TeenHelp
Support Forums Today's Posts

Get Advice Connect with TeenHelp Resources
HelpLINK Facebook     Twitter     Tumblr     Instagram    Hotlines    Safety Zone    Alternatives

You are not registered or have not logged in

Hello guest! (Not a guest? Log in above!)

As a guest on TeenHelp you are only able to use some of our site's features. By registering an account you will be able to enjoy unlimited access to our site, and will be able to:

  • Connect with thousands of teenagers worldwide by actively taking part in our Support Forums and Chat Room.
  • Find others with similar interests in our Social Groups.
  • Express yourself through our Blogs, Picture Albums and User Profiles.
  • And much much more!

Signing up is free, anonymous and will only take a few moments, so click here to register now!


General For questions or discussions that do not fit elsewhere, post here. Please check all forum descriptions before posting here to be sure there is not a better location for your thread.

Closed Thread
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
  (#1 (permalink)) Old
olive98 Offline
Member
Regular TeenHelper
*****
 
olive98's Avatar
 
Name: olive
Age: 21
Gender: Female
Location: melbourne australia

Posts: 364
Join Date: April 4th 2013

Red face how do i change my reputation at school? - November 22nd 2013, 04:05 PM

which are some ways to help my reputation at school? i want to be smart or for people to think it. my exbf told his friends that i like doing things with boys and i don't want to be known for it
   
  (#2 (permalink)) Old
HotJazzCP Offline
HotJazzCP
Welcome me, I'm new!
*
 
HotJazzCP's Avatar
 
Name: HotJazzCP
Age: 20
Gender: Male
Location: UK

Posts: 8
Join Date: September 2nd 2013

Re: how do i change my reputation at school? - November 24th 2013, 06:31 PM

Hello there,

Getting a better reputation at school, does take some time. The unfortunate rumours that could of been spread at your school may be hard to shake off but do not let that hurt you. You always will have some friends who will help you; talking to them should help you to start the transition. Slowly try to branch of and talk to people, ignore any comments of which you may find some offence too, and hopefully that should be a good start.

Good luck!
   
1 user(s) liked this post or found it helpful.
  (#3 (permalink)) Old
cjhitt123 Offline
cjhitt123
Welcome me, I'm new!
*
 
cjhitt123's Avatar
 
Name: Carolyn
Age: 19
Gender: Female

Posts: 1
Join Date: November 25th 2013

Re: how do i change my reputation at school? - November 25th 2013, 05:43 AM

I know exactly what you are going through. All you have to do is take it one step at a time. For instance you said you want to be/sound smart, so every once in a while raise your hand. Only do this it you know your answer is correct though. Also, STUDY! Good luck, and I hope things work out for you . If you every need someone to talk to just PM me.
   
  (#4 (permalink)) Old
Skeleton Offline
Member
Outside, huh?
**********
 
Skeleton's Avatar
 
Name: Charlie
Age: 29
Gender: Female
Location: UK.

Posts: 4,545
Join Date: January 6th 2009

Re: how do i change my reputation at school? - November 25th 2013, 11:19 PM

I'm sorry to hear that your ex-boyfriend has decided to spread rumours about you but don't let them get you down, they are only rumours and if you don't pay any attention to them, they might just die down. As for your reputation, I'd say that it is something that needs to be worked at, if you want to have a reputation as being smart then being a good student would be a good place to start, making sure that you do the work given in class and for at home, participating in class, etc. and in time, it'll pay off and you'll have also done well.
   
  (#5 (permalink)) Old
olive98 Offline
Member
Regular TeenHelper
*****
 
olive98's Avatar
 
Name: olive
Age: 21
Gender: Female
Location: melbourne australia

Posts: 364
Join Date: April 4th 2013

November 29th 2013, 05:28 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by HotJazzCP View Post
Hello there,

Getting a better reputation at school, does take some time. The unfortunate rumours that could of been spread at your school may be hard to shake off but do not let that hurt you. You always will have some friends who will help you; talking to them should help you to start the transition. Slowly try to branch of and talk to people, ignore any comments of which you may find some offence too, and hopefully that should be a good start.

Good luck!
ignoring ok i'll try that. it does feel good to not think of the rumor.

Quote:
Originally Posted by cjhitt123 View Post
I know exactly what you are going through. All you have to do is take it one step at a time. For instance you said you want to be/sound smart, so every once in a while raise your hand. Only do this it you know your answer is correct though. Also, STUDY! Good luck, and I hope things work out for you . If you every need someone to talk to just PM me.
sounds good i'll raise my hand when i know for sure, its fun thanks!


Quote:
Originally Posted by Skeleton View Post
I'm sorry to hear that your ex-boyfriend has decided to spread rumours about you but don't let them get you down, they are only rumours and if you don't pay any attention to them, they might just die down. As for your reputation, I'd say that it is something that needs to be worked at, if you want to have a reputation as being smart then being a good student would be a good place to start, making sure that you do the work given in class and for at home, participating in class, etc. and in time, it'll pay off and you'll have also done well.
i sneezed and i sighed after by accident and some1 said 'i think she just orgasmed'
i'll try to participate in a better way.

Last edited by Jack Lowden; November 29th 2013 at 09:21 PM. Reason: Merged posts.
   
