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First post on here! I'm a but worried, my boyfriend fingered me yesterday and I'm worried I could be pregnant. After he came, he washed his hands roughly with water, after about 5 minutes he fingered me. It only dawned on me! Am I over reacting, seen as teen pregnancy is a HUGE fear of mine!
Relax, there's almost a zero chance that you could get pregnant this way. Sperm dies almost immediately after it hits the air, and since he washed his hands, that would have washed the sperm away. I doubt you are pregnant.
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The chances of you being pregnant are astronomical if not impossible. As the above user said, sperm dies within minutes if not seconds, plus he washed his hands. I wouldn't stress over it, but if it'll put your mind at ease, you can take a pregnancy test 14 days after the incident with the first urine of the morning. However, I wouldn't waste your money on a test in this situation.
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I would suggest getting a little more educated about sex and pregnancy risks so you don't have more situations that will make you worried without necessity.
I agree with everyone else. There is no way in hell that you are pregnant, he washed any semen off AND waited, so the semen would have been dead whether or not he washed it off.
I also agree with Maloo, you should probably educate your self on matters around sex and pregnancy. This way you will be able to avoid any unnecessary freak outs in the future. One good reference I always like is Laci Green ( http://www.youtube.com/user/lacigreen ). Other than her, just google stuff, and become educated. It will make things SO MUCH easier
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