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Forum: Games and Things March 28th 2011, 06:50 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Dear Mom and Dad, I desperately want to tell you that I'm bi. Maybe telling you will help me more readily accept it than I do now. I found a really cute guy and whenever I hear from him, I've never...
Forum: Games and Things March 27th 2011, 01:12 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Since when has my life become Brokeback Mountain???

http://blog.allanellenberger.com/wp-content/uploads/brokeback-mountain.jpg
Forum: LGBTQ+, Sexuality and Gender Identity March 23rd 2011, 04:38 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,628
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Arrow LGBT: Coming to terms

Recently went to Vegas and a lot of the trip seemed like it was stripped from a CW drama. Hell I'm in a bind, caught between a guy and a girl - I'm bi - so it especially feels like I'm living in a...
Forum: Games and Things March 4th 2011, 12:21 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

To Mom, Dad, and all my friends. Your son/friend is officially bi. I've known for a long time, but never tried to experiment. Well, I opened that pandora's box and sent messages on dating sites out...
Forum: Games and Things February 26th 2011, 04:01 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Hey dude, I know you're gonna text me tonight probably or tomorrow to say happy birthday. What you don't know is when I get that I'll desperately want to tell you I'm bi. That guys get my blood...
Forum: LGBTQ+, Sexuality and Gender Identity February 25th 2011, 10:35 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,237
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: How LGBT is presented in the media

If that was the case my family, sister and friends would all know by now. My Mom? She thinks I'm a homophobe because I don't want to talk about things in the news concerning being gay - mostly...
Forum: LGBTQ+, Sexuality and Gender Identity February 24th 2011, 11:55 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,237
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Arrow How LGBT is presented in the media

This isn't really a thread for advice, but more just - I was curious to see what others thought about how LGBT is portrayed in the media (film, TV, etc).

As a bi guy, the one thing I never got was...
Forum: LGBTQ+, Sexuality and Gender Identity February 22nd 2011, 04:14 AM
Replies: 882
Views: 90,888
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: What is your sexuality and gender identity?

Bisexual and happily starting to experiment now that I'm fully accepting of it.
Forum: Games and Things November 2nd 2010, 05:21 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Dad, or spirit guide whatever I call you. Thanks for all that you have coming to me. Can you please just help me keep on the path of the righteous and stray from temptation.
Forum: Games and Things November 1st 2010, 06:42 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Dad, what the fuck do you want from me?

Yeah, you give me profession. You help me rise in a tough industry.

But it's all meaningless if you're destined to be alone.

Why the fuck was I put...
Forum: Games and Things October 22nd 2010, 06:38 AM
Replies: 4,871
Views: 146,984
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: What are you craving?

A human liver with some fava beans and a nice chianti.

- For those who think I'm a cannibal, seriously improve your knowledge on classic films.
Forum: Games and Things October 14th 2010, 04:04 AM
Replies: 335
Views: 9,555
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Male Vs. Female

I'll help. 136. But, yeah there are more girls here.
Forum: General Health October 6th 2010, 06:36 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,103
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Medication?

Quick question for anyone that uses meds to balance their lives out. Does it have any negative side effects? Like does it make you go numb?

I'm a writer with social anxiety disorder that makes me...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction July 9th 2010, 08:07 AM
Replies: 455
Views: 32,551
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: How long have you been sober?

I think only a week. I feel the need building though. Alone in an alien world with no family. I feel myself slipping back into it again. It's better being a "vampire" and shutting out your humanity...
Forum: Games and Things July 9th 2010, 07:50 AM
Replies: 2,100
Views: 79,087
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Dirty Little Secrets.

