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About a year and a half ago I had my then boyfriend over my house, no one else was here.
As far as a remember he proceded to get me drunk and then made a move on me, I tried to push him off but I can't remember if I did or not and I clearly said no. The next day I was bleeding slightly and was exceptionaly sore, I went to a clinic to get the morning after pill just incase, saying that I had, had unprotected sex. However I'm not sure if it actuall happened, and because I wasn't in my normal state of mind I don't know what to think :/
Acquaintance rape occurs when someone you know compels you to have sexual intercourse against your will. Acquaintance rape can occur if you are passed out, too drunk to refuse, too frightened to argue, or when you do not give consent.
So, you said no. Point blank, anything that happened after that was against your will. As you were wasted, it's understandable that you don't really remember. As Erika said, you might have passed out.If you think you had sex, chances are, you probably did. And you did say no. Either way, it does sound like your boyfriend took advantage of you, and that, as stated above, would be classed as rape.
Take care, and feel free to pm me, if you need anything.
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