Hi fallen!
I just wanted to stop and say hello!  I'm a 
Buddy, meaning I welcome new users to the site.  I see you've already started posting, but I'd still recommend reading the stickies in the Arrivals and Departures forum ( 
http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f4-arrivals-departures/t31-how-use-forums/ and 
http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f4-arrivals-departures/t772-obtaining-advice-support/ ).  If you feel lost, don't worry.  We can help find you.  I'm usually in the chat room, but you can always 
PM me if you need anything.