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| June 24th 2025 03:09 AM |
| Proud90sKid |
Re: Camel Toe question
Your age says 30, so dress how you want. BUT: remember you dont get to choose who looks at you in public.
Would it be acceptable if the genders were reversed? Honest opinion: women dress in ways that would be sexual harassment if guys did it and then some of them blame guys for being distracted and (from what I hear…never happened to me personally) accuse us of sexual harassment for looking. LOL. Apparently it is a trend now for girls to show half the bottom of their ass now(and sit on public/open to public property like that with their bare ass). But many feel that guys they dont like arent supposed to look. Haha.
But yeah, feel free to dress the way you want. Just dont get offended when some man you dont like stares, cause thats a natural instinctual desire you are deliberately trying to activate in men and in public, you dont get to choose the audience.
So yes, do it if you are the type of easygoing woman to not be offended by guys you arent attracted to looking at that or even making some soft comments. If you cant handle that, it is not the fault of men, it is simply that you arent the type of personality who should dress like that. Definitely dont do it if you are a high-strung feminist who would be disgusted by a random “creep” staring. Frankly the feminists are wrong about this topic and imo you actually are inviting (and in a way consenting to) comments by dressing like that. Just be aware of that. It is not the fault of men. There is no problem if the woman is easygoing though and understands this. By dressing like that, you are consenting to this type of attention in my opinion. Lets be real here.
If you only want guys you are attracted to looking, then do it only at private parties or with specific people in a non-public place (or at least a public one that isnt crowded-like at a large park while on a date).
As a straight 32 year old guy, Id try to discretely and respectfully look if a 30 year woman dressed like that, but Id probably find myself looking several times and maybe even find myself staring intermittently. Its almost involuntary.
You will definitely get more male attention, but maybe the wrong kind if you are looking for something long term and serious. Id prefer a more modestly dressed woman for a long term partner. You show your personality first and foremost when you do that. Guys can already tell if they will be physically attracted without a woman dressing like this. By modest, I dont mean middle east/1950s America style, I mean clothes that arent OBVIOUSLY meant to show off. Id consider a bikini to be modest, but not a thong for example. Men 100 percent know that these clothes are intentional. So keep that in mind too. Every guy (and probably gal) you run into will know you intentionally are dressing to show. This can influence subconscious perceptions of you that people dont even realize they are perceiving.
A camel toe once in a while like you state is an accident or maybe just for an occassion. Id try my best not to look too much if I knew it was just an accidental mistake of outfit. If it is a daily occurrence, people will think something of it, at least subconsciously.
You arent a weirdo at all nor would I judge you negatively for this, but keep in mind what you are looking for in a guy and what type of relationship you want. As a guy, I can tell you that the bar is pretty low for getting guys to “notice”. But that may or may not be what you want depending on who you want to date. While physical attraction/lust is important in any relationship, you are emphasizing that first rather than your personality. This sort of dress will make a lot of guys want you from sheer sex drive, but nothing deeper. Some guys will wonder “if she dresses like this in public when Im not around, is she going to be faithful?”
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| June 23rd 2025 07:51 PM |
| Arabesque- golfing girl. |
Re: Camel Toe question
Growing up me and my siblings have always gone to a private school and we all dance in ballet all the time, so we have had always had a strict dress code and that is still how I dress now. You don't have to dress like this for someone to like you, you will have someone see how lovely you are and want to be friends with you or date you.
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| June 23rd 2025 06:01 PM |
| susan s |
Camel Toe question
Sometimes without even wanting it or realizing it I sometimes look in a mirror and realize I have a camel toe showing. I also sometimes dress on purpose to actually show a camel toe. I do it just cause it excites me when guys notice it and I see them fixated on it. I was just curious if any other girls do this on purpose as well or am I some weirdo LOL
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