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Forum: Rape and Abuse June 16th 2016, 08:38 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,630
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Police Refusing to Investigate Rape

Hi.

Thanks for taking the time to reply. I appreciate that there's not a lot he can do, but I would rather he checked with his superior first before telling me anything to make sure what he was...
Forum: Rape and Abuse June 15th 2016, 06:24 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,630
Posted By Wingardium27
Unhappy Police Refusing to Investigate Rape

Hi.

Over the past 3 months, the police have been investigating my rape on and off. Today I have been told that there is nothing further they can do. The detective heading up the case told me that,...
Forum: Rape and Abuse June 11th 2016, 07:27 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,821
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Bullying After Rape Made Public

I spoke to the teacher, who spoke to the pastoral team. The pastoral team said they wouldn't do anything unless it continued or escalated. I went back to the teacher who said she will talk to the...
Forum: Rape and Abuse June 9th 2016, 09:46 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,821
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Bullying After Rape Made Public

Hi Holly.

Thanks so much for the kind words and support. You've pretty much hit the nail on the head - but even if they don't understand, surely they can at least try to be sympathetic instead of...
Forum: Rape and Abuse June 8th 2016, 08:28 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,821
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Bullying After Rape Made Public

I'm shocked too...

The school counselor is only in two days a week from an external place, so she has no real power. I tried speaking to the pastoral care woman and she told them not to do it...
Forum: Rape and Abuse June 7th 2016, 08:54 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,821
Posted By Wingardium27
Angry Bullying After Rape Made Public

Hi guys.

As some of you may know, I was raped 4 months ago by a stranger. The police have started investigating 'properly' and are speaking to everyone who was at the disco when I was raped. The...
Forum: Music May 2nd 2016, 01:24 PM
Replies: 11,981
Views: 477,982
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

'It was me and a gun
And a man on my back
And I sang "Holy, Holy" as he buttoned down his pants.
You can laugh
It's kind of funny things you think
At times like these,
Like I haven't seen...
Forum: Rape and Abuse May 2nd 2016, 01:19 PM
Replies: 8
Triggering: Was it Rape?
Views: 2,948
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Was it Rape?

Thank you for your reassurance and help :)

I'm working on getting over the guilt and cutting myself some slack. I am also trying to stop blaming myself for what happened and trying to rationalise...
Forum: Rape and Abuse May 2nd 2016, 07:50 AM
Replies: 8
Triggering: Was it Rape?
Views: 2,948
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Was it Rape?

Thanks for clearing that up for me! But I just feel so guilty and like I am to blame for what eventually happened because I gave in to what he wanted. What a w@nker he was. I was 13 at the time it...
Forum: Rape and Abuse May 2nd 2016, 07:45 AM
Replies: 8
Triggering: Was it Rape?
Views: 2,948
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Was it Rape?

Thank you. It's been a strange relief to finally say all of what happened, not just the bit I chose to remember instead of blocking out (what was for me) the worst part.

Thanks for the...
Forum: Rape and Abuse May 2nd 2016, 07:42 AM
Replies: 8
Triggering: Was it Rape?
Views: 2,948
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Was it Rape?

Thanks for the really quick reply! I'm sorry you had to go through that with your ex - if you ever need to talk or just rant feel free to message me. Thanks for the clarification.

Take care :hug:
Forum: Rape and Abuse May 1st 2016, 09:25 PM
Replies: 8
Triggering: Was it Rape?
Views: 2,948
Posted By Wingardium27
Question Was it Rape?

Hi everyone!

As some of you may already know, I was sexually assaulted a few months ago. I have only recently shared the second half of the assault with the police and my family in the past week...
Forum: Why Me? April 17th 2016, 03:54 PM
Replies: 10,337
Triggering: Complaint of the day
Views: 305,543
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Complaint of the day

The police have still done absolutely NOTHING after I reported him 6 WEEKS AGO!
Forum: Why Me? April 17th 2016, 03:50 PM
Replies: 10,590
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 326,577
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Screaming thread.

I'm just so done. The police aren't doing anything! It's been 6 weeks since it was reported and what do I get? Yeah, that's right - NOTHING. I am the one who has to live with what he did to me, I am...
Forum: Music April 17th 2016, 03:30 PM
Replies: 11,981
Views: 477,982
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

"That boy, take me away, into the night,
Out of the hum of the street lights and into a forest,
I'll do whatever you say to me in the dark,
Scared I'll be torn apart by a wolf in mask of a...
Forum: Friends and Family April 16th 2016, 08:30 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,325
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Teacher Knows and Is Telling Parents!?

Thank you :hug:

It's definitely a big relief - it feels like I'm no longer directly lying to my parents and they were a lot more supportive than I thought. My first counselling session went quite...
Forum: Friends and Family April 16th 2016, 08:22 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,325
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Teacher Knows and Is Telling Parents!?

Hey! Thanks :D

I'm so sorry about your situation. Your parents really ought not to punish you for your coping method or what's on your phone - if that's their way of showing their disapproval,...
Forum: Friends and Family April 15th 2016, 07:05 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,325
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Teacher Knows and Is Telling Parents!?

Hi! Sorry for the late reply.

My parents actually reacted a lot better than I thought. My mum was upset but tried to be understanding and my dad was mainly indifferent, which is the closest he can...
Forum: Friends and Family April 15th 2016, 06:48 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,325
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Teacher Knows and Is Telling Parents!?

Thank you for the continued support! I'm just in the process of updating you all :hug:

I'm loving the positivity from you all :)
Forum: Friends and Family April 10th 2016, 05:19 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,325
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Teacher Knows and Is Telling Parents!?

Hi!

Thanks for the advice - at least it lets me know what I'm in for when my parents find out, if nothing else. Sh*t, even thinking about this on Sunday evening is making me anxious. I have small...
Forum: Friends and Family April 10th 2016, 05:03 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,325
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Teacher Knows and Is Telling Parents!?

Hey :)

Thanks for all the support - everyone here has been wonderful so far in helping me out.

Wow, your situation sounds so similar to mine! My friend was also apparently in tears when she...
Forum: Friends and Family April 10th 2016, 04:35 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,325
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Teacher Knows and Is Telling Parents!?

:hug: I'm happy for you and glad that you're over it - now I just hope that I can do the same. Thanks!
Forum: Friends and Family April 10th 2016, 04:33 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,325
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Teacher Knows and Is Telling Parents!?

@Little Miss

Hey

My friend talking to the teacher wasn't necessarily a problem (seeing as I trust her like a second mother), but the telling my parents is. I'm scared of how they'll react and...
Forum: Friends and Family April 9th 2016, 09:41 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,325
Posted By Wingardium27
Re: Teacher Knows and Is Telling Parents!?

Thanks for replying so quickly! :hug:

I'm on the waiting list for counselling at school and rant to the friend who told the teacher and the teacher herself (seeing as I trust her completely and...
Forum: Friends and Family April 9th 2016, 08:15 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 2,325
Posted By Wingardium27
Unhappy Teacher Knows and Is Telling Parents!?

Hi!

A friend recently went to a teacher and told her I self harm. The teacher passed this on to the pastoral care manager, who is going to call my parents on Monday. I'm really freaking out...
Forum: Music April 3rd 2016, 09:18 AM
Replies: 11,981
Views: 477,982
Posted By Wingardium27
'When someone said, "Count your blessings now ...

'When someone said, "Count your blessings now
Before they're long gone."
I guess I just didn't know how
I was all wrong'

- Who Knew, P!nk

'Your way to life has only showed me what a fool I...
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