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Hi I have had alot of trouble with this for a while. I have been masturbating for a while and now im just i guess kinda bored of it. i have had the urge to want to masturbate with someone and i feel so bad about it. can anyone help or have advice. please reply or pm me
First off, This is a normal body function, and there should be no shame, or guilt, for wanting to do those things.
There are plenty of ways, trying different things. Depending on how old you are, and if your in a serious relationship, or just a one night thing, if thats your thing.
Just make sure consent is there.
Never feel guilt or shame for having these feelings, there natural and everyone has them, if your not ready to do more than your doing, try doing something different.
I'm sorry if this wasnt helpful.
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Hi there!
I have a similar situation, but really, don't think about that. Masturbation is a normal thing. But try to change your plans. These things are better to do it alone.
Like others have said, masturbation is a completely normal thing! We just don't hear it as much because it's not something that people generally share but its part of human nature. I've also read that masturbation has health benefits such as reduced chances of prostate cancer, relieves muscle cramps, stress reliever and helps many to sleep better.
Everyone has their own unique sexual desires, maybe try online dating apps to find others that maybe willing/have similar desires to you?
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