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Forum: Why Me? April 16th 2024, 11:52 PM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I'd say I'll just be the better person/employee and let things play out until I have her job. But, the last time I said that, it DIDN'T HAPPEN

We're being visited tomorrow. If he's still there...
Forum: Why Me? April 16th 2024, 05:28 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

It's almost guaranteed that you'll change your mind, or you lied to me, or you meant something else. You really shouldn't say things in writing if I can figure out within seconds of looking at the...
Forum: Games and Things April 14th 2024, 07:13 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If you're stringing me along until I'm a neurotypical extrovert, you may as well tell me I'll be promotable when I get taller. I'm not sure you really get that. Also, I think she's doing my review,...
Forum: Why Me? April 12th 2024, 07:26 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I FINALLY got it all sorted out, so OF COURSE you would CHANGE yours! I'm asking nicely for you to put mine back. Then I ask not so nicely, then I just call off. And, even if you say that wasn't...
Forum: Games and Things April 10th 2024, 05:22 AM
Replies: 113
Views: 8,228
Posted By Kate*
Re: What are you thinking about right now?

He doesn't get it either, and he agreed to figure it out for me. Maybe they really are clueless, or at least new at this; because as soon as I told her I could always do full days, I got another 90...
Forum: General April 9th 2024, 10:44 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 63
Posted By Kate*
Re: Puzzles and crosswords.

Jigsaw puzzles, absolutely NOT, but word puzzles, sudoku etc. and logic problems I LOVE. But, I always do them online so I can fill in the answers I don't know, and it'll fix my mistakes for me.
Forum: Games and Things April 8th 2024, 04:11 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Are you understanding the part where I'm not available for full-time hours ONLY because I got another job so I could STAY with you, after you told me I would NEVER have full-time hours again? Yet...
Forum: Why Me? April 5th 2024, 01:35 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I need a day off so bad, but I have no idea when my next one is. But, this is EXACTLY why I asked you NOT to give me a shift. I'm exhausted and I don't need it!

You have ONE chance to give me...
Forum: Why Me? April 1st 2024, 07:23 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

So, technically it was my fault. But, if you hadn't been an ass hole, I wouldn't have wanted to get rid of you, and I would've done it right the first time, so, it's still partly your fault. If...
Forum: Games and Things March 29th 2024, 05:42 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

As someone who's had more than his fair share of privileges because the manager is your friend, you don't get to complain about things not being fair.

This is why I said, and will continue to say,...
Forum: Games and Things March 28th 2024, 12:35 AM
Replies: 113
Views: 8,228
Posted By Kate*
Re: What are you thinking about right now?

It might be more possible than I thought, but I don't want to get my hopes up. There's still no opening, and even if there was, I'd still be competing with a million neurotypical, naturally...
Forum: Why Me? March 26th 2024, 05:45 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I only want to work when I'm not scheduled, explain that. I know what I want, and failing that, what I would be willing to accept. The problem is that it would take a miracle to get either. So, I...
Forum: Good Days! March 20th 2024, 09:39 PM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I was complimented by my coworkers and my assistant manager.
Forum: Why Me? March 18th 2024, 10:36 PM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I would only do that for you, and in return, I got shafted, and she didn't even speak to me; which may have another explanation, but is still off-putting. Maybe I'm not as welcome and wanted there...
Forum: Games and Things March 18th 2024, 10:27 PM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

When we eventually have the conversation that lays it all on the table, it's going to be VERY interesting. If you weren't as good a person as you are, I'd say you don't deserve me.
Forum: Good Days! March 16th 2024, 05:11 AM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I should be financially good for the rest of the year now, since hours will only come up from here.

And, tomorrow is tag day with 2 of my favorite coworkers.
Forum: Why Me? March 13th 2024, 06:46 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Some of that was deserved, but if that's seriously going to be your issue EVERY time I touch them, then I'll either stop admitting it's me, or you can do them yourself.

So, I might've REALLY...
Forum: Games and Things March 11th 2024, 05:45 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If you value family time that much, and I'm not saying you shouldn't, then you're in the wrong business.

STOP complaining to me about your hours. You are full-time, yours are guaranteed, I was...
Forum: Why Me? March 8th 2024, 03:33 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Something feels off, and it would help if I could check for my schedule, or reset my expired password from here instead of having to wait until it dies down tomorrow.

Worst fucking day, and I have...
Forum: General March 4th 2024, 07:37 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 144
Posted By Kate*
Re: Favorite month

October, it's not too hot or too cold, there isn't too little daylight yet, the leaves are pretty, and it smells good.
Forum: Games and Things March 3rd 2024, 11:30 PM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Thank God I have leverage for now, because 90 days in, and you're already trying to screw me over. But, for the record, I ASKED, I didn't TELL you, I made ZERO mention of it, and you'd have nothing...
Forum: Why Me? March 2nd 2024, 03:20 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Assuming things don't get any worse, and I hold out that long, it could be another 3-6 months. And even then, I doubt it'll do any good..
Forum: Games and Things February 29th 2024, 05:14 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I kind of hope you're back in tomorrow, but I'm not sure if I'll be happy to see you, or just want to yell at you.

