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losing my marbles - August 6th 2021, 12:54 AM

[FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""]thers this guy thats rlly pissing me off and im rlly tempted to just lose my marbles
what do i do he is just ignoring all my points and then writing responses as if he has totally ignored them
honestly i feel like screaming but its 2am
i want to scream and kick
literally
he abused me and is refusing to admit that it was abuse
i feel like crying help me
honestly im done trying to explain anything to him anymor
what now?
its so infuriating and frustrating. i would never take out my feelings on him and id just cry silently and not tell him how i felt but he would take them out on me. when i finally take them out on him he unfriends me and now we talk through edited messages. its ridiciulous.[/size][/color][/font]
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Re: losing my marbles - August 6th 2021, 01:02 AM


I'd say there are two options here.

You said there is abuse going on. If you feel comfortable with it, one option you have is to just leave. Honestly, you don't owe him an explanation of why you're leaving if he is abusing you. You just deserve to be safe and he has no right to be abusing you in any way, shape, or form. Block him on social media and do not contact.

If you do want to talk to him though, that's still an option of course. Since you're at a point where you are feeling like screaming, I'd take a step back at least for tonight. There's no use trying to get through to him when you're angry yourself and clearly he's not in the mood to talk right now. why get worked up over a guy who isn't even giving you the time of day right now? Instead, come back and talk when both of you have gotten some sleep and may be in a better mood.

If you do talk to him after getting some rest, maybe start out by saying that you really feel the need to talk to him about something that has been going on lately. Make sure to use I statements instead of telling him that he's done something directly. For example, you can say "I feel like I am not being heard," instead of telling him "you never listen to me." This tends to make people a little less defensive.

If he continues to ignore you and doesn't change, I'd leave him. You mentioned that there was abuse, and you don't deserve to be in a situation where someone treats you like that. There are definitely a ton of better guys out there.


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