I might seem strong. But every day I'm falling apart. I still don't know anything. I'm still broken inside and yeah sometimes I feel like a piece of shit the world forgot. Guess what, that's what I...
Forum: Games and Things July 9th 2010, 07:48 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I was wrong. I NEED you Dad. why'd you leave?
Forum: Games and Things July 8th 2010, 05:01 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm winning Dad, I'm at the top of my game. I've broken free from having to drink. I've broken free from feeling fucking cursed. I fucking broke free from you, so rot in hell Dad thanks for being a...
Forum: Games and Things March 4th 2010, 01:45 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Where are you Dad? I don't think I win this alone. I need your help, but like always you're never around. Is that voice inside my head you? Are those the instincts you've given me, if I follow that...
Forum: Games and Things February 15th 2010, 06:01 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Dude, when I pointed out the "I am gay" poster at the subway - I was watching for your reaction. When you said it makes you somewhat uncomfortable, said nothing in reply. But, dude, what I want you...
Forum: Education and Careers February 10th 2010, 11:34 PM
Replies: 362
Views: 33,154
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: What did you want to be/do when you grew up?

I am probably going to get laughed at - but, fuck it - Taxi Driver... yeah, have no fucking idea why I chose that on "what do you want to be?" day in kindergarden. Luckily, I'm a screenwriter/song...
Forum: Games and Things February 10th 2010, 04:55 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm sorry that I can't ask you about your family, I'm afraid that you'll ask about mine and discover the truth of who I really am and leave me. How can I tell you I'm an orphan basically without you...
Forum: Games and Things February 9th 2010, 02:21 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Please Dad, just help me to forget you. If you ever cared - ever - you'll help me carry on without a sign of your presence... please...
Forum: Games and Things February 6th 2010, 05:42 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

GOD DAMN YOU DAD!!!!! WHY DID YOU HAVE TO FUCK ME UP??? WAS IT ALL WORTH IT? DID YOU FUCKING GET ANYTHING OUT OF LEAVING US BEHIND? THROWING ME IN THE TRASH? DID YOU?! I'M SO FUCKING PARANOID AND...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction February 6th 2010, 02:59 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,957
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Arrow Why'd you turn to drugs/alcohol?

I was just wondering why other posters may have used drugs or alcohol at some point or another. I was addicted for a while to alcohol and dxm a couple of months ago, but it was definitely one gateway...
Forum: Games and Things February 5th 2010, 03:54 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

What did I ever do to deserve you? What do you see in me? Thank you for helping to save me and building my self-confidence. You might not know how much it means to me to have met you. But, you're...
Forum: Games and Things February 3rd 2010, 11:38 PM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm a little messed up. I have no idea what you see in me. You act like you like me, don't know if dating or friends. You're throwing me - or seemingly throwing me - signals. Or are you just being...
Forum: Games and Things February 2nd 2010, 11:39 PM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Dad, I'm slowly - yet surely - beating this fucking curse you handed down to me.... FUCK YOU!!!
Forum: Games and Things February 2nd 2010, 01:49 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

A fucking economy. Fucking deserted by a bastard father and falling apart mother. A world falling apart. A fucking anxiety disorder that is usually genetic, a lasting gift you fucking gave me! Tell...
Forum: Games and Things January 24th 2010, 04:36 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say... Volume 2!

Mom, Dad, what the fuck did you generation do to us? In three months, I'm going to be on my own... trying to survive.... how is that fucking possible? FUCK YOU!!!!
Forum: Games and Things January 18th 2010, 03:03 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say... Volume 2!

AHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!

Three months then I'm going to move out on my own? In this world? WTF? AHHH!!! SHIT!!!!! Mom, Dad, I act like I have it all in control right now - but, I am fucking terrified...
Forum: Games and Things January 3rd 2010, 04:36 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say... Volume 2!

Where are you Dad? I don't know if I can take this last step alone. I need you...
Forum: Games and Things December 24th 2009, 05:12 PM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say... Volume 2!

Merry Christmas Mom, I know I hate Dad - but, I still want us all to be together for at least once in my life.
Forum: Games and Things December 12th 2009, 07:44 PM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say... Volume 2!

I fucking hate you Mom!!!! I know my real Mom would help me, why I can't I live with her instead of you?!!!!!
Forum: Games and Things November 30th 2009, 01:28 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say... Volume 2!

Hey Mom, hey Dad, I'm your son.

