Triggering (Abuse): Is my girlfriend pregnant?

[TH Anonymous]

[SIZE="a"]Note: this is a throwaway account
Here all the bullet points I’m gonna list
1.) we do sexual interactions a lot (she jerks me off, I touch her) but it
Never really gets past that.
2.) anytime I’ve been inside her fully I’ve had a condom on except for once in which I was inside for less than
5 seconds and I even wiped my dick off beforehand
3.) she’s grounded on me while she’s had nothing on and I’ve only had underwear. I have cum but she’s always got off me beforehand

She’s been having a lot of stress in her life too
(3 year relationship over a couple months ago, mom being controlling)
Her mom only recently started trying to control her
But her period is almost 12 days late and we did 2 tests, one at 8 days and 10 days. Both were negative
I’m thinking it could be a lot of stress. Is there any way she could be pregnant? I’ve been worried mostly because I suffer from ptsd and anxiety from the military. I’m asking on here cause my family is all POS. So either dm me or whatever works. Thanks.[/size]

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It doesn't sound super likely that she is pregnant if most of the time you don't penetrate and when you do, you use a condom. I wouldn't necessarily trust wiping off your penis in place of a condom, but if that's the only time it's happened it's not very likely, especially if you weren't penetrating for that long. Do you mean you tested 8 and 10 days after sex, or after her missed period? If it was before her missed period it's okay to maybe test one more time, but it doesn't sound very likely. Stress can do a number on someone's periods including being late or missing them entirely. Other factors can be a change in weight/diet/exercise routines or if she has been sick recently. If her period doesn't end up coming at all or this becomes a recurring issue it may be a good idea to see a doctor to make sure there isn't any sort of medical reason why she misses periods. I'd also consider birth control if at all possible so there's even less of a chance.

[Mindfulness.]

Hi there,

When you have had sexual intercourse, you have had protection on so it does seem like it isn't possible that she is pregnant. There can be many factors as to why her period is late such as stress and other reasons. However, if you both are concerned, please see your doctor as they will help try to get to the reason as to why her period is late.

[Arabesque- golfing girl.]

Hi, I'm sorry about what you are going through and I hope that you will be okay soon. I agree with the others, see a doctor and they can help. Hope you both will be okay soon.