year for you, and on top of the med issues, I'm sure it's worse. I want to send love and support, but I'm sure the last thing you need right now is to be flooded...
Forum: Games and Things July 20th 2021, 06:54 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

He's still updating, which is a good sign and hopefully they figured out something for him. He's absolutely miserable, but he'll be okay.
Forum: Games and Things July 17th 2021, 09:17 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

This used to freak me out, now I just feel bad because I know it sucks and I hope you get through okay.

But you survived. And hopefully they'll find you something that works.
Forum: Games and Things July 14th 2021, 01:42 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I don't know how you do it all, but you have 2 full hours more than I do, and several of them are before open, so there's no people in your way.
Forum: Games and Things July 10th 2021, 08:02 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Guess what?

I know what NONE of that means
I was never taught how to read the placement instructions
It's not technically my job
You told me I wasn't qualified for said job
You moved the...
Forum: Games and Things July 9th 2021, 07:17 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I was going to move stuff around, but then I got a sheet with instructions for exactly what goes where. Considering I was never taught which position is which, and I don't want to waste my time only...
Forum: Games and Things July 2nd 2021, 04:18 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I miss you, but you needed a job and a break, and you're taking care of yourself, so I'm happy for you. Like I tell you all the time, as long as you're okay, you can disappear all you want.
Forum: Games and Things June 26th 2021, 10:41 PM
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Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You should just officially move up there permanently. You already live there because of him and your kids have taken over the house. Just decide and be done with it.
Forum: Games and Things June 25th 2021, 05:11 AM
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Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You are in an amount of severe grief I hope I never understand, but at the same time, I'm judging. He was sick his whole life; you had him and you did the best you could, but what kind of quality is...
Forum: Games and Things June 24th 2021, 05:28 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Note to self: He'll be fine, and even if he isn't, he'll want to be left alone and there's nothing you can do anyway. He's going to disappear for awhile while he gets life situated and works through...
Forum: Games and Things June 22nd 2021, 05:16 AM
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Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If he can't accept me on a basic level, I'm not going to celebrate him just because society says I'm supposed to. He did this to himself. The only thing I did was finally set boundaries.
Forum: Games and Things June 21st 2021, 04:04 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I get that sometimes things happen, but as a general rule, if you can't get to a vet or afford potential vet bills, don't adopt a pet. And definitely don't ask for advice and then complain that the...
Forum: Games and Things June 20th 2021, 07:05 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

THIS is one of the things I wish you understood about how my brain works. I've lived with it for 33 years, and been forced to push though. I know my limits and I know what I need to do to stay...
Forum: Games and Things June 16th 2021, 02:04 AM
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Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If you could like, do your job and answer me/deal with the issue that would be awesome. I used that method of contact because she's always been amazing about responding ASAP, but apparently...
Forum: Games and Things June 12th 2021, 06:06 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Your opinion doesn't change reality. Which is good because it's incredibly ignorant and rude.
Forum: Games and Things June 11th 2021, 01:12 AM
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Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You had no right to say or do the things you did to me, and I did have the right to stand up for myself. If you don't like being called out, then you shouldn't have done them in the first place. ...
Forum: Games and Things June 2nd 2021, 03:20 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Looks like you're struggling more than a few days can take care of. I hope you're okay, but you wanted to be left alone, so I will.
Forum: Games and Things May 22nd 2021, 09:12 PM
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Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I quit .
Forum: Games and Things May 16th 2021, 09:36 PM
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Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Okay, but you're literally comparing apples and oranges using an argument to convince someone an apple is an orange, and then getting mad when everyone tells you it's an apple.

And it's a...
Forum: Games and Things May 15th 2021, 02:31 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I waited because it's your job, not mine and I hate when I get told how to do my job, but it's barely getting done, if at all, and I'm sick of doing it for you, so I'm telling you to do it in hopes...
Forum: Games and Things May 12th 2021, 03:50 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

STOP acting like the world owes you something because of your autism. The world owes us NOTHING. You sound like a bunch of entitled brats throwing a tantrum.
Forum: Games and Things May 8th 2021, 02:45 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

For the record, I'm allowed to have a moment! If she was allowed to not do her job and treat me like a toddler the entire year plus that she held said job, with zero consequences, then I'm allowed...
Forum: Games and Things April 24th 2021, 07:31 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

This situation is your fault, it didn't have to happen, and I hate you for it. I want it undone, and want her back permanently, but it's not going to happen. Growing pains are a thing, but on top...
Forum: Games and Things April 23rd 2021, 06:01 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

My job was to learn. Your job was to teach me, period. It was never my job to make your life easier, or to fit into your box. it was never your job to insult my character, destroy my self-esteem,...
Forum: Games and Things April 17th 2021, 06:48 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

And no, I wasn't willing to stay late because you ignored the announcements and insisted on being the last person in the store on a Friday, and then couldn't read a fucking sign and decided to be...
Forum: Games and Things April 15th 2021, 04:19 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Apparently, there's drama and cooperate bullshit at work. Among other things, a manager who has been there for decades has been demoted for no real reason?!, positions are being eliminated, and...
Forum: Games and Things April 11th 2021, 07:17 PM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If you lose out on your non-refundable ticket and the trip of a lifetime because you procrastinated yet again, it is NOT my fault! It's April and you NEED a passport. You're retired, it's not like...
Forum: Games and Things April 10th 2021, 03:35 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm sure you're fine, and if not, you can handle it. You wanted separation, you got it, but my anxiety will always be there and right now, it hopes you're okay.
Forum: Games and Things April 8th 2021, 04:14 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Last I checked, not scrolling far enough, and therefore being irrelevant, not rude, is not a crime. So, the fact that YOU chose to escalate it and then block me, means I stand by what I said, and if...
Forum: Games and Things April 4th 2021, 03:48 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Your comment has seemingly sparked an existential crisis of sorts; but in a good way? What is happening to me?!
Forum: Games and Things March 29th 2021, 05:14 AM
Replies: 10,421
Views: 405,418
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Gaslighting is not gatekeeping; and one is not an excuse for the other, just saying.
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