I actually might be pregnant :(?:)

[Mrs.Cox10]

Im sooooo confused right now.
I wanted to become pregnant so bad.
I went to the ER about a week ago because of some pain.
Well they checked my blood, etc.
Test came back ok, HE SAID
Well i dont know what to think
Im cramping REALLY bad and i havent started.
When i went to the ER i was already supposed to have started.
Well im about a 1 or more late and the cramping gets worse.
I read online that when you are cramping its either for your period starting or ending and if your becomeing pregnant where you are cramping is where it is strecthing for the baby to grow. Its really hard to explain.
Its scary though.
I need links to all kinds of site about pregnancy, health problems etc. I have looked but nothing and im scared. My Dr wont take me until the end of this month and i just came from the hospital. AHHHHH i scared HELP.

[LucyLouWho]

There are no websites that are going to be able to convince you whether you're pregnant or not. You will have to take a pregnancy test and see your doctor.

In the meantime, just in case, try to be healthy and live as if you were pregnant. No drinking, drugs, rough activities, etc. Take care of yourself and try to relax.

Hey there,

I don't think there are going to be any websites that can help you with this situation. I think the best thing for you to do would be to take a pregnancy test and go from there. I know you are scared but try not to stress to much. Take it easy, okay? If you need anything feel free to pm me.

Jenna

[Mrs.Cox10]

I went to the hospital a week ago. They didnt say if i was or not but before he ran the test he was conerned i might be. All he said was all my tests was good and stuff. And my Dr cant get me in until way later. its hard to deal with this when i am cramping so bad. if i am pregnant then why so much pain. i never heard of that before.

[MadPoet]

How are websites going to find out if you're pregnant? I'd just wait until your doctors appt. And if you're belly starts growing then chances are you're pregnant. Also, none of this would have happened if you'd used contraception.

[Dana]

When he said your tests came back "okay", he probably meant you were not pregnant. He would have told you if you were. Unfortunately, this means that something else is going on with your body and they don't know what it is.

If it will give you peace of mind, take a pregnancy test. However, if the doctor took blood for the pregnancy test (which it sounds like he did), then you are definitely not pregnant. Good luck, just remember that if it gets too bad, go to the emergency room! Better safe than sorry.

[Nope]

Originally Posted by MondayComesAround

Also, none of this would have happened if you'd used contraception.

The OP wants to get pregnant, she said on her first post. She's married, so I think they were trying to get pregnant. No offense, but I don't think she needs a lesson on birth control lol.

I would think they'd tell you if you were pregnant, but who knows? I'd say take a test, or wait a little bit and see what happens. If your belly starts to grow, or you get any other symptoms, call the doctor or take a test immediately. And like Chelsey said, don't smoke, drink, or do anything that could harm the baby if you ARE pregnant. Good luck!!

[Maloo]

Why did you want to become pregnant at 18? :/

[losing touch.]

by ok, i'm assuming he meant you're not pregnant. they would have told you if you were, i'm sure.
wait for your period and if it doesn't come go and see your doctor again. could be another reason, not pregnancy.

[LucyLouWho]

So you can't take a home pregnancy test to see if you're pregnant?
If you were trying to conceive, I would assume that you would have some around the house or at least have the money to buy some.

Your doctor would have told you if the pregnancy test came out positive. They would have to inform you of something like that.

[Nicolette]

I'm pretty sure the doctor would have confirmed if you were actually pregnant. If you're still thinking you might be then take a test and go from there.

[Mrs.Cox10]

ok so yeah im not pregnant. I will be posting a new thread about the hospital trip from last night. This is makes the last one look like nothing. but still it gave me peace of mind. If any of you are concered you dont have to be. In the end we found out something that might be causeing this. Which would also be all the signs to being pregnant he said. but again im not.

but my thread will be out soon. So take your time if you read. im a very hard person to understand at times.

[Mrs.Cox10]

Originally Posted by MondayComesAround

How are websites going to find out if you're pregnant? I'd just wait until your doctors appt. And if you're belly starts growing then chances are you're pregnant. Also, none of this would have happened if you'd used contraception.

haha yeah like the one below said, im married. i may be 18 but trust me, i know i could be a GREAT parent. I mean i have nothing stopping me from giving it everything i can. No school, No parties, Its my life and i would love to share it. Yes im young and yes you may be concerned about this. Considering all the things that could go wrong. But naturally i would let me worry about wanting to concieve or not. If you dont mind i would rather you be supporting me if i where or not.

I dont mean to make this sound like im attacking you or anything. I just want you to know i dont mind your conerns because i asked for them. Just dont tell me what i did wrong when im the one older, and married. I would rather us be friends then nothing at all.

[MisplacedDreamer]

Was it an ovarian cyst or pseudo-pregnancy? (I forgot what those are called)

[smallbrat]

Take action. have a pregnancy test.

[Maloo]

Originally Posted by smallbrat

Take action. have a pregnancy test.

She's already said that she's not pregnant...

[iHEAVENn]

Cysts could be causing the pain, especially if one bursts. I had one burst in April last year and it felt like I was dying :|

[Mrs.Cox10]

i didnt think about cysts. that might be it. i have to make an app. for a dr to check my stomach. i will make one for that too.

[Solivagant]

Wishing you a very happy married life and lots of lovely kids