(I'm an orphan)
Forum: Music November 8th 2009, 01:58 AM
Replies: 11,980
Views: 477,923
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

Best song about hitting rock bottom and pulling yourself back up. God knows the last couple of months I've been beyond lost. Experimenting with drugs. Getting beyond trashed and wasted. A suicidal...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction October 20th 2009, 01:08 AM
Replies: 7
Triggering: my Alcohol problem
Views: 2,469
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: my Alcohol problem

I know the pull it has, I never knew my father but I know he's an alcoholic and I inherited that from him. I have a drink once and I keep having the urge for just one more, just one more - than one...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction October 12th 2009, 02:01 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 1,851
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Alcohol reverts me back to my birth right

I don't think I'm addicted to the substance itself, rather it helps me revert back to my birth right. I was adopted, thus I have two lives and two sets of parents. I also have two names. Whenever I...
Forum: Music September 11th 2009, 02:35 AM
Replies: 11,980
Views: 477,923
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

"I couldn't have been more wrong, I thought that I could smile and just nod my way through it. Pretend like it was going to be okay. I had a plan, I wanted to change who I was, create a life as...
Forum: Disabilities August 23rd 2009, 09:31 PM
Replies: 66
Views: 9,195
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: What is your disability?

Although controversial, I have ACS (Adopted Child Syndrome):

http://www.adoptionunchartedwaters.com/images/table1.gif
Forum: Music August 22nd 2009, 05:56 PM
Replies: 11,980
Views: 477,923
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

SLIPPING AWAY: DOPE

I'm trying hard to understand
I'm trying hard to do the things it takes to be a man

Life's slipping away from me
It's not the way I thought it'd be

I'm trying hard to...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction August 9th 2009, 05:09 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,345
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Numb addiction.

Well not so much as numb as it just makes everything go away - figured out the best remedy is taking a huge gulp of what people usually take gulps of. Don't know about numb though, I just explode...
Forum: Music August 6th 2009, 05:03 AM
Replies: 11,980
Views: 477,923
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

I'm here again
A thousand miles away from you
A broken mess, just scattered pieces of who I am
I tried so hard
Thought I could do this on my own
I've lost so much along the way

Then I'll...
Forum: Music August 5th 2009, 06:54 AM
Replies: 11,980
Views: 477,923
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

I'm not made of steel, I'm flesh and bones
But I hear that steel is cold and hard, uncomfortable
I am warm, and you are soft
And together we'll be safe
And I'll protect you, whenever times are...
Forum: Drugs, Alcohol and Addiction August 2nd 2009, 07:54 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,345
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Numb addiction.

I'm sorry that I don't know what would help, cause I'm kinda going down the same road. Don't have easy access to alcohol at the moment, but when I do - just want to keep on drinking, wake up and take...
Forum: Music August 2nd 2009, 10:10 AM
Replies: 11,980
Views: 477,923
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

Basically going into exile in NYC, becoming cold, starting to become addicted to alcohol, and losing sight of my family along the way.

Crowded streets are cleared away
One by one
Hollow heroes...
Forum: Games and Things July 25th 2009, 01:54 AM
Replies: 224
Views: 9,906
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Arrow Questions you HATE people asking you...

Basically what questions have people asked you that are really nerve wracking?
Forum: Music July 19th 2009, 06:47 AM
Replies: 11,980
Views: 477,923
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

"You're tearing me apart!"
Forum: Games and Things July 14th 2009, 05:30 AM
Replies: 10,415
Views: 399,704
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Dad, you're the reason I can never be normal. You left us to die! You gave me fear! I FUCKING HATE YOU!!!
Forum: Music June 29th 2009, 12:39 AM
Replies: 11,980
Views: 477,923
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

About my Birth Parents:

"I'm Still Here" Johnny Rzeznik

I am a question to the world,
Not an answer to be heard.
All a moment that's held in your arms.
And what do you think you'd ever say?...
Forum: Music June 17th 2009, 02:58 AM
Replies: 11,980
Views: 477,923
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

This used to be our secret
Now I'm hiding here alone
Can't help but read our names on the wall
And wash them off the stone

I trusted you in every way
But not enough to make you stay ...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 8th 2009, 09:34 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