I see what you're doing, the least you could do is respect me enough to admit...
Forum: Games and Things February 26th 2024, 04:13 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Personally, I don't think you're doing well enough that you can afford screwing over some of your most loyal and dependable employees, (or take the risk of being accused of discrimination.) But,...
Forum: Why Me? February 25th 2024, 08:36 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Even if the position opens, she will 100% get it over me. That's what he means by "other things" he won't elaborate on, and it's how he's justifying everything.

I don't want to, but I need to if...
Forum: Games and Things February 21st 2024, 07:21 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You keep saying, when your youngest graduates, you can leave and go anywhere you want. I mean it when I say that if you leave, I leave. Even if it's years away.

And, I know you're jealous. ...
Forum: Why Me? February 21st 2024, 03:11 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I need more hours from you, because he doesn't have them. But, you're screwing me now too, so I don't even want to see what you said in response.

I'm probably just overthinking, but knowing that...
Forum: Games and Things February 17th 2024, 12:49 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm watching closely and considering my options carefully. Don't think for one second that I will let you jerk me around. Especially with seniority and protection on my side.
Forum: Why Me? February 12th 2024, 09:04 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I don't want to, but I will absolutely do so if necessary, you will NOT push me around. And she'd better be retiring, and those hours better come to me. 2 days at one, 3 at the other, no 15 hour...
Forum: Why Me? February 8th 2024, 12:08 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

6 years, and I'm STILL fighting with these COMPLETELY INCOMPETENT idiots. If I STILL have coverage I shouldn't have, it's because YOU didn't do your fucking job, and I'm NOT paying the price for it....
Forum: Games and Things February 5th 2024, 10:47 PM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

The fact that I only get my schedule, and not the whole thing makes me suspicious. But, I know you mostly open, and all of my few shifts are mornings now, so I wonder if that's a coincidence. Or,...
Forum: Why Me? February 2nd 2024, 10:43 PM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Every single Saturday except one that was already scheduled, and now all my shifts are overnights! I don't like you enough yet to do this willingly.
Forum: Why Me? January 29th 2024, 04:47 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I really hope you didn't text the wrong person and that it's NOT truck day. I need the shift, but I HATE truck day.

You forced me to mess with it, and it's not my fault it's confusing. So, I...
Forum: Good Days! January 28th 2024, 11:07 PM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I got the extra work shift I needed, and no overnights this week!
Forum: Why Me? January 26th 2024, 01:21 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Is he screwing me, not sending me the schedule, so I don't know, and this is just more excuses? Or is he telling the truth? I want to trust him, he's jerked me around, but has he royally f***ed me...
Forum: Why Me? January 21st 2024, 04:39 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

He's trying to see if I'm going to quit, or maybe he wants to let me go, but he cares too much, so he wants to make sure if he does, I'll be okay with another job. Maybe that's just me being...
Forum: Why Me? January 18th 2024, 04:28 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I don't have proof of any of this overthinking. But, considering how often I'm right about the scenarios I come up with, I have theories, and I'm just waiting for the truth to come out. And I'd...
Forum: Games and Things January 16th 2024, 10:32 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Say whatever negative things about it that you want, and they're all true. But, it means that I really trust you. You might be a hypocrite of the highest order, you might screw me over, and I may...
Forum: Why Me? January 15th 2024, 03:09 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Why would you transfer the prescriptions without refills, when I literally renewed them all before the end of the year to avoid this exact issue?! And fix your system so i can pay and be done with...
Forum: Good Days! January 14th 2024, 09:23 AM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

Despite 2 jobs, I'm only scheduled 3 days next week. Bad news for my finances, good news for my mental health.
Forum: Why Me? January 11th 2024, 05:02 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

What I didn't screw up, your nightmare of a system did! I will never enjoy it, but assuming the fucking thing cooperates and I can handle a no-receipt return, then I'm promotable, and you can't hold...
Forum: Why Me? January 7th 2024, 11:00 PM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

No, I really don't want to go in tomorrow, especially for a day shift, especially after losing it today. But, I need the hours and you need the coverage.

Worst day in a long time, aside from...
Forum: Why Me? January 2nd 2024, 09:00 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Yes, I know better, but I'm also working overnight tomorrow, and need my circadian rhythm as backwards as I can get it. So much for these being "rare" even I can't handle them this often.
...
Forum: Games and Things January 1st 2024, 01:30 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I HATE having to bother you multiple times, especially knowing you're on vacation. But, if you had sent me the schedules like you agreed to do, I wouldn't have to. So, it's kind of your own fault. ...
Forum: Good Days! December 28th 2023, 11:19 PM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

They switched my noon shift to an overnight
Forum: Why Me? December 28th 2023, 06:03 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I would only consider it because it should take about 5 minutes. But, it's not even close to worth risking. I can do it tomorrow.

