How Do I Find a Girlfriend?

[Teddscau]

Okay, so there's a 50/50 chance that this in the LGBT section, but anyways...

So I've been reading online on how to find one. It says to join an LGBT group (almost positive there's none in my town) or go to places that I like to hang out at. I find that advice kind of silly, since what's the likelihood that the girls I'd actually be interested in are into girls? I tend to prefer the 'pretty, popular' girls, so it'd be almost impossible to know if they're bi or lesbian.

[Emmaleigh753]

hey,
i am bi, and its actually not hard to find a girl, you just have to make yourself known.(if you are comfortable) really all you need to do is well, let pople know you are bi, and just take your chances, it really helps to come out, it really helped me.
hope this helped.
for further advice email me or message me, im glad to help!
*Emma

[TheCrowing]

Do you live near a large city? If so, check out what they have there. They're sure to have youth groups.. Or if you like queer musicians, go to a show sometime.

Do you know any other queer girls in your school/area? Even if you don't like them like that, they might introduce you to their friends, and you might find someone that way.

[Teddscau]

Umm, I came out to my only accepting friend a few months ago, and I've been dropping some very obvious hints (or at least they should be obvious) that I'm bi to my homophobic (they "claim" they're not) go-to-church-every-Sunday-friends. They probably couldn't handle the truth , although most of them are fully aware that I take meds for OCD, anxiety, and ADD, so they're accepting about things I can't help, and as we all know we "choose" who we're attracted to. They also know I believe in evolution (they're not too happy about that!!) and absolutely hate going to church, hence my once a year visit to the church for Christmas. So anyways, I dropped a huge hint by telling them about a movie I watched on my iPad last night, Fingersmith. It's a really good lesbian romance set in the 1800's. You can just guess what their reactions were like. I guess I'll work harder with them and come out to them before I move forward. Or I could miraculously find a girl and introduce them to her I'm honestly getting sick of my friends. If they got a problem with me having a preference for girls, so be it.

Oops, long post. So anyways, thanks for your advices (yep, improper grammar... I think).