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[size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 01:41 PM

Uh so, hello. First time here. I made an account because i have some things to ask and well i wanted more of a... human touch about this whole thing? This place seemed good enough to ask so.. yeah, i hope you all can help me out with some stuff.

So first thing first, how much is it too much? I mean, down there. From what i have noticed i am far, far bigger than my friends (flaccid at least), which i mean, it makes me sorta happy to a certain degree, but it has got me worried about how things could look for me in the future? It is already quite bothersome when hard and well, in some way i kind of dread this becoming more of an issue. Could it keep growing? and if so, until how big?

Second, how should i handle sex? I have to be careful, i understand. But well, introvertion hasn't helped me a lot with this so... uh, am lacking practical experience, so to say. Anything i ought to pay attention to or something? Or something i should do beforehand to make sure things work out? I kind of dread fumbling it when the time is right.

Third and last, anything i can do to make it less noticeable?

I hope i am not being much of a bother with this, so.. ya!
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 04:44 PM

Hi William welcome and we're here to help each other!! Ho w much is too much it all depends on each of us some of us are bigger than others and each presents a different condition. Maybe at ur age u have probably stopped growing. In my case I was taken to the doctor to check hormones levels and stuff like that. As far as the rest u just have to be confident with what u got doesn't matter what others think. If u gonna find a partner he/she gonna like u for who u are .
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 05:00 PM

Well, i have thought about that. I mean, it makes sense but... i dunno lol, i think i have grown a lil bit too obsessed as of late, cuz i am constantly checking and what not, and it just keeps going. So hopefully it just... stops at some point. I guess i will start getting worried soon, still kinda on the edge about it as to check it out with a doctor and what not.

And ya i know, confidence and what not but introversion sucks, lol
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 05:04 PM

If u think its getting out of hand its better to get checked by a doctor and have him do hormones tests. That way u have peace of mind.
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 05:16 PM

Hello,
first of all, don't worry.

There's no exactly a size, but i guess over 10 inches (25cm) could be a little problem.
Also, you're 16. the penis will grow usually until the end of your puberty period.

About sex, as you said, you shall be careful to not hurt your partner. Use a lot of lube and don't be a jerk.
Also don't worry, In a couple, you wil find a solution for you two.

For the last point, it's hard to say. Making less noticeable is hard. Try to wear loose pants to give it more space.
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 06:28 PM

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first of all, don't worry.

There's no exactly a size, but i guess over 10 inches (25cm) could be a little problem.
Also, you're 16. the penis will grow usually until the end of your puberty period.

About sex, as you said, you shall be careful to not hurt your partner. Use a lot of lube and don't be a jerk.
Also don't worry, In a couple, you wil find a solution for you two.

For the last point, it's hard to say. Making less noticeable is hard. Try to wear loose pants to give it more space.

Uh any idea when that would be exactly? I mean like, i understand its kinda different for everyone but like an estimate would be good, lol. I kinda hover between 10 and a lil bit beyond 10.5 when hard, i mean you know, depends on how uhh stimulated i am and what not, but i haven't exactly stopped growing. It sounds embarrassing i know but i keep track lol

And yeah i guess lube is good and just taking things easy. Am just worried i might end being a lil bit too much for most and... yeah.

And lose pants is an option. Would tight underwear be suitable too? Dunno if it would cut my circulation or something like that.
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 06:46 PM

I know exactly what ur going through I'm around the same size
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 09:01 PM

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Uh any idea when that would be exactly? I mean like, i understand its kinda different for everyone but like an estimate would be good, lol. I kinda hover between 10 and a lil bit beyond 10.5 when hard, i mean you know, depends on how uhh stimulated i am and what not, but i haven't exactly stopped growing. It sounds embarrassing i know but i keep track lol

And yeah i guess lube is good and just taking things easy. Am just worried i might end being a lil bit too much for most and... yeah.

And lose pants is an option. Would tight underwear be suitable too? Dunno if it would cut my circulation or something like that.
That depends person to person. For me you will reach 13 inches when you will got older, but it depends person to person. You should check it constantly and make your plans.
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 09:14 PM

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That depends person to person. For me you will reach 13 inches when you will got older, but it depends person to person. You should check it constantly and make your plans.
Yeah, i am definitely gonna keep measuring just in case, lol. But hopefully not too much, my mornings are... difficult and class time even worse.
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 09:17 PM

Don't worry.
You can manage it! You're not the only one with that problem.
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 09:20 PM

Uh one final question i guess, how much is too much? everyday i mean. Ya know.
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 09:21 PM

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You can manage it! You're not the only one with that problem.
That's right I've learned to live with it I've measure every week and its kept growing slowly but I'm only 13 and my puberty not done yet
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 09:25 PM

Unfortunately, there is no a specific answer for that. Of course you can't gain an inch every day or it will be massive! For me, tou vill gain 1,5 inches at year. But it's only an idea, nothing written.
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 09:25 PM

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Uh one final question i guess, how much is too much? everyday i mean. Ya know.
That varies mine grew 2 inches in the last year
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 09:26 PM

See? All depends if your growth is fast or slow
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 09:27 PM

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Unfortunately, there is no a specific answer for that. Of course you can't gain an inch every day or it will be massive! For me, tou vill gain 1,5 inches at year. But it's only an idea, nothing written.
Kinda checks out, yeh
But i meant like... uh, self pleasure? Hormones be crazy.
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 09:34 PM

You'll just got to be patient and wait . My doctor said puberty period varies from boy to boy and this is where hormones go crazy . You probably r going through puberty still yet therefore it could still grow more
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 09:34 PM

Self pleasure in this case won't make you bigger faster.
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 09:36 PM

Oh no no, this is besides the initial questions
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 09:40 PM

Hm? Your growth isn't directly connected to self pleasuring.
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 09:43 PM

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sigh

No no its....

Blegh okay i will try to be direct. how many times per day can be too much? its... uh 3-5 times for me everyday
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 09:44 PM

Ah! Sorry, didn't want to be mean.
3-5 times is okay for you!
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 09:46 PM

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3-5 times is okay for you!
oh no no its ok, its just embarrassing lol
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 09:50 PM

Don't worry, don't be. All of us know that problem "almost" well. If you want to seek advice for that, you're in the right place.
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 09:54 PM

William it's ok for u to ask those questions. I also do it [masturbate] every day
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Re: [size help] general stuff i wanna ask about - Yesterday, 10:02 PM

Like anyone else.
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