I can only hope that that schedule isn't official yet. ...
Forum: Why Me? December 24th 2023, 02:03 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

If things don't get better and/or you don't fix the schedule that you screwed up, then I have to decide if this is worth it. You said overnights would be "rare" 3/4 shifts is not even close. And if...
Forum: Games and Things December 23rd 2023, 04:49 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

What part of "Night owl turned vampire, who got off at 11:30 last night" are you not understanding?! You insist on making me work mornings, despite knowing that he has me work nights. I'm exhausted...
Forum: Why Me? December 22nd 2023, 07:39 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

2 more shifts and I'll FINALLY get a break, but sensory overload almost fucking killed me first.
Forum: Why Me? December 17th 2023, 05:07 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I'm not going to make it to Christmas with my sanity intact. And, with that new schedule, I now have to make it to New Years before things calm down. I avoided this because I knew my limits, and it...
Forum: General December 16th 2023, 05:28 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 239
Posted By Kate*
Re: Christmas Tradition

Our only major tradition of my mom's entire family having dinner and doing presents, ended when my grandma died, I say every year I want an advent calendar, because I've never done one; and that I...
Forum: Games and Things December 14th 2023, 05:20 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I want to trust your words, but your actions speak louder. "We're both doing what we have to do for right now." "I'm proud of you, I would've done the same thing." This was the best decision under...
Forum: Why Me? December 13th 2023, 03:36 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

You'll either regret this or not, and do something about it, or not. If I'm as valuable as everyone says, then he shouldn't have to literally FIGHT you every month, to give me what I'm asking for. ...
Forum: Why Me? December 9th 2023, 05:53 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Christmas can't come soon enough, I need my normal life back.

And, I still wish I didn't need both jobs. Even though it pays better, and can guarantee hours and advancement you can't, if you...
Forum: Why Me? December 9th 2023, 05:53 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Christmas can't come soon enough, I need my normal life back.

And, I still wish I didn't need both jobs. Even though it pays better, and can guarantee hours and advancement you can't, if you...
Forum: Why Me? December 4th 2023, 08:54 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I don't want to do this and the nerves are finally setting in. I have to accept that, as obvious as it is to me and everyone else, I will never be what you want, and that you can be a decent human...
Forum: Games and Things December 3rd 2023, 03:37 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You can have great qualities and still screw people over. You knew exactly what you were doing, and I would've had more respect for you if you just admitted it.


I'm 99.99% sure it's never...
Forum: Why Me? December 1st 2023, 05:34 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Change is never easy, and I'm dealing with a shit ton of it at once. I'm shocked my anxiety isn't through the roof, but I'm sure it will show up eventually. It was worse before I decided what to...
Forum: Games and Things November 29th 2023, 06:17 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I want to believe what you say, and that you want to keep me, but I feel like you really don't. That the promotion I want, and even full-time will never come. That you already know that, and just...
Forum: Why Me? November 27th 2023, 06:26 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Part of me is still hoping for a miracle I won't get, so that I don't have to do this.

It's ironic that when I complain about the situation he's been forced to put me in, you say there's nothing...
Forum: Why Me? November 24th 2023, 01:33 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I don't want to do this

Maybe the fact that there will always be somebody better is my answer.
Forum: Why Me? November 21st 2023, 03:36 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I hate when my head and heart are at war with each other. Because logic usually wins, and the loss hurts like hell. This is so fucking stressful, and no matter what I end up doing, the outcome...
Forum: Games and Things November 20th 2023, 07:56 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

The situation is hard enough, but this makes it so much worse. I guess "The road to Hell is paved with good intentions." is true. In an effort to avoid crushing me, because you love people so much,...
Forum: Games and Things November 17th 2023, 06:05 AM
Replies: 113
Views: 8,228
Posted By Kate*
Re: What are you thinking about right now?

That there's a really good chance I'll have to quit my job. Even though my manager absolutely adores me.

I knew the day would come when I couldn't justify the position he put me in, and it was...
Forum: Games and Things November 17th 2023, 06:02 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

As sick as it makes me to think about, I think this was the last straw. It's a shame you're probably going to lose who you admit is one of your best employees over bureaucracy and policy, but here...
Forum: Why Me? November 17th 2023, 04:01 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I guess I should've known better. This is the same shit that always happens. But, just the thought of having to take another job or leave is making me sick. And the fact that I'll continue to get...
Forum: Games and Things November 14th 2023, 03:58 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I may struggle with criticism, but at least I'm not immature, petty, and passive-aggressive to the point of demoting myself or getting myself fired for being stupid. I assume by now you realize what...
Forum: Games and Things November 11th 2023, 02:10 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I need full-time, or I have to leave; and not because I want to. If I'm not getting them now, I'm sure as hell never getting them, and I can't do this anymore.
Forum: Why Me? November 9th 2023, 11:53 PM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

"I know you guys don't like it, but it could help me get promoted (to a job that isn't even open)"

I don't give a shit about your promotion because you have this selfish streak in pursing it that...
Forum: Games and Things November 7th 2023, 06:25 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I hope he was just wrong; because otherwise you BLATENTLY lied to me.
Forum: Why Me? November 6th 2023, 07:21 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I knew as soon as I thought I wasn't going to catch this cold, I was doomed, and here it is.
Forum: Games and Things November 4th 2023, 04:18 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You need to stop contradicting yourself. It's infuriating. "I can't promote someone who can't hit standards." and explaining that if I couldn't meet said standards, you would let me down easy.
...
Forum: Games and Things October 24th 2023, 01:00 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I hope I'm wrong about what I think I overheard. You know you deserve better, right?!
Forum: Why Me? October 23rd 2023, 07:35 PM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

The new hire is faster on her first day than I've gotten in a year. He can't promote if I can't hit standards. This is never going to happen. I'm not capable, I'm going to fail, and I'm going to...
Forum: Food and Recipes October 21st 2023, 07:05 AM
Replies: 5
Poll: Yogurt
Views: 273
Posted By Kate*
Re: Yogurt

