So, I finally got laid last night over a year of downtime. And the entire time before hand, I had a MASSIVE hard on.

So the time finally comes... and I couldn't fucking keep it up. I'd get it in... and... my drill sergeant just would not stand at attention.

I was SO fucking embarrassed. I really don't know if it was because I was a bit nervous, or because I was up all night, or because the condom couldn't handle my full girth.

I just... god dammit.

I'm gonna try switching to Supra's, but I'm worried it's gonna happen again.

Anyone have any tips as to what the fuck I can do to not have a repeat of this?

Hey Ben,

I think perhaps it was because you were nervous. Sometimes if you havn't done it in a while you can get a bit nervous when the time comes around again - I have got nervous before after it's been a while.

The key thing is when you go into your next sexual encounter to not think about what happened last time. If your head is spinning with thoughts then you may have a problem staying hard. Keep your mind blank and focus on enjoying yourself. Don't assume it will happen again.

Also, you said you were tired which plays a big factor.

Try and remain positive. I hope all works out for you.

Hey, Ben

I would bet money that it had a lot to do with nerves, I've been there myself where nerves have screwed me over in that kind of situation. I'm sorry to hear about it but, hey, it can only go up from here right? Also, being up all night surely didnt help.

Good luck

-Dylan

Let me tell you, I doubt it was the condom. I can fit those over my head (The one with a brain in it). (Don't ask how I know) I've never come across one I can't fit. They make wonderful hats. The lubricated don't work well as hats though .. just make you need a shower.

Nerves, like others have said. Also, that can be a long time to keep an erection. It may have just been tired. Try again?

You're just out of practice. It happens. Ask her to help you with it, and it'll work. If there's love in the relationship, she'll be happy to.