I have never stated to the contrary. I have always stated that there ups and downs and went into detail on both. However, as I'm sure you can account for there are other problems that nonadoptees...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 8th 2009, 07:25 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

1. Are we talking Mary Magdalene here? :p

2. I'd say these diseases would really depend on if the mother's able to take care of it. As said, anything that could potentially endanger one's life....
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 8th 2009, 07:12 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

While I'm against abortion, I do believe there are a couple of scenarios where it would be understandable. In some cases a woman can die from giving birth, scary thought - but it does happen; in this...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 8th 2009, 06:52 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

JW, who said anything about legal or illegal? Or letting the government have a say? So far nothing's been said, from what I can see in terms of legal/illegal - only the moral implications.
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 8th 2009, 06:41 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Life for everyone is a lottery. Unless you mean the chances of getting adopted, then there's more a chance involved. Otherwise it's the same EXACT lottery every nonadoptee plays. Those stats are the...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 7th 2009, 10:06 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

1. I asked what because your comment read more like it came from a Dr. Seuss book, I couldn't read it.

2. Others have brought up or illustrated that they have thought abortion to be better than...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 7th 2009, 09:52 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Kinda extremely confused... what? o.O
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 7th 2009, 08:30 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Others have been bringing the CHILD - not the mother - into their arguments, with such words as "kinder for the child" - like, you, for example who have stated it and I can bring back old posts if...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 7th 2009, 06:45 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

If that's the case, why wouldn't the mother put the child up for adoption? Everyone can choose, but why choose abortion rather than adoption? That I'll never understand.

Here's the other thing I...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 6th 2009, 09:11 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

If some form of "survival" is measured in. People eat to survive, if we don't eat - we don't survive. Unless you're talking plainly about "comfort eaters" who eat just for the hell of it - that's not...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 6th 2009, 08:59 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Killing can't be justified, but that's why we're animals unfortunately - it's in our nature.



No, that's not human and it's from an animal rescue site.
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 6th 2009, 08:49 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but are you commenting on Bigmole's and my post where animals are mentioned? If so, read it again...



Actually YOU were the first to have stated that, or I may have...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 6th 2009, 08:26 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Are you saying animals don't eat people? I can produce pictures (you can find - anything - on the net these days) of animals chowing down on some fresh human meat if you'd like...

Eating is a...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 6th 2009, 07:54 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Let me come back to you with these questions, how many animals in the animal kingdom are vegetarians? How many animals kill their young prior to birth?
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 6th 2009, 04:00 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

You can believe what you want to believe, but I kinda have to point out that the logic of the line above is ultimately flawed. It should be more "would you really sacrifice nine months of 'pain' for...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 6th 2009, 07:20 AM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

However, you may be able to educate some people and sway them into considering it and some may even do it. Maybe not everyone, but swaying a few? I'd say that'd be worth it. Btw, as an adoptee and as...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 6th 2009, 05:45 AM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

1. I have lost seeing usernames on here through the number of replies I have made, looking back your posts seem to go in and out of my replies to others who HAVE done this and thus naturally I may...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 6th 2009, 04:23 AM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

The one thing you're choosing to ignore is that in your and other comments - you have stated what you believe to be experiences an adoptee has as reasoning. That's not reasoning a nonadoptee can use....
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 07:36 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

You also have to understand, such comments (directed in general)

> Abortion is kinder on children than adoption
> Adoption would cause too much trauma for the child, it's better to abort...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 06:25 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Likewise, father's shouldn't be seen as Vulcans - which as a guy is really disturbing.

Elle, I can reply to whatever I want to reply to. If a nonadoptee tries to state they know perfectly well how...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 06:17 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

As an adoptee, no it's not that much of a strain - not in the least - and I'm sure other adoptees can account for this as well. This is the problem of interaction between nonadoptees and adoptees -...
Forum: Music June 5th 2009, 04:40 PM
Replies: 11,980
Views: 477,923
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

The best song to describe going through a breakdown when everything should be beyond perfect in your life and everything's going your way...

"BREAKDOWN" TANTRIC

In your life you seem to have it...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 04:30 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

We already talked about rape yesterday, and it was already said that extreme cases were beyond understandable. So, it's kinda mute point by now...