I'll eat it sometimes, but I'm really picky because of sensory issues. Vanilla, chocolate, and sometimes strawberry, or the kind with the stuff you mix in, is it. No weird flavors, or textures...
Forum: Why Me? October 18th 2023, 07:53 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I finally get what I want, and instead of what I've looked forward to, it's going to be miserable, because the stress is getting to him, and he's taking it out on me.
The fact that I'm conflicted...
Forum: Games and Things October 18th 2023, 05:12 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Just because I know why you're like this, doesn't mean it's acceptable. Your expectations are unrealistic, and I'll give up or quit LONG before you get what you want.
Forum: Why Me? October 15th 2023, 02:30 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Either it's never going to happen, it's never going to happen, and he already knows that, I'll be ready with no openings, or, I just have to be more patient, while I'm right about all of these...
Forum: Why Me? October 11th 2023, 05:45 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

The FUCKING AUDACITY of these people; who have NO right to say ANYTHING or to treat me, or anyone else like that! You manage the way they treat me, or I will leave. You may allow them to treat me...
Forum: Games and Things October 10th 2023, 02:40 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Assuming you had time, which you don't, I would NEED you to understand that my disability is real, and the ways it affects me are valid before anything else. I keep "focusing on" my diagnoses...
Forum: Games and Things October 6th 2023, 07:58 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You didn't even almost have to do that, but you did, and I can't thank you enough. But, I know it's not your job, so I'll try not to lose it that badly again. But, if we're really going to do this,...
Forum: Why Me? October 5th 2023, 07:41 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Well, at least you know what I'm dealing with here. I'm becoming more and more convinced it just won't happen. Between that, the fact that I'll never get keys if I can't count money, and that I...
Forum: Games and Things October 1st 2023, 06:47 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I would love that, and I know you have a passion for it, but you don't have time; so I'm not even going to ask. At least not until we're fully staffed and out of survival mode.
Forum: Why Me? September 25th 2023, 03:11 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

If this really happens, I'll probably need to go back to therapy. Which I will need a consistent schedule to plan for, and I don't know if I'll get that either. And WHY am I looking forward to it...
Forum: Games and Things September 22nd 2023, 08:00 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

One more thing you did to me. You took my stubbornness and replaced it with learned helplessness. I used to pursue things I wanted with EVERYTHING I had in me, and never said die. Now, if there's...
Forum: Why Me? September 21st 2023, 08:43 PM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

You said yourself, it's all or nothing which means failure is immanent. The only thing more painful than giving up on myself, is working my ass off to lose it anyway. And if I'm not promotable, I'm...
Forum: Why Me? September 19th 2023, 09:20 PM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

When you make me do a million things, none actually get done

I give up. The fact that no is a possibility means that no is the answer. It won't happen because I can't do it and I'm not wasting...
Forum: Why Me? September 17th 2023, 07:51 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Now I wonder if I should've just given her the website, instead of your number. But, you did say that if I knew of anybody who was looking, I could give it out. And she's out of a job tomorrow, on...
Forum: Games and Things September 16th 2023, 07:11 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I want to trust you, and unlike the other times, you're willing to actually work with me. But, I'm afraid I'm going to hit a neurological brick wall that you don't believe in, somewhere on this...
Forum: Why Me? September 13th 2023, 02:18 PM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Your communication rules are stupid. You expect everyone to automatically know what to do, but also force them to tell us every 2 seconds. But, the big things, no one has to mention those! Make up...
Forum: Why Me? September 12th 2023, 09:16 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Probably not my smartest decision, but it's livable. And I'll feel better about it once I get paid and confirm that it's really done. Plus, with everyone gone, hours should be coming up because he...
Forum: Games and Things September 12th 2023, 02:40 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I wonder if you're going to stick to your crap of "nobody being ready," while you become a giant asshole to your remaining employees, or if this changes things. Because if you think it's bad now,...
Forum: Good Days! September 10th 2023, 07:01 AM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I got Friday-Sunday, and next Saturday off
My favorite manager didn't leave after all
I might FINALLY get register training next week
Forum: Why Me? September 8th 2023, 05:30 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Training me means TRAINING me. He's expecting me to be ready by now because I SHOUD BE. And, we've had this discussion before: If I can't be fired for not doing it, then I'm NOT DOING IT (and you...
Forum: Why Me? September 6th 2023, 07:24 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

If you're back, I don't know why he's still working so much. And I hope that you're really stepping up; not just doing the bare minimum and leaving again because you aren't "supposed" to be here,...
Forum: Goals and Ambitions September 5th 2023, 07:41 AM
Replies: 9,546
Views: 317,464
Posted By Kate*
Re: Goal of the day!

To survive work and stay out of the drama until my manager is back.
Forum: Games and Things September 4th 2023, 11:15 PM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If your plans don't change, you are incredibly selfish, everyone will be beyond pissed, and you'll be lucky if we don't all quit. Not to mention, this WILL get back to your boss. Plus, stepping up...
Forum: Why Me? September 2nd 2023, 06:49 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

It figures, 3/4 of those positions open, and I'm best fit for the one that's not! And I don't know why me wanting jr. management after 6 YEARS is such a shock to people!

