Sex for the first time

[Sarahwelcomesadvice]

Hi all,
I am going to have sex for the first time and stressing about the practicalities of it! Embarrassing question but generally with sex how far does the penis go in?!...my boyfriend is quite large and I was wondering if normally does the whole penis go in, 1/3, 2/3's...what's typical so I know what to expect....im over thinking it and it all seems impossible..


Thanks!

[Mindfulness.]

Hi there!

When it came to sex, I didn't think about it too much. I just let it happen with my boyfriend and it turned out pretty good.

Normally, the whole penis does go in but if you are worried that because your boyfriend is large that it will hurt you, you can talk to him about possibly not going in all the way. if that will help you.

The vagina only expands so far depth-wise, so depending on how large your partner is the whole penis may or may not go in. If he's larger than 6.5 inches or so the whole penis will probably not go in. I don't think you need to be worried or overthink things; if you both are prepared properly it will probably happen pretty naturally.

I want to emphasize the use of lube, though, especially if he's large. There's no shame in needing extra lubricant; it's there to enhance pleasure. Be sure whatever lube you use is compatible with condoms if you choose to use them (which I recommend). Also, PLEASE be sure you have proper contraception before having sex! In my opinion it's best to double up (condoms + the pull, the shot, the ring, other method, etc.) but that's a personal decision for you and your doctor to make together. I just strongly recommend waiting until you're on birth control.

Good luck, and have fun! If you have any other questions please feel free to PM me.

[Borrows]

Just relax and don't worry. Everything will be easy

[CecilFitzgerald]

Originally Posted by Sarahwelcomesadvice

Hi all,
I am going to have sex for the first time and stressing about the practicalities of it! Embarrassing question but generally with sex how far does the penis go in?!...my boyfriend is quite large and I was wondering if normally does the whole penis go in, 1/3, 2/3's...what's typical so I know what to expect....im over thinking it and it all seems impossible..


Thanks!

Sex for the first time is very amazing thing.

[privet]

Originally Posted by Heathen

The vagina only expands so far depth-wise, so depending on how large your partner is the whole penis may or may not go in. If he's larger than 6.5 inches or so the whole penis will probably not go in. I don't think you need to be worried or overthink things; if you both are prepared properly it will probably happen pretty naturally.

I want to emphasize the use of lube, though, especially if he's large. There's no shame in needing extra lubricant; it's there to enhance pleasure. Be sure whatever lube you use is compatible with condoms if you choose to use them (which I recommend). Also, PLEASE be sure you have proper contraception before having sex! In my opinion it's best to double up (condoms + the pull, the shot, the ring, other method, etc.) but that's a personal decision for you and your doctor to make together. I just strongly recommend waiting until you're on birth control.

Good luck, and have fun! If you have any other questions please feel free to PM me.

you're wrong,
6.5 inches is small

[Iena8778]

If you have some doubts, don't you think that this is not the best time for your first time? Everything must be comfortable for you. If you are wondering about the size, try to be naked firstly. You hand your boyfriend to do the actions you are doing on a regular basis. E.g. cook something and let him watch you and you watch him. It will give some romance and pleasure of anticipation and you will actually see how big is his 'tool'

[Bru00]

Originally Posted by Sarahwelcomesadvice

Hi all,
I am going to have sex for the first time and stressing about the practicalities of it! Embarrassing question but generally with sex how far does the penis go in?!...my boyfriend is quite large and I was wondering if normally does the whole penis go in, 1/3, 2/3's...what's typical so I know what to expect....im over thinking it and it all seems impossible..


Thanks!

Relax, his penis can't go too far Don't stress!

[Perplexed Karen]

I am very likely too late and you've already done it, but here are my two cents anyway.
How far in depends on his length and to an extent your body. like the others have said unless he is very long all of him will likely fit.
It's important to stay relaxed and don't worry about it. have him go slow and don't be afraid to stop if you feel uncomfortable.

[hopefullynotyou]

Sex is bad, Stop sex