Even though I'm still wondering if for some women...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 04:25 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

I don't think anyone can blame you for what happened. Actually I'm really sympathetic towards you because your boyfriend sounds like the exact kind of jerk that I don't want to be anything like. You...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 05:21 AM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

I've never used the book as an argument against abortion really, just to show that there's life that occurs. But, as you stated it's mostly in the fetus stage - which is illegal now - which makes...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 05:15 AM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

That's actually part of the book and a term stated by an adoptee psychologist. I looked on google and it's not there - just, it makes inherent sense. These books only focus on one side, the...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 05:02 AM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Due to this alone, I'm sorry but I just can't take anything you say seriously now. A man with both arms can truly in all being understand the one armed man and what it feels like to only have one...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 04:45 AM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Sounds like a person who hasn't read the thread actually. I don't feel like repeating myself, so do your homework and read through these pages in which those points have already been adressed and I...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 04:30 AM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Re: Abortion is wrong.

LINK
JOURNEY OF THE ADOPTED SELF (http://books.google.com/books?id=eCmTsh8erfEC&dq=journey+of+the+adopted+self)

Go to page thirty. Hopefully that works. That's one of the books, but I found it to...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 03:51 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

You took what was stated out of context, but in case you did read everything correctly... Go ahead, do a study asking whether any adoptee or orphan would agree with the quote: "it would be kinder in...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 03:45 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Kinda did and didn't actually, but guessing we both took it out of context when you stated this...



It was back when I first asked you to clarify what you meant by your "kinder" post... thus, I...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 03:35 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

I don't believe so, but there's been so many people that I've been responding to that they're all kinda mixed into one person...

Did Elle ask or not ask how I could have a stronger connection to...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 03:33 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

I DO know more about your claim that it would be "kinder to abort the child than to put it up for adoption" when the child isn't wanted for whatever reason. Because that's my life you're talking...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 03:15 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Having not known a person in this situation, I cannot say for sure, but I do wonder whether or not some women may regret it later on in their life and wish that they would have held in there and...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 02:59 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Here's the thing that nonadoptees don't understand, yes there are these feelings - yes it can be rough - I am actually a testament to that if you read through my other threads. All concerning an...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 02:39 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Elle, just explain what you mean without bringing the girl into it by your comments that it would be:

> Kinder for the child to be aborted in some situations
> How trauma for the child from...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 02:36 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Dude, it wasn't a study concerning how adoptees feel towards their birth parents. They were studies of how the unborn self responds to the mother's voice, bounces around to music, and all types of...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 02:28 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

1. No, I'm not ignoring them. What I'm saying is there are other studies as well that run contrary to that. Based on what I feel in my heart, by how far I've regressed at certain moments I hold the...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 02:20 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

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Explain what you mean by this - YOU brought the child fully into it. In that statement, yes being an adoptee does have a huge connection to me and it's more personally tied to me and other...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 02:07 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Jack, there are a lot more feelings and actions than pain. So, I still don't see anything other than one emotion - feeling pain. So, using that as an excuse, would you kill a man that's numb to all...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 02:01 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

1. Because it's your username, didn't check for name area.
2. I have no idea man, I keep saying there's no need to make it illegal and you keep saying I do. It's a gray area, not black and white -...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 01:57 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Does, thanks for the comic relief - no one's saying make it illegal. :cool:



Correct me if I'm wrong about what you stated - being aborted is better than being adopted because of the trauma it...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 01:52 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

As someone who is by and far more connected to this than you are. I can tell you that abortion is not the better alternative. I'd much rather be alive than dead. Keep in mind that you just brought...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 01:29 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Jack, dude, you don't have facts. You have an opinion that is just as valid as everyone else - remember that. In my mind is the phrase I used because people are starting to claim I'm trying to force...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 01:23 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Who am I to say? Well, if already you have the viewpoint of not wanting to give birth and choose to abort because you'd rather follow your own future and life, that's a sign of self-serving rather...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 01:16 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Exactly, I wouldn't force her to go through with the pregnancy. I'd find out beforehand her opinions on it, because it would wreck my life if I got a girl pregnant and she aborted it. But, I'd say if...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 01:03 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Do all guys? No, but I'd say the guys who's origins are exclusively tied into the adoption/abortion definitely have a stronger connection to it than girls who have never been pregnant and girls who...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 12:50 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

All I'm saying is from what I see, some men can obviously make better fathers than some women can make mothers. That's actually a fact in my mind now. Some people are cut out for parenthood, others...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 5th 2009, 12:37 AM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Check this out to find how real the "unborn baby" actually is.