You may have covered me...
Forum: Food and Recipes August 28th 2023, 01:31 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 637
Posted By Kate*
Re: Hot or cold Pizza

I used to be able to eat it cold, but I think I had a bad experience once, and now it grosses me out unless it's hot.
Forum: Games and Things August 26th 2023, 08:15 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm 100% serious, I'm just not sure it's possible. Because past patterns prove otherwise, and for reasons outside my control. But, I want to trust you, and something keeps telling me to stay. But,...
Forum: Why Me? August 24th 2023, 03:19 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I want to trust you so badly, but I feel like I'll just be putting more effort into something else that will fall apart on me. And part of me feels like you're telling me things just to pacify me so...
Forum: Games and Things August 22nd 2023, 08:18 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I don't want to insert myself into drama, but I think you have a right to know they're being nice to your face and blaming you behind your back, to avoid accountability for the part they fucked up. ...
Forum: Goals and Ambitions August 20th 2023, 06:23 AM
Replies: 9,546
Views: 317,464
Posted By Kate*
Re: Goal of the day!

Survive my Sunday shift, complete with performance review.
Forum: Good Days! August 20th 2023, 06:21 AM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I got my new glasses, so I can see again
Forum: Why Me? August 20th 2023, 06:20 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Now that I know I'm FINALLY getting my review tomorrow (3 months late, because they forgot about me. Again), I'm not sure how I feel about it. I got the raise, so it can't be that bad, but I've...
Forum: Why Me? August 19th 2023, 05:50 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I've had glasses for about 30 years, and they're NEVER ready in 3 days. I'm half expecting something to be wrong with them.
Forum: Why Me? August 16th 2023, 03:55 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I really hope tomorrow doesn't suck like it looks like it will. And, if you know we're being visited, why are you off AGAIN?!

I am NOT picking up her slack, and I will absolutely tell him off...
Forum: Good Days! August 16th 2023, 02:47 AM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I finally got my new glasses ordered, and these ones adjusted so they stop falling off my face!
Forum: Why Me? August 15th 2023, 05:54 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I'm expecting them to either fight with me, or for this to be pointless. If she had only done her fucking job, I wouldn't have to put up with this crap.
Forum: Why Me? August 11th 2023, 06:45 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Yeah, you'd BETTER fix some things. And then stick around long enough for them to actually happen. That's aside from I fucking told you that the second you leave, they screw me. And apparently,...
Forum: Good Days! August 11th 2023, 01:50 AM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

My manager gave me a full shift tomorrow to make up for the other one screwing me, and he said "From there, we're going to change some things." Which I'm guessing means he's going to fix the mess. ...
Forum: Games and Things August 8th 2023, 09:03 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Please call me in, but at a reasonable time considering I'm going to bed at 5 AM
Forum: Why Me? August 7th 2023, 01:52 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I could be wrong, but I said no for a reason and I have a feeling, I'm going to be right AGAIN, and this will be ONE more thing this fucking diagnosis is going to take from me.

At this point I...
Forum: Why Me? August 2nd 2023, 06:21 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Since no one understands what the fuck ADA means, and it's financial January, I have no choice but to try the register. And if I melt or shut down in front of customers, then I fucking told you so. ...
Forum: Games and Things August 1st 2023, 01:52 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

We're having a conversation. You said you have a plan, and I have one too. Between the two of us, we should be able to come up with something. Plus, when you see the schedule, you'll lose your...
Forum: Why Me? July 30th 2023, 03:26 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Forget helping other stores, ours is falling apart and if you don't get your ass back in there for more than 2 minutes and handle my schedule yourself, you'll lose me. I won't have a choice but to...
Forum: Goals and Ambitions July 29th 2023, 12:12 AM
Replies: 9,546
Views: 317,464
Posted By Kate*
Re: Goal of the day!

Survive one more week without the GM in the store
Forum: Good Days! July 28th 2023, 05:53 AM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I closed with my favorite manager
I got most of my hours back
I DON'T have to do inventory at 5AM on Sunday
Forum: Games and Things July 27th 2023, 02:58 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You wouldn't call the manager who cut my hours in half, a name to a coworker you know wouldn't repeat it, but you'd break the cardinal rule and expect that either, I wouldn't tell on you, or that...
Forum: Good Days! July 25th 2023, 08:42 AM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I get to close with my favorite manager tomorrow, after not seeing him for over a week.
Forum: Games and Things July 23rd 2023, 07:44 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I can't believe, as a friend, you would put me in this position. I know you have a stubborn streak, but when you are junior management level, you can't just do whatever the fuck you want, because...
Forum: Why Me? July 21st 2023, 02:30 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I feel weird and I don't like it. I'm bored and we need our GM back ASAP so he can do the schedule correctly before everyone revolts.

Less than 20 hours this week, fucking awesome. But, I close...
Forum: Goals and Ambitions July 18th 2023, 08:16 AM
Replies: 9,546
Views: 317,464
Posted By Kate*
Re: Goal of the day!

