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April 6th 2026 10:09 PM
Face Up.	Re: Am,I overreacting that my friend told his girlfriend that I like her? I'm sorry that you are going through this! It's definitely a lot. Do you think it would help to talk with this friend in a quiet area when neither of you have heightened emotions? You can explain your side of things, but also allow him to explain what's going on from his point of view as well. If things start to go south, it's okay to pause the conversation for a while until both of you are in a better headspace. At least that way both of you will be on the same page. If you don't think talking to him would work or it doesn't go well, I think it might be necessary to take some space. You're working on the project together so you can't avoid him completely, but maybe try to only communicate with him enough to get the project done, and not talk about things unrelated to the project. If he won't communicate with you to at least get the project done, you might need to talk to the teacher so you're not stuck doing the entire project by yourself.
April 6th 2026 08:41 PM
SpoonBreaker	Am,I overreacting that my friend told his girlfriend that I like her? [FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""]Ok let me wind back a bit to about mid February. My ROTC was doing an out of state several night trip. I get off the bus for lunch and I see this one girl and I'm like "wow she's pretty" well I see my friend you know talking to her with all of her friends and I immediately realize the two of them are dating. Fast forward to the next day I can't stop thinking about her and I confide in a friend on the trip. My friend basically tells me to move on. So I start opening up to more people right and then suddenly he starts being weird around me. When we had dinner at Wendys he told me to sit somewhere else and when I asked to play Uno with them he told me the game was full (there were 3 people playing). So I immediately think the worse and start lashing out at the friends I confided in and they swore they didn't tell him so they decide to settle this. They call him upstairs so we could "wrestle it out" and he has no clue what's going on apparently his girlfriend's best friend didn't like me. So I'm thinking problem solved right? Wrong. They forced me in a corner and made me tell him saying it would "smooth things over". It did not. After it all happened on the trip we made a deal. I wouldn't pursue her if he didn't tell her. For the first few days after we got back,we didn't really talk and then something came up. Our AP Human Geography teacher had an amazing idea, put me and my friend on a project together (there was one other person besides him). After a few days we are talking again, and he brought it up and just stop talking and then the next day he's like " I told my girlfriend you were pro- J.E".Now I have never said anything like this ever.The same day he asked me why I liked his girlfriend. I refused to answer that question. So spring break happens the day after that so I'm trying to hunt down my friends phone number and I finally get it and the results of the conversation were mixed. I showed the chats to some of my other friends and they said it was like two deaf guys talking to each other. So after break the project is still undergoing and he just stops talking to me in some sort of passive aggressive way. Now he knows that this passive aggressive deal gets to me. So he gets me to basically lash out at him over this. Now I regret this next part but I told one of my friends to go tell her. now what was great was that she was friends with my friends girlfriend but she said she already knows. now I immediately assume it was him (and it was), and it made me more mad. that lunch period was basically me spiraling trying to figure out why this man would do this and I was thinking "did I do something wrong". The next week I confide in another friend (basically all of my friends know now),and he said " oh I run track with that person". So I said "don't talk to him I can handle it." Two days later he's like "I talked to him and he had a full right to tell.his girlfriend." So the next day I run with my tail between my legs and I apologize and he didn't even acknowledge it. Now we are up to speed. Am I overreacting?[/size][/color][/font]

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