relative to this post: http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f6-se...on-abstinence/

there are a lot of non-religious reasons for abstinence including a big one health and stud's. however, there is another that is really worth considering.

i don't know your age but generally speaking know this, "do you want a guy for love? or sex?" because here is a fact of life that i hate to admit but want to share:

"Guys give LOVE to get SEX"
"Girls give SEX to get LOVE"

one is emotional the other is physical. they don't mix. most guys just want to get in a girl panties and score another piece to notch their guns with. DO YOU want to be on a score card? or do you want love. don't give a guy sex and if he hangs around, he wants YOU not a PART of you. make sense?