It sounds like you found yourself a real winner there, enjoy! And don't look at his phone..

thank you for the advice
i agree 100% on my insecurities i need to change ,i talked to him about it he said that i didnt have to worry because he will never date her , he wanted to be with me , he said that i shouldnt worry because he trying to be with me and no one else ,that he always tries to spend time with me whenever he can,thats hes always txting me ,trying to show me how much he cares for me , thats i should pay more attention on the effort he puts to be me than me paying atention to her txting him,that if he wanted to be with her he would have done it already