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Should i say anything. - April 13th 2021, 06:09 PM

[FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""]I used my mums laptop today and saw in the history some strange links. When i clicked one it opened a very explicit conversation she was having on an adult websie. Should i speak to her, i dont know what to say.[/size][/color][/font]
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Re: Should i say anything. - April 14th 2021, 08:16 AM

I understand how difficult it must be to be put in a situation like that. You saw a different side of your mum and you're not sure how to process it. Just remember that unless your mum is doing something illegal (such as the conversation revolving around children), she has a life. How she chooses to spend her free time is of her own choice. While you may not agree with it, keep in mind that you used her property, and you clicked on things that weren't any of your business. What you did was an invasion of privacy. Imagine if she had done that to you. Think about how it would make you feel.

If you live with both parents, I recognise this may be increasingly difficult. You may feel your mum is being unfaithful or something similar. Even if that were the case, you don't know the whole story. For all you know, your other parent may be making her feel dreadfully unhappy, and going on those websites and having explicit conversations with other people is what gets her through the day. It may be what's making her feel good right now.

It's entirely up to you whether or not you choose to speak to her, but keep in mind that again, had you not invaded her privacy, you would never have known.
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Re: Should i say anything. - September 26th 2021, 05:15 PM

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