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If anything, I've found out from replies how important it is asking a girl what she thinks about abortion...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 11:40 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

The whole "career" excuse bothers me alot and actually shows me men can be a lot better fathers than women can be mothers....

I mean, if I ever got a girl pregnant - I'd throw my life away in an...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 11:34 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

That's why I intend to ask any girl I may have sex with what her opinion is on abortion. It may be pleasurable, but I'd never do it if she believes in it unless there's a chance of fatality or if my...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 11:23 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

What I'm saying is that abortion should be looked at as a last resort. If it's needed, then do it. If it has potential of harming you, by all means. But, first consider all options and don't let the...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 11:09 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

As for "home life" - there's the same lottery I'd say everyone else plays. Would a child from an abusive home really want to die? Or would they want to move on with their life - same with those...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 11:00 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

I'm sorry but I simply don't see how this can be so. How can it be best for the baby to die than be placed for adoption where they have the opportunity of a better life with a family? That said, I'm...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 09:53 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Arbiter, you're also speaking in the "extreme situations," which I've seen that I and others agree and align with and actually stress.

It's the fears of disapproval, stigma, going through it...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 09:48 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Including aunts, uncles, grandparents, etc. But, as said, I'd really consider it rare that a parent would kick their own kid out of the house - even though when I was younger, especially...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 09:40 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

The funny thing is, again, this would fall into the rare. Yes, parents would be angry. What you did was irresponsible, I can't say it wasn't. But, the chances are strong that they'll only at most be...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 09:27 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

I don't understand that either... women give birth all the time, if it was that stressful I'd think all women would be in asylums after they give birth. Unless it's an extreme situation, which I've...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 09:20 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Because that's how I've heard some girls talk about it. Hell, you can even find one of those girls on this very thread who said she'd abort the baby just because she doesn't want to be a mother right...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 09:09 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Then you weren't the one who brought it up? Too many user names, all I know is people are mixing words I say. Because all of what I say keeps on being linked back to rape victims, when I just mean...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 09:02 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

FOR THE HUNDRETH TIME, I AM NOT SAYING ABORTION SHOULD BE ILLEGAL. ONLY HELD AS THE LAST POSSIBLE RESORT.

What's so hard to understand about this? In some cases, it's needed to make sure that the...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 08:58 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Yeah, that's part of what I mean. I have many different alternate realities which are felt, that books also speak of, one of those is what if my mother had aborted me - which she could have easily...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 08:56 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Comically I find you always go back to this rape thing while ignoring the women who get an abortion that HAVEN'T been raped. What's this pre-occupation with rape for you?
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 08:52 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

YOURNIGHTMARE:

You're asking me to make sense of something that shouldn't make sense. Read any adoption books... go to page thirty in the following link. Educate yourself before you post, same...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 08:35 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Your comment, "but I will always win because abortion will never be illegal again," is hilarious. Because I have never, not once stated to make it illegal. I have never even proposed that. All I have...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 08:21 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

If a woman gets an abortion out of fear of someone finding out she got pregnant, or she doesn't feel like spending the money but may be able to attain it through support, or plain out like the...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 08:05 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

When you don't have the ability to take care of a child, the woman has two choices she can be weak by aborting or strong by putting the child up for adoption. My Mom was strong, she went with...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 07:48 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Just the 'reverse sexism' is annoying. Many are forgetting there's two people in regards to this whole event - three if you count the father - the unexpected embryo and the girl who didn't expect to...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 07:39 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

That's why I used PARENTAL FIGURE rather than PARENT. Parental figure can range anywhere between a trusted teacher, a guidance councilor, a neighbor, etc. This is more to ensure that the girl doesn't...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 07:25 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

