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LGBTQ+, Sexuality and Gender Identity This forum is for you to explore your sexuality and identity, whatever that may be.
Gender: without getting pg I was born both but am allfemale now
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October 16th 2012, 03:07 AM
I'm living as a straight female. But I feel a lot more like a male who's gay. Being a girl is like having a priceless doll the girl I live as. I don't think I'd be as happy as a guy though on how I think now though. Because I want to be ideal for what society sees. I feel it would be a fault to be what I feel inside another problem with myself. I think GOD does everything for a reason and that's why I was born female. Despite being uncomfortable and trying to accept myself as I am. What I live as is a girl. I missed out on what I wanted but I can still enjoy my life. I also have an intersex condition but I can even get pregnant so I'm a girl 100% nowadays at birth I looked like a boy. But with cah you get fixed early.
oh and I like guys but it only has been for 8 years and that's since I was 10. Before that I really liked girls. Then the feelings were just touching it never turned into more. I seriously like guys. And am sure I like them but it doesn't change that I see girls can be a lot hotter. I've always wondered what sex would feel like with one but like as a guy how would it feel. I'll never know so it's just a thought.
Last edited by Ennui.; December 1st 2012 at 04:13 AM.
Reason: Merging posts. :)
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November 29th 2012, 11:22 PM
I'm lesbian for one girl and straight for one guy. and I can't be attracted to anyone else. ha. and I'm female Like.... okay further detail.... lately on this website I'm on... deviantART, guys are sending me naughty pictures. and i can only think "wow I hate this" and sometimes its even triggering....
cuz I know that I want a girl, but not just any girl.... her
and then I think of him and I want him too....
ugh confusion. but in the words of some awesome person "I am not confused... I am bisexual"
Love is love people <3
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December 8th 2012, 09:31 PM
I get that. Trying to explain it is like trying to explain the metaphysical concepts, like God. You either acknowledge it, or you don't. Either way, there's not much to explain, it's just there.
We...are not alone. Not until we choose to be. Choose your fate. Defy life and become your own. Don't conform.
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January 27th 2013, 03:16 AM
I'm female, and I'm between gay and bisexual. Basically, I can recognize attractivity in both guys and girls, but I'm more attracted to girls. When I imagine myself in a serious relationship, it's usually with a girl.
Gender: blue violet genderqueer trans* guy. (he/him/his.)
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January 27th 2013, 08:09 AM
i'm best described as queer.
as my thing says, i'm a blue violet genderqueer trans* guy. the blue violet genderqueer part meaning that my genderqueer part is sort of a blended androgynous and male gender, though there's no separate female part.
most of the time i identify solely as male, though i can lean genderqueer.
as for my sexuality, offline people know me as gay. that's actually a preference. i prefer people of similar gender identity, be they queer or male or queer male. panromantic pansexual works best, although i don't love people "REGARDLESS" of gender. that makes it sound like gender isn't important to me. it is. i love gender. i love it when people experience it intensely. when it's so strong it's almost tangible. i love all bodies, whatever parts they have or how blended or queer their parts may be. sex and gender are spectrums, and i love them. beautiful. i love all minds and gender identities.
as a side note, the wording in the poll bothers me. intersex is not a gender identity, it's part of the sex spectrum. and "FTM trans" being separate from male, and "MTF trans" being separate from female, is really problematic because it implies trans* people are a subcategory. my gender identity is (queer) male, not ftm.
a better wording would possibly be the categories "cis female/male" and "trans* female/male". (i use the asterisk because it's the best way i know of to be inclusive of nonbinary genders, and i'm not totally binary myself.)
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February 17th 2013, 10:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Raptorjesus
Straight. As for Gender, I'm generally happy with male, but I don't feel like I would be terribly distraught if I randomly turned into a girl one day.
EDIT: Let's just go ahead and change that identity thing to "no freaking clue" for now, .
For some reason, I can't edit my original post anymore, sooo:
And a quick look at our helpful "Queer dictionary" thread, I have discovered that I am gender-fluid (My gender orientation changes occasionally) and straight, but homoromantic.
It's good to know that I'm not just crazy without a clue.
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February 19th 2013, 05:45 PM
I have a lot of comments on my poll, but that will be on another place in another time...
Im straight, male... Born male, I'll die male, I was born straight, I will die straight...
But Corrie, cheers mate, I laughed on that for 5 minutes... Haha...
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February 22nd 2013, 08:04 PM
Female. lesbian.
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February 22nd 2013, 09:19 PM
Cis female, and when it comes to sexuality i don't really bother picking a label. I like who I like, regardless of gender/sex/etc. etc. I'm definitely not a lesbian. I want a relationship with a guy but girls are hot but so are guys and urgh, I'll just go with pan because gender doesn't really play a role.
I'm perfectly normal; it's the rest of the world that's insane.
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March 4th 2013, 10:31 AM
Female straight
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- Michael Jordan
Do not let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do.
- John Wooden
Do you wanna come with me? 'Cause if you do, then I should warn you - you're gonna see all sorts of things. Ghosts from the past. Aliens from the future. The day the Earth died in a ball of flame. It won't be quiet, it won't be safe, and it won't be calm. But I'll tell you what it will be: The trip of a lifetime!
Don't trust a perfect person and don't trust a song that's flawless.
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March 7th 2013, 04:16 PM
I am a male, but I'm going to be taking steps to go female when i get the money to do so. Have to get diagnosed with G.I.D first.. then i can truly become the female i see myself as.
Feel free to add me as a friend, i love helping others and would accept help as well.
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March 22nd 2013, 04:12 AM
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Originally Posted by The Vulpix
I am a male, but I'm going to be taking steps to go female when i get the money to do so. Have to get diagnosed with G.I.D first.. then i can truly become the female i see myself as.
Feel free to add me as a friend, i love helping others and would accept help as well.
Lets change this to MtF and i kinda wanna be address as female here, kinda how why i picked vulpix as my avatar