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Loneliness If you're feeling lonely, isolated or down and need support and encouragement, this is a forum for you.
augh... i'm so lonely right now -
October 16th 2010, 12:20 AM
hey guys, its been a while since i've been on here.
to be honest i've been so busy with college and getting settled in here that i didn't really care about how lonely i was feeling because I figured it would just pass in time, but its been five years since i've had a boyfriend and boy am I feeling it.
i've liked a few guys in that time but nothing has ever ended up working out.
i'm really discouraged, and obviously as i said before, lonely.
is there anyway i can get my mind off things? I feel like i've tried everything from going for a walk to watching television, even doing some of my artwork, but for some reason I can't get my goddamn mind off it!
its just that one of my worst fears is being alone forever, and sometimes i can't even picture myself with anyone..
Re: augh... i'm so lonely right now -
October 16th 2010, 03:54 AM
Try meeting up wth some friends, if your college is away from home, go home, visit people, try to meet new people. Not necesarily dating right away just surround yourself with positive people that make you feel good about yourself.
Im not a person to ask about dating. I've never had a boyfriend, but the lonliness wont be as bad on walks or such if you have friends with you. im sure.
Sorry if i wasnt much help /:
"Be kinder than necessary, for everyone is fighting some kind of battle." <3
Feel free to PM/VM me if you ever need someone to talk to, or just want someone to listen. I'm also always up for making new friends.
Re: augh... i'm so lonely right now -
October 16th 2010, 08:49 AM
Hey there,
I'm really sorry that you're feeling lonely right now but I promise you that it won't last forever because there are many people living in this world and there is somebody for everyone! I'd say maybe you should try going out with friends or maybe start taking part in some clubs, groups or extra activities because that way you're keeping your mind off of it and meeting new people and who knows where that may lead to! You could be having fun and meeting a potential partner at the same time. If you ever want to talk or anything then feel free to PM me at anytime, I'm always more than happy to listen and talk about anything. I hope that you're feeling a little better soon and good luck!
Take care.
When we're lost in the madness, kindness is wisdom.
Re: augh... i'm so lonely right now -
October 22nd 2010, 07:27 PM
Hey there,
I think the best way to get your mind off things is to just get out and get away from things. Go out with your friends, have some fun, meet new people and just enjoy yourself. Don't allow yourself to get taken over by this.