.........................................i dont want to talk to them i want help

Talk to people in the Chat Room.

Just dive into the conversation, and you'll be fine. They should be welcoming.

i just want some one to talk to for abit thats all in a nice im chat to lift my spirts at least

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no one wants to help :/

who is he???

The Buddy in Chat - alternatively, get to know everyone else better and you may like them.

message who???????

I'm sorry, but it's physically impossible for me to go into it.
Try IMing Bitis - Buddies are here (amongst others) to help you feel more welcome in places like Chat.

but i feel really horrible and i dislike everyone else in the chat room