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Unhappy girlfriend troubles - December 3rd 2011, 10:10 AM

i really like my girlfriend, don't get me wrong, but her friends piss me off SO MUCH. We have been dating for like a month and half now, but her friends piss me off A LOT, they are such assholes sometimes, and i don't wanna tell her this but i just hate it, any advice about how to either tell her this or ignore her friends would be great


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Re: girlfriend troubles - December 3rd 2011, 04:15 PM

I wouldn't tell her that you think her friends are assholes, that would really offend her. Think about it, would you want her saying that to you about your friends?
How often do you have to hang out with them? If its often, then I'd ask her if you two could hang out one on one more often. When you are with them, just make the most of it. What makes them seem like such bad people?



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Re: girlfriend troubles - December 3rd 2011, 04:15 PM

What is it that her friends do that you don't like so much? You didn't really give specifics so I can't really figure out what to say here.

So early on in the relationship, it's probably best not to tell her that her friends suck. She may take this in the wrong way, which she would regardless of how long you've been together and it might hurt the relationship. If you don't like her friends, don't hang out with them.











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Re: girlfriend troubles - December 3rd 2011, 09:32 PM

I agree with the above posts. You have the choice to hangout with whoever you want and If you dont feel comfortable or want to hangout with her friends then dont. As melony Said, so more one on one time. Hopefully after awhile her friends will grow on you and you can accept them (it may take months, sometimes years). Until then I would try to ignore them, OR even try to understand them more.

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