As for me being a guy, we get labeled a lot as only having sex on our mind. I'd say that goes for both guys and girls. But, some people have a different origin that not a lot share - such as being...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 07:16 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

This is why in an earlier post I stated one possibility to ease situations is that parental consult for those under a certain age is needed and required. Kind of like anything else - driving,...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 06:45 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

More trying to 'educate' than tell, because most don't - from what I can see - even take a moment to think about it. I naturally come off strong. I don't intend to force people what to do, I'm not a...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 06:38 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Role-reversal, I'd go through with it. Obviously.

If I ever become a father in an event like this or any - I'm willing to throw everything away for my child. What everything constitutes is my...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 05:55 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

I see it as the responsible person has a series of choices to make.

1. If they're not financially, emotionally, etc. able to care for a child yet, put that child up for adoption. Do what's best...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 05:32 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Actually, I never made a choice. But, still as said before as long as the reasons aren't purely "self-serving," I'm fine with it. But, then - when I see the beyond selfish reasons... it does disturb...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 05:19 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

The thing is, I'm not 100% pro-life and keep stating that over and over again. If there is possibility of irreperable harm to the baby or mother, alright it's fine. But these self-serving, selfish...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 05:09 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

See, these are the kinds of reasons I'm talking about and the kind of thinking I'm talking about. So because you want to have a baby later, stable career and be married you'd get an abortion rather...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 05:00 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

1. My father didn't stick around, every day I'm reminded in my mind of how weak he was. It is my duty in life to be NOTHING like my father. Still, I can't understand the whole parental shame thing......
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 04:27 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

Still another side of the coin, would you eliminate a life growing inside you just because it was a painful experience of what happened to you? Believe me, that I can sympathsize with - but, again,...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 04:20 PM
Replies: 336
Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
Views: 12,513
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Abortion is wrong.

I never had sex. I'm responsible. I choose this because I know that it is a responsibility. Hearing about one night stands sickens me. I was born from a mistake, but rather than my Mom being selfish...
Forum: Current Events and Debates June 4th 2009, 03:59 PM
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Triggering: Abortion is wrong.
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Post Abortion is wrong.

Abortion's wrong. Clear and simple. Yesterday I spotted a thread at the pregnancy forum that really disturbed me - about someone getting or considering getting an abortion.

You chose to have sex....
Forum: Music April 27th 2009, 12:47 AM
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Favorite band/singer/song thread!

Favorite angst band would be STAIND by and far. Favorite 'light hearted' banded would be GOO GOO DOLLS. Yep, I'm a product of the nineties.
Forum: Music April 27th 2009, 12:44 AM
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Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

"CHANGING OF THE SEASONS" VEER UNION

back and forth you wonder
through your mind
winters passing over
but it wont find you

take what you can
change the seasons
Forum: Music April 2nd 2009, 02:53 AM
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Views: 477,923
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Song/Quote of the day!

I'm starting to finally dig into my adoption and may meet my parents. I'm scared and excited. Scared because part of me feels like a mistake, but that fear will hopefully be relieved. My parents are...
Forum: Music March 7th 2009, 07:53 AM
Replies: 420
Views: 32,422
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Favorite band/singer/song thread!

Favorite songs, each one really narrows down my life...

"The Reason" Hoobastank (reminds me of my cousin & made it her song, she died recently, we were the same age and facing her death made me...
Forum: Mental Health March 7th 2009, 05:39 AM
Replies: 372
Views: 32,145
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Do you have a mental illness?

Also one thing I forgot to add. I don't think it's a mental illness, but it's kinda like it. I'm a serious hot head. I get REALLY angry at times to threateningly scary levels.

I'm that silent...
Forum: Mental Health February 22nd 2009, 11:55 PM
Replies: 372
Views: 32,145
Posted By ThePunkAlien
Re: Do you have a mental illness?

I'm a Schizo... cool huh? Yep, that's how great my life is. :thumbsup:

Any time something gets too good to be true, I turn and run the other way back to the shit. :haha:

Although I'd like to...
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