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Re: Self harm free! - April 29th 2016, 01:06 AM

Three months, two weeks


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Re: Self harm free! - April 30th 2016, 01:44 AM

2 months and 5 days now.


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Re: Self harm free! - April 30th 2016, 07:51 PM

Three weeks and two days.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 1st 2016, 12:13 AM

2 months and 6 days


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Re: Self harm free! - May 1st 2016, 07:13 AM

Thirteen weeks and five days.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 1st 2016, 11:09 PM

Three weeks and three days.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 2nd 2016, 12:27 AM

Nine months, one week, and five days.


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Re: Self harm free! - May 3rd 2016, 09:09 AM

Oh gosh, you guys are really amazing! I just have like a day clean
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Re: Self harm free! - May 3rd 2016, 12:06 PM

6 weeks 1 day, I think


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Re: Self harm free! - May 3rd 2016, 07:14 PM

I can't remember so I'm going to guess and say probably about a week now.


If clarity's in death, then why won't this die?
Years of tearing down our banners, you and I
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts
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Re: Self harm free! - May 4th 2016, 03:25 AM

Nine months and two weeks.


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Re: Self harm free! - May 4th 2016, 07:12 AM

Fourteen weeks and a day.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 4th 2016, 06:46 PM

Three weeks and six days.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 4th 2016, 10:40 PM

2 months and 10 days? I think.


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Re: Self harm free! - May 5th 2016, 12:44 AM

Probably a month and two weeks.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 5th 2016, 04:38 PM

Three months, three weeks


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Re: Self harm free! - May 5th 2016, 08:29 PM

About two hours.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 6th 2016, 06:31 AM

2 months and 11 days.


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Re: Self harm free! - May 6th 2016, 07:51 AM

Fourteen weeks and three days.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 6th 2016, 05:02 PM

About a day.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 7th 2016, 01:23 AM

2 months and 12 days. I have no idea how after this week honestly.


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Re: Self harm free! - May 7th 2016, 09:08 PM

I went back on my calender and it's been about 37 days since any form of self harm. No small cuts, no burning, nothing.

I'm not sure if I'll keep it up but I can give it a try.

I've beat a number of urges as well.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 7th 2016, 11:47 PM

Nine months, two weeks, and four days?


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Re: Self harm free! - May 8th 2016, 12:04 AM

About a day now.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 8th 2016, 03:47 AM

2 months and 13 days. I made it through yesterday!


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Re: Self harm free! - May 8th 2016, 08:32 PM

About nineteen hours.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 9th 2016, 12:38 AM

2 months and 2 weeks. Nice.


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Re: Self harm free! - May 9th 2016, 05:06 PM

I was going to say two weeks but then I looked back at my blog post and realize it's only been about 4 days felt like forever and a half. Urges are lingering.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 9th 2016, 06:25 PM

About a day and a half.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 9th 2016, 08:46 PM

Coming in on 72 hours.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 10th 2016, 05:22 AM

Two days now.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 10th 2016, 06:08 AM

2 months and 15 days.


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Re: Self harm free! - May 10th 2016, 06:27 AM

1 year 4 months and 10 days!

You guys are doing really well. Giving up on self harm is possible. Every day counts towards recovery and I hope y'all are proud of yourself. I am here if you need somebody to talk to.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 10th 2016, 12:08 PM

Nine months and three weeks.


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Re: Self harm free! - May 10th 2016, 01:22 PM

One year, two months, and three days.

I've been thinking about it a lot lately, just so I can feel something; but I know it isn't worth it. I can do this.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 11th 2016, 12:33 AM

Today makes three days.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 11th 2016, 08:17 AM

2 months and 16 days. Umm how?


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Re: Self harm free! - May 11th 2016, 08:19 AM

Fifteen weeks and a day.
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Re: Self harm free! - May 11th 2016, 10:08 PM

Hi, I came to post back on here and I can say it has been 4 years and 2 months since I last cut, but sadly, it has came back to less than a day..



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Re: Self harm free! - May 12th 2016, 01:47 AM

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