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sex drive questions - June 1st 2025, 12:40 AM

okay, so considering the weird stuff that was happening on the other thread i rly hope there won't be any people being super creepy here ;-; but yea i have some questions. i feel like my sex drive is absurdly high and idk if it should be this high and if i have a problem. i've already had 'the talk' with my mom a few months back and she told me that a boy my age is gonna have crazy hormones and that she knows i masturbate and will do so in the future but to just by hygenic and not let it control me or become an addiction that prevents me from living normally.

i think about sex a lot, throughout the day at school when i'm at home in the shower or in bed at night and idk if it's too much. it's not like it's the only thing i think about but how much is too much? i masturbate every day too, once in the morning before school and once before i sleep, and on the weekends maybe even more than that. i do have sex with my boyfriend but i feel like that's different, so leaving that aside am i far too horny for my own good and should i be concerned bc idk i feel kinda icky and ashamed at how horny i always am and how much i masturbate. do y'all have any input on that bc i'm still a bit clueless about puberty, i started kind of late i feel like so a lot of this is still fresh for me.
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Re: sex drive questions - June 1st 2025, 02:56 AM

Well, it's only because yours is the right age to hormones start to be crazy. I don't think it's something to be ashamed of. When you got older, it will decrease. I can told it because I had the same.
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Re: sex drive questions - June 1st 2025, 04:22 AM

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Well, it's only because yours is the right age to hormones start to be crazy. I don't think it's something to be ashamed of. When you got older, it will decrease. I can told it because I had the same.
mhm my hormones are definitely going crazy rn, i guess i'll just have to deal with it feeling rly awkward for a while. i'm trying to not watch as much porn when i masturbate bc i don't want my brain to be warped by it and maybe that might help me moderate my sex drive a bit? idk all i know is i'm constantly horny and bc of my own traumas i guess there's some bad overlap there feelings wise so it's kinda hard for me to deal with being so hypersexual if yk what i mean :<
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Re: sex drive questions - June 1st 2025, 11:38 AM

Well, there's medicines to control your hormones, but you should talk it to a doctor for that. For me, it's just nothing to worry about. I know it's not easy, but you must learn how to manage it.
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Re: sex drive questions - June 1st 2025, 11:25 PM

i guess i can talk to my doctor about it next time i go for a checkup, but i also just hope i don't have to take any more medications that i already do. i'm already considering asking my mom about hormone blockers since i'm not sure about my gender identity so i just would hate to be popping a million pills every time i wake up 0-0
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Re: sex drive questions - Yesterday, 12:10 AM

Alright! that's a honest thought.
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