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December 23rd 2011, 01:19 AM
8 and a half months.  I think I'm done for life. I no longer have urges or think about it obsessively, like I did before.
How far do I have to go to make you understand? I wanna make this work so much it hurts... But I just can't keep on giving, go on living with the way things are. So I'm gonna walk away, and it's up to you to say how far...
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December 23rd 2011, 02:17 AM
1 day for cutting, 28 days for intentional shaving nicks
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
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December 23rd 2011, 03:50 AM
I haven't cut since the beginning of July. I do still have urges, and very strong ones, but as of now I haven't given in.
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December 23rd 2011, 05:32 AM
2 months and 1 week!!! 
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December 23rd 2011, 10:08 AM
Going on 5 days!
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December 23rd 2011, 07:41 PM
I have been self harm free for 1 year 7 months and 2 weeks
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December 23rd 2011, 08:38 PM
15 months
wow... never thought I had it in me to get this far.
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December 23rd 2011, 08:52 PM
Seven whole weeks.
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December 24th 2011, 12:13 AM
once again back to lil ol zero.
*shrugs* ahhhh well.
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December 24th 2011, 12:17 AM
4 days for cutting.
1 day for overdosing. <--- I'm guessing that counts as SH.
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December 24th 2011, 03:13 AM
2 days for cutting, 29 days for intentional shaving nicks
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December 24th 2011, 04:37 AM
2weeks!!!!!!!!!
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December 24th 2011, 06:42 AM
19 days now I think?
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December 24th 2011, 07:06 AM
Its been around a month. The longest I've ever gone!
And here you are living, despite it all.
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December 24th 2011, 08:04 AM
6 days
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December 24th 2011, 02:13 PM
Seven weeks, one day.
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December 24th 2011, 04:17 PM
About thirteen hours.
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December 25th 2011, 06:05 AM
A day or two, I think. I don't give a fuck anymore, to be honest. :/
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December 25th 2011, 06:20 AM
Going on three days with out cutting... Rubber bands help the urge... Atleast... 
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December 25th 2011, 06:25 AM
2 months, 1 week, and 2 days.
But, I threw out the blades I used to cut with, that were hidden around my room like, yesterday, while my cousin spent the night. I'm sooo proud of myself. I still want to do it really bad, sometimes. But, that eventually fades. I think I might be finally free of it.
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December 25th 2011, 07:34 AM
20 days. Best Christmas present I could ever give myself
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December 25th 2011, 02:49 PM
15 days!! Oh and happy holidays to all you wonderful people!! <3
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December 25th 2011, 05:26 PM
7 days!
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December 25th 2011, 05:43 PM
Yesterday made 3 days for cutting, 30 days for intentional shaving nicks.
And you know what? While I haven't made the 4 day mark for cutting, or the 31 day mark for intentional shaving nicks yet, I know I will. It's Christmas, and I'm not SHing on Christmas.
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
Like you're not really happy but you don't wanna die
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December 25th 2011, 06:40 PM
Few days :/
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December 26th 2011, 02:03 AM
2 days, which is surprising, considering how bad I've been feeling recently.
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December 26th 2011, 02:28 AM
Seven months and one week.
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December 26th 2011, 04:22 AM
46 days. Ready to give up again.  Happy holidays every one.
From day one I talked about getting out
But not forgetting about
How all my worst fears are letting out
He said, "Why put a new address on the same old loneliness?"
When breathing just passes the time
Until we all just get old and die
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December 26th 2011, 05:34 AM
Three days. I honestly don't know why I even bother with keeping track. It seems as if when I try to think of how long I've gone without I just want to do it more. It just doesn't even matter for me. I can't stop. I need it. I fucken need it.
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December 26th 2011, 06:29 PM
16 days free of cutting!!! Longest I've gone since alli died!
Allianna Faith 3/10/11-9/18/11 </3 You never know what you've got till it's gone..
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December 26th 2011, 07:59 PM
8 days
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December 26th 2011, 11:01 PM
Three weeks
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December 26th 2011, 11:19 PM
about 18 hours maybe.
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December 27th 2011, 04:05 AM
four days. maybe five?
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December 27th 2011, 07:59 AM
9 days
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December 27th 2011, 09:27 AM
25 mins...didn't even make it to 2 years...blah..feel like such a let down...oh well hopefully i can do better now..
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December 27th 2011, 08:36 PM
Sixteen weeks.
Note to others, to keep you going - most of my cuts were healed over by the time I got to 1 month, now I just have scars. Some of them are fading already. They aren't pretty, but compared to how it was - it's a massive reminder of how far I've come. So when you feel like slipping up, think to yourself "If I can make one more day, another cut might've healed"
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December 27th 2011, 08:42 PM
Seven weeks and four days.
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December 27th 2011, 11:00 PM
17 days!!!
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December 28th 2011, 02:43 AM
6 days for cutting, or the 33 days for intentional shaving nicks
Do you ever get a little bit tired of life
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