  (#6 (permalink)) Old
Pirouette Offline
Just a girl strolling by
I've been here a while
********
 
Pirouette's Avatar
 
Name: Rishy
Gender: Female

Posts: 1,503
Blog Entries: 54
Join Date: June 23rd 2012

Re: how do i change my reputation at school? - November 30th 2013, 12:04 AM

Hey there,
A good way to improve your reputation at school is to become more active in your classes. Try participating more by raising your hand and answering/asking questions(meaningful ones, not redundancy). I would also encourage you to try taking more part in school-related activities such as sports and clubs/organizations. Obviously, this takes time and if there are rumors being spread, don't let them get to you. Yes, I know that people will bother you about it and they may make fun of you about it, but just ignore it and focus on improving your reputation. Over time, people will forget things of the past and will notice the new you. Also, another way to get a reputation as a smart person is offering to help other people around you that are struggling. Trust me, if you start tutoring other people, you will earn a reputation as a smart person in a quick matter of time. I hope this helps and good luck on this.

~Rishy



[left]



"Imperfection is beauty;
madness is genius;
and its better to be absolutely ridiculous
than absolutely boring."

-Marilyn Monroe




   
  (#7 (permalink)) Old
olive98 Offline
Member
Regular TeenHelper
*****
 
olive98's Avatar
 
Name: olive
Age: 21
Gender: Female
Location: melbourne australia

Posts: 364
Join Date: April 4th 2013

Re: how do i change my reputation at school? - November 30th 2013, 10:08 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by TheOnlyGirl~ View Post
Hey there,
A good way to improve your reputation at school is to become more active in your classes. Try participating more by raising your hand and answering/asking questions(meaningful ones, not redundancy). I would also encourage you to try taking more part in school-related activities such as sports and clubs/organizations. Obviously, this takes time and if there are rumors being spread, don't let them get to you. Yes, I know that people will bother you about it and they may make fun of you about it, but just ignore it and focus on improving your reputation. Over time, people will forget things of the past and will notice the new you. Also, another way to get a reputation as a smart person is offering to help other people around you that are struggling. Trust me, if you start tutoring other people, you will earn a reputation as a smart person in a quick matter of time. I hope this helps and good luck on this.

~Rishy

even though i'm not a good student i have been teachers pet the last 2 years because i sit up the front a lot and talk to my favourite teacher.
i've been tutored a lot so it would be pretty unique for me to be a tutor too i'll try to. thanks i will do a lot of things to be involved, i play tennis but will add some more things for sure
   
  (#8 (permalink)) Old
Nightblood. Offline
jus drein jus daun
I've been here a while
********
 
Nightblood.'s Avatar
 
Gender: She/Her
Location: United States

Posts: 1,829
Blog Entries: 37
Join Date: January 11th 2009

Re: how do i change my reputation at school? - November 30th 2013, 02:59 PM

Okay, to be honest, the best way to stop that reputation is to not be with all these guys. You talk about different boyfriends a lot, and even if you aren't doing anything with them perhaps this is where the rumors are coming from.



"We all have battle scars, Finn. Suck it up and build a brace for yours."
   
1 user(s) liked this post or found it helpful.
  (#9 (permalink)) Old
Member
Welcome me, I'm new!
*
 
The Friendly Star's Avatar
 
Name: Ki
Age: 27
Gender: Male
Location: England

Posts: 26
Blog Entries: 2
Join Date: December 1st 2013

Re: how do i change my reputation at school? - December 1st 2013, 05:33 AM

anything from doing something for the school maybe a charity event shows your willing and supportive for your community that may give you a better reputation, i was never the one with great reputation for the right reasons at schools always acting the idiot, and being thrown out of lesson sneaking outside for a cigerette
   
  (#10 (permalink)) Old
olive98 Offline
Member
Regular TeenHelper
*****
 
olive98's Avatar
 
Name: olive
Age: 21
Gender: Female
Location: melbourne australia

Posts: 364
Join Date: April 4th 2013

Re: how do i change my reputation at school? - December 1st 2013, 09:28 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by The Friendly Star View Post
anything from doing something for the school maybe a charity event shows your willing and supportive for your community that may give you a better reputation, i was never the one with great reputation for the right reasons at schools always acting the idiot, and being thrown out of lesson sneaking outside for a cigerette
i use to sneak out of school early to go to my bfs car but i won't do that again

Quote:
Originally Posted by Dauntless View Post
Okay, to be honest, the best way to stop that reputation is to not be with all these guys. You talk about different boyfriends a lot, and even if you aren't doing anything with them perhaps this is where the rumors are coming from.
cos someone read my posts + recognized me and told everyone?
   
  (#11 (permalink)) Old
Nightblood. Offline
jus drein jus daun
I've been here a while
********
 
Nightblood.'s Avatar
 
Gender: She/Her
Location: United States

Posts: 1,829
Blog Entries: 37
Join Date: January 11th 2009

Re: how do i change my reputation at school? - December 1st 2013, 05:31 PM

No, but I'm assuming that if you're dating someone it's not a secret.



"We all have battle scars, Finn. Suck it up and build a brace for yours."
   
Closed Thread

Bookmarks

Tags
change, reputation, school

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off




All material copyright 1998-2019, TeenHelp.
Terms | Legal | Privacy | Conduct | Complaints

Powered by vBulletin®.
Copyright ©2000-2019, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search engine optimization by vBSEO.
Theme developed in association with vBStyles.