Survive my last shift before 2 days off, and keep it together until my favorite manager comes back for more than 5 minutes and can fix the things that need fixing.
Forum: Why Me? July 14th 2023, 10:18 PM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

You are the ONLY one allowed to touch my schedule from now on! She seems hell-bent on fucking me over and I'm SICK of it

And no, as badly as I want the hours, I'm not working 10+ days in a row...
Forum: Why Me? July 13th 2023, 02:22 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

If I assume that she's right and this is my answer, then you're at least worth the conversation. I respect you enough to make sure you understand where it's coming from. It's one thing if there...
Forum: Games and Things July 9th 2023, 03:19 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I have a feeling you sacrificed your own hours and cut other people for me, and I hate that. I'm okay with the cuts making the rounds, instead of it only/always being me who gets taken from, but I...
Forum: Why Me? July 8th 2023, 06:08 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I'm mentally preparing myself for the same or fewer hours, and the conversation I don't want to have again. As amazing as the people are, it's been bait and switch and red flags from the beginning,...
Forum: Why Me? July 5th 2023, 03:28 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I don't know why I'm excited to close with him tomorrow. Given my short shift, he'll probably be in the office by the time I get there, and I won't even see him.
Forum: Games and Things July 3rd 2023, 05:38 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I know you're fixing it, but I hope I still get to close with you, since we both love it so much. And please don't call me in early tomorrow. Not enough warning, will not be awake.

If I do...
Forum: Anxiety and Stress July 3rd 2023, 03:31 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 460
Posted By Kate*
Re: It's only been about a week and I already hate my job

I'm sorry you're going through this, I know it's awful. But, it is absolutely normal. I was at my previous job almost 5 years, then started a new one in October and felt the EXACT same way, despite...
Forum: Why Me? July 1st 2023, 02:39 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

You'd BETTER take care of it. Because if you think I need to calm down now, you haven't even BEGUN to see me MAD. But, since I reminded you you JUST said this wouldn't happen, and you tried to...
Forum: Why Me? June 29th 2023, 08:17 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

If you are out there again making that noise at the crack of dawn, I'm losing it.

And I don't understand why I have to go out of my way on my day off for this; especially since I ended up going...
Forum: Games and Things June 29th 2023, 08:11 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I want you to take the schedule back over. You don't get to wonder why I'm paranoid anymore. And my review is late; but I expected as much.
Forum: Good Days! June 29th 2023, 05:02 AM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

The manager who cut my hours this week, called me in, so I made some of them up. And I caught and corrected her logic/math before she did the same thing again. So, crisis averted
Forum: Games and Things June 25th 2023, 05:54 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Regardless of how or why, based on what it looks like and what you JUST told me, I have every right to be triggered over it.

He's over budget because she's allowed to work as many double shifts...
Forum: Goals and Ambitions June 24th 2023, 06:31 AM
Replies: 9,546
Views: 317,464
Posted By Kate*
Re: Goal of the day!

Survive the next 3 days at work without rage quitting my job
Forum: Why Me? June 22nd 2023, 07:39 PM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Yes, I'm in a mood because SO IS EVERYOME ELSE who can't be bothered to use the FUCKING COMMUNION DEVICES and get pissy because the GM told them to do something you don't like! Get off your God damn...
Forum: Games and Things June 19th 2023, 09:59 PM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Why are all the adults who used to love me immature, selfish, assholes?! She says they'd still show up in a crisis, but I doubt that now. I assume I'll be facing the worst day of my life a lonely...
Forum: Why Me? June 17th 2023, 08:38 PM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

When someone else is on their break in the break room with you, TURN YOUR FUCKING PHONE DOWN!
Forum: Why Me? June 16th 2023, 07:00 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I either need a vacation, (which is unpaid so I can't afford it), more than one day off at a time, a shift in the back, or maybe a couple of shorter ones. Not enough to destroy my income, but enough...
Forum: Why Me? June 15th 2023, 06:19 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I find it ironic that I'm so invaluable that you need and expect me to get too much done in not enough time, and yet can't for the life of you REMEMBER my fucking BREAKS! And get mad when you...
Forum: Games and Things June 10th 2023, 10:12 PM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

We're political opposites and disagree on major things. But, I can live with it because you're not an asshole. At least not to me; yet.
Forum: Why Me? June 10th 2023, 07:39 PM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Cover your mouth when you cough (at work after having Covid), and DON'T chew with your mouth open.

I'm 99.9% sure that I just triggered myself and I'm being paranoid. Part of me wants to talk to...
Forum: Why Me? June 6th 2023, 05:26 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

It's supposed to be fixed, she took it to the DEALER for fuck sake! If it dies ONE more time, she's going to get a new one. As much as she loves this car and doesn't want to, it literally has one...
Forum: Why Me? June 3rd 2023, 12:06 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

scheduled 7 days in a row, but at least I didn't find out until I was almost halfway though.

The only thing worse than 9-hour Sunday floor shifts are 9-hour markdown shifts. And after tomorrow, I...
Forum: Good Days! June 1st 2023, 03:24 AM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

[FONT="Arial"][COLOR="Blue"][SIZE="2"]We have a working car again, and HOPEFULLY, it's a permanent fix.

My favorite manager said of next week's schedule "You're working with me a ton." ...
Forum: Good Days! May 30th 2023, 08:30 PM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

My coworkers can get me to and from work tomorrow and hopefully, we'll have the car back by tomorrow night.
Forum: Why Me? May 29th 2023, 03:30 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I was told I would have access to that email "forever", but they switched companies and I lost access. Which means I no longer have the few emails from the amazing professor who just died. I...
Forum: Why Me? May 28th 2023, 08:09 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I don't see my favorite manager until Wednesday now.

