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Posted January 4th 2012 at 08:51 AM by suicidaldreams
Why is it that life must be so stressful?
Is it just part of our goal for survival in a modern world?
Life throws various obstacles at us and it is up to us on how we deal with them. Some deal with them better than others of course. That is easily seen. Some people are put in situations where they can be killed, and their choices to what they are faced with is the cause of this. Whereas other people are put directly in these situations and they just happen to be in the cross fire. But they have to choose how they react to the situation and that determines the result of the rest of their life.
Others are put in situations that cause much pain to them. And how they deal with this pain determines how they feel for the rest of their life. And sometimes, that life falls short, and that is how the person dealt with what they had to put up with.
Everyone is different.
So how everyone deals with different situations can vary. Some people who consider suicide are outcast because the people who view them this way are able to deal with something similar in a better way.
It's hard to have sympathy for someone when you don't feel the same way. It's not just a matter (in most cases) of them just pouting about their life and feeling sorry for themselves. They may actually, truly, be trying, and it's just not working out for them. They can't really help this. And criticism of them and who they are doesn't help the matter at all.
Being openminded can.
Making fun of them wont help them so why do it?
Sure you have things better off, maybe you've dealt with the same situation, but you didnt go through it as harshly as they are. Here's a thought. Go help them. Be there for them. Try to help them find a way to get through it all. Maybe your ways of getting through it might be beneficial to them. You never know
So it's worth a shot.
Is it just part of our goal for survival in a modern world?
Life throws various obstacles at us and it is up to us on how we deal with them. Some deal with them better than others of course. That is easily seen. Some people are put in situations where they can be killed, and their choices to what they are faced with is the cause of this. Whereas other people are put directly in these situations and they just happen to be in the cross fire. But they have to choose how they react to the situation and that determines the result of the rest of their life.
Others are put in situations that cause much pain to them. And how they deal with this pain determines how they feel for the rest of their life. And sometimes, that life falls short, and that is how the person dealt with what they had to put up with.
Everyone is different.
So how everyone deals with different situations can vary. Some people who consider suicide are outcast because the people who view them this way are able to deal with something similar in a better way.
It's hard to have sympathy for someone when you don't feel the same way. It's not just a matter (in most cases) of them just pouting about their life and feeling sorry for themselves. They may actually, truly, be trying, and it's just not working out for them. They can't really help this. And criticism of them and who they are doesn't help the matter at all.
Being openminded can.
Making fun of them wont help them so why do it?
Sure you have things better off, maybe you've dealt with the same situation, but you didnt go through it as harshly as they are. Here's a thought. Go help them. Be there for them. Try to help them find a way to get through it all. Maybe your ways of getting through it might be beneficial to them. You never know
So it's worth a shot.
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