Non-PG13: Trans intimacy??

[Dustin24]

So I'm trans, female to male, and I am currently in a long distance relationship with this girl. We plan on meeting up later on, but not anytime soon, because we're both young. I'm just really nervous because I am a pretty dirty-minded and sexual person, and what if she wants to have sex when we meet? Things already get somewhat suggestive. I unfortunately don't have a packer, I might by then, but I don't know. I just need advice on being trans and having sex pretty much.

[Ennui.]

Perhaps this is something you can discuss with your girlfriend? Maybe you can let her know that this is something that you are scared about and see if you can be reassured a bit?

You said that you might have a packer by then, which is awesome. You don't have to do this next suggestion but perhaps you can see if there are any toys or objects that will make you feel more comfortable with sex?

[Hiraeth]

There's plenty of anecdotal advice and things that you can read about, to get a sense of how other people have approached it.

Listen to your comfort level. I really recommend going slowly and communicating a LOT before and during. I think doing some experimentation over the virtual platform would make it easier in person.