And this death is hitting me differently than I thought it would. He was one of those extremely rare people who are just amazing and knowing...
Forum: Games and Things May 25th 2023, 03:10 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I tried to say thank you several times, and I'm not sure you ever really understood the impact you had. As the one tasked with facing my dream-turned-nightmare head on with me, I learned SO MUCH...
Forum: Why Me? May 24th 2023, 02:42 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

What is the point of building big teams if you're going to pull EVERYBODY but me to do something else?! And I want this fucking review over with ASAP, so you can tell me for the 4th time that...
Forum: Why Me? May 20th 2023, 03:46 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Anything in writing will come back to bite me in the ass, so I was careful. He knows everything I could possibly come up with anyway, so I'm not digging my own grave. One day off before a 17-hour...
Forum: Why Me? May 19th 2023, 03:46 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

It's pointless because you've created a culture where we can come to you with anything and you HANDLE it immediately. Anything I would bring up, we've already talked about, probably more than once. ...
Forum: Games and Things May 18th 2023, 06:21 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

As much as I may need that, and want it from you, I refuse to make it your job; because it isn't.

I was right, it's a trap, and FYI: If and when you leave this company, so do I. I've already been...
Forum: Good Days! May 16th 2023, 01:55 AM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

Thursday I work a closing shift with all my favorite people
Forum: Why Me? May 15th 2023, 07:09 PM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Grow up, asshole. If that was a typo, you have the wrong generation; if not, you're a disgusting excuse for a human being.

Tomorrow is everything I hate about a shift, long, early, and on the...
Forum: Games and Things May 13th 2023, 07:25 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Please take care of yourself. Even though you're my boss first, I care about your well-being. I know you're stubborn, and you're going to do what you want, but some recent changes have me genuinely...
Forum: Why Me? May 12th 2023, 03:04 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I'm ready for a day off, but 8-hours tomorrow first; and I don't see my favorite manager until Tuesday :(
Forum: Games and Things May 9th 2023, 05:28 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Get me a schedule far enough out, and I'll make an appointment; so you are no longer responsible for my brain that was never in your job description to begin with. Because I'm starting to feel bad...
Forum: Why Me? May 9th 2023, 01:42 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I got a therapist specifically so he didn't become my therapist; and it happened anyway.

Yes completely unrealistic expectations, that could only ever be met by robots, trigger the shit out of me....
Forum: Why Me? May 5th 2023, 03:53 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I don't know why it's different with her, but your entire team is feeling it. So, I'm going to bring it up until you LISTEN and DEAL with it. You think we're slow and non-compliant now, wait until...
Forum: Games and Things May 3rd 2023, 03:35 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

My brain is not your job, and as much as you're fulfilling an unspoken need, I don't want my insecurities and deficits to define our entire relationship.

Based on the little bit that I overheard,...
Forum: Why Me? April 30th 2023, 07:23 PM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

As SOON as I get decent hours back, we hire?! I see how it is. The fact that you like me may be job security for now. But, if you think it means you can jerk me around or take advantage of the...
Forum: Why Me? April 29th 2023, 05:37 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

An 8-hour Saturday because I agreed to stay before you realized you didn't need me, for someone I'm almost positive doesn't really want me to. Fucking awesome. Then a long Sunday and long and early...
Forum: Good Days! April 27th 2023, 04:46 AM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I close with my favorite manager tomorrow, and maybe I can talk to him about why work suddenly feels so icky.
Forum: Why Me? April 26th 2023, 01:18 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

This review will be very interesting. The guy who can't sugarcoat anything hasn't had anything negative to say, but the atmosphere has shifted the last 2 days, I'm no longer comfortable and I'm...
Forum: Games and Things April 24th 2023, 06:54 PM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Its never enough and you're asking a lot for low pay. I could fail the same somewhere else and get paid better to do it. And then to go on about what a great job I do and joke about me moving up...
Forum: Why Me? April 23rd 2023, 05:36 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I'm desperate for a day off, I get the whole weekend and I'm bored by the first day. Still better than work though, I guess. I need a life.

Yes, I mind. That's why I'm not answering, take the...
Forum: Good Days! April 22nd 2023, 01:34 AM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I survived my 9-hour shift, and now I get the whole weekend off.
Forum: Why Me? April 19th 2023, 02:07 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I am getting REALLY sick of you not UNDERSTANDING shit! It goes to the INSURANCE COMPANY, not the doctor, THEY were supposed to send it FOR ME and YES I threw away the PAPER versions, it's in my...
Forum: Good Days! April 18th 2023, 01:06 AM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I talked though stuff with my manager and he was amazing as always and I got through one of my two super long shifts.
Forum: Games and Things April 15th 2023, 05:04 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I officially go directly to you for EVERYTHING now. You are the only reason I'm still there. You write the reviews, your expectations are the ones I care about, and YOU know how to effectively...
Forum: Why Me? April 14th 2023, 02:37 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Are you fucking kidding me, is all I'm going to say right now. But, if this is still gnawing at me on Monday, or if something else happens before then that adds to it, we WILL have a conversation...
Forum: Games and Things April 10th 2023, 11:44 PM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

She's your favorite and everyone knows it. She gets the full-time and everything that comes with it, without all the responsibility. Meanwhile, you make it clear that I'm not even eligible a lower...
Forum: Why Me? April 10th 2023, 01:51 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I really hope I'm hanging tomorrow, but I don't think the truck had that much apparel on it. I would tolerate markdowns, they just take FOREVER. And hopefully the car starts. Just because my...
Forum: Games and Things April 7th 2023, 02:34 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If that means what I think it means, I couldn't be more proud of you!

