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Probably Shouldn't Cry About It But I Am
Posted February 2nd 2009 at 01:10 AM by Care-o-Bear
My bf has a friend that hates me 
I'll copy and paste the story from my thread:
"I was at my bf's house today and we went to the park near his house to meet 3 of his friends, 2 girls and a guy (the bf of 1 of the girls). I had met the guy (I'll call him "Scott") and the girl (I'll call her "Kasey") who isn't his gf (I'll call the 1 who is his gf "Jana") before, but only briefly, like a hi, nice to meet you, bye. So I was being shy and not saying much. I would laugh when something was funny but I didn't say anything to anyone except my bf. I didn't act mean at all, just shy.
Well later, we were cuddling together and he was texting a little. I didn't mean to look, but it was kinda right there. Well he was texting Kasey. And the text I saw said "Jana hates Caroline." I probably shouldn't have looked anymore, but I was wondering why she hates me. So he said "Why?" and she replied saying "she just does" he then asked what Kasey thought of me and she said "I don't hate her but I'm keeping my opinions to myself" which makes it sound like she doesn't really like me.
I'm hurt by this because I was not mean at all, just quiet. It doesn't make sense that she could hate me without really giving me a chance. I wasn't being rude or annoying, I was simply not being talkative because that's the way I am. I don't want to bring up the subject with my bf, yet anyway. I want to give it time. But I'm just feeling hurt. I think of myself as a likeable person. I may be shy but once I get to know someone, I'm friendly and nice and can be funny. I don't have any enemies and I don't hate anyone. I can see how some people might not really be compatable with me as a friend, but I just don't see how someone could hate me
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I'm seriously crying a little. Not like crying really, but kinda tearing up. Seriously, I don't have a lot of self-confidence, but I still don't see how someone can hate me, particularly after just meeting me.
Trying to be positive: on the plus side, my bf and I got to make out for a while. I can tell he really cares about me. That helps some
I'll copy and paste the story from my thread:"I was at my bf's house today and we went to the park near his house to meet 3 of his friends, 2 girls and a guy (the bf of 1 of the girls). I had met the guy (I'll call him "Scott") and the girl (I'll call her "Kasey") who isn't his gf (I'll call the 1 who is his gf "Jana") before, but only briefly, like a hi, nice to meet you, bye. So I was being shy and not saying much. I would laugh when something was funny but I didn't say anything to anyone except my bf. I didn't act mean at all, just shy.
Well later, we were cuddling together and he was texting a little. I didn't mean to look, but it was kinda right there. Well he was texting Kasey. And the text I saw said "Jana hates Caroline." I probably shouldn't have looked anymore, but I was wondering why she hates me. So he said "Why?
" and she replied saying "she just does" he then asked what Kasey thought of me and she said "I don't hate her but I'm keeping my opinions to myself" which makes it sound like she doesn't really like me.I'm hurt by this because I was not mean at all, just quiet. It doesn't make sense that she could hate me without really giving me a chance. I wasn't being rude or annoying, I was simply not being talkative because that's the way I am. I don't want to bring up the subject with my bf, yet anyway. I want to give it time. But I'm just feeling hurt. I think of myself as a likeable person. I may be shy but once I get to know someone, I'm friendly and nice and can be funny. I don't have any enemies and I don't hate anyone. I can see how some people might not really be compatable with me as a friend, but I just don't see how someone could hate me
"I'm seriously crying a little. Not like crying really, but kinda tearing up. Seriously, I don't have a lot of self-confidence, but I still don't see how someone can hate me, particularly after just meeting me.
Trying to be positive: on the plus side, my bf and I got to make out for a while. I can tell he really cares about me. That helps some
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