You're writing reviews? You said a year, not 6 months. I know you like me better than I do, but just the thought of them...
Forum: Why Me? April 4th 2023, 11:58 PM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

So, even though I've known for AT LEAST 3 MONTHS that I need new glasses, I have to either find an optometrist to verify it or wait at least 4 MORE MONTHS to get them because you couldn't be...
Forum: Games and Things April 2nd 2023, 01:43 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

So, you just throw out there that we're hiring for full-time, after telling me 3 times that I'm not eligible, but both of you absolutely LOVE me... Looks like we're having a conversation then. If...
Forum: Why Me? April 1st 2023, 03:20 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

They both get the whole weekend off and I'm forced to survive insanely long shifts for the next 3 days! In theory, he gave them a break, so someone else could have the hours. And the hours are up,...
Forum: Games and Things March 29th 2023, 02:12 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Everyone can tell she's your favorite, and almost everyone has complained about her to you. Addressing her behavior is part of your job whether you want to or not. If you don't it will be one of...
Forum: Why Me? March 25th 2023, 03:02 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

It's barely 11:30, and even with caffeine, I'm exhausted. But, at least I can sleep as late as I want tomorrow

I hope the 7-hour shift I picked up on the morning of my day off is a hanging shift...
Forum: Good Days! March 24th 2023, 09:35 PM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I got a whole weekend and Monday off, and I got pizza.
Forum: Games and Things March 24th 2023, 01:25 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Is this the writing on the wall that he predicted when he said "You wouldn't believe how many of these stores close within a year?" Or, are we just behind and he saw things he wasn't supposed to? I...
Forum: Why Me? March 23rd 2023, 03:23 PM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

That wasn't there when I got here, so I did what it said and he told me to hang. Not my fault.
Forum: Why Me? March 23rd 2023, 03:01 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

So, I picked up a morning shift on my day off to help you out, you weren't even there, and she complained within my earshot to someone else that I was working too slow. You either want me there or...
Forum: Games and Things March 23rd 2023, 12:22 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

This is chaos for my neurodivergent brain, and I'm starting to drown, It's too much change at once, no one is telling me or explaining a damn thing, my schedule has gone from practically 0 hours,...
Forum: Why Me? March 21st 2023, 08:07 PM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

This is chaos for my neurodivergent brain and I fucking hate it.

WHY did I pick up a 5-hour morning shift on my DAY OFF?!

Things are changing and I don't like it. I don't know if it's just...
Forum: Why Me? March 19th 2023, 06:41 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Thanks for CLEARLY implying that I'll quit my job within a year of starting it. I've had to think about it, but I love the managers too much. And yes, there's a part of me that thinks that I'm...
Forum: Games and Things March 18th 2023, 05:04 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I suppose I should've asked you to show me how to do it myself. But, this is exactly what I was talking about. Before you make a big deal about him in front of me, you might want to consider that...
Forum: Why Me? March 16th 2023, 01:32 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Something is going on that I don't have the details of, and I don't like it. I know not everything is my business, and maybe ignorance is bliss. And that's fine, but a lack of information makes me...
Forum: Why Me? March 14th 2023, 03:15 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I hope this pharmacy is better because the people at the other one are STUPID. HOW did I get 2 MONTHS of prescriptions when you aren't in-network?! For the MILLIONTH time, I DO NOT HAVE MEDICAID!!!!
Forum: Why Me? March 11th 2023, 04:22 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I won't see my favorite manager all week.

And I've been without one of my meds for days because the doctor's office wouldn't fill it, and now the pharmacy DOESN'T HAVE ANY WTF?!
Forum: Games and Things March 6th 2023, 05:17 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

She's on vacation and I'm still barely on the schedule. PLEASE give me at least one shift. I know you like me enough to do what you can (and probably more than she does), again, the favoritism is...
Forum: Why Me? March 5th 2023, 02:15 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

The favoritism is incredibly obvious. And either, you shouldn't have offered that as an accommodation (because you can't make it reasonably work), or someone needs to review the ADA. Because,...
Forum: Games and Things March 1st 2023, 07:08 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Maybe I should've known, (and have since learned) not to trust you/anyone with that much information. But, your failed attempt to gaslight me in response, instead of just telling me the truth, has...
Forum: Why Me? February 25th 2023, 07:29 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I FINALLY got put back on the schedule; it's supposed to be getting better, not worse. Either keeping me off the register shouldn't have been offered as the accommodation, or you need to look at...
Forum: Games and Things February 25th 2023, 02:15 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I don't necessarily care if you play favorites, as long as it doesn't affect promotions and whatnot. But, you might want to make it less obvious.
Forum: Games and Things February 20th 2023, 07:11 AM
Replies: 10,419
Views: 401,985
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm both dreading and looking forward to the conversation I assume we will have tomorrow. You retained me by handling the first one well, which is why I want to trust you this time, but I can't. ...
Forum: Why Me? February 20th 2023, 01:08 AM
Replies: 10,610
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 330,215
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

If that's your threshold for complaining, then I'm not your problem. My first official complaint EVER and I've had A LOT worse than you. I hope you're proud of yourself bitch.

I should've...
Forum: Good Days! February 17th 2023, 03:11 AM
Replies: 11,841
Views: 383,786
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I actually got an extra shift for tomorrow. Maybe things are finally easing up...
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