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Forum: Relationships and Dating December 2nd 2011, 12:53 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,190
Posted By nicky1
Of course they are. Everything in life is a kind...

Of course they are. Everything in life is a kind of mind game and relationships are no exception. We cannot ever be someone else and change someone else, but with mind games we can at least change...
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 1st 2011, 05:28 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,190
Posted By nicky1
Re: Need an impartial opinion - Is is ok that a girlfriend in a long term relationship find other males attractive?

Well it wound not be any better for me, that's for sure, but I guess she would feel how it is like, at least. Because simply telling and explaining her does not do the trick. Never. But making her...
Forum: Relationships and Dating December 1st 2011, 02:40 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,190
Posted By nicky1
Re: Need an impartial opinion - Is is ok that a girlfriend in a long term relationship find other males attractive?

It's not insecurity. I, for example, have literally everything I want in life, and really have nothing to be insecure about.

I just think it's a plain lack of respect for me. Until I got her...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 30th 2011, 10:13 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,190
Posted By nicky1
Re: Need an impartial opinion - Is is ok that a girlfriend in a long term relationship find other males attractive?

Thank you for answering!

Of course that's exactly the only thing which is important, what you said.

I do it, she does it from time to time, I get it how it works, there's nothing we can do...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 30th 2011, 06:08 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,190
Posted By nicky1
Re: Need an impartial opinion - Is is ok that a girlfriend in a long term relationship find other males attractive?

No, really, I got over it now... until the next confession probably :)

I can't tell her, because it upsets her when I make a big deal out of it. Because honestly it's no big deal. It just makes...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 30th 2011, 05:54 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,190
Posted By nicky1
I know it's ok she finds sometimes someone...

I know it's ok she finds sometimes someone ocasionally attractive, really I'm ok with that, I know I am not the perfect best possible man that has ever been born in the world. But ocasionally, for a...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 30th 2011, 03:35 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,190
Posted By nicky1
Re: Need an impartial opinion - Is is ok that a girlfriend in a long term relationship find other males attractive?

I didn't say it's a bad thing. I said I am aware that I am controlling, that I have that trait, not that I believe it's bad and it needs to change. I honestly don't see being controlling is a bad...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 30th 2011, 09:51 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,190
Posted By nicky1
I know that's my issue :) But I can't help it,...

I know that's my issue :) But I can't help it, that's the way I am and the way I (and her as well) were brought up. It (some strange behaviour patterns like controlling and being extremely sensitive...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 30th 2011, 12:59 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,190
Posted By nicky1
I completely know and understand the feelings she...

I completely know and understand the feelings she has and probably the feelings you had at that moment. But I just can't help it, what I feel is just horrible. I try to let it go, but I can't,...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 30th 2011, 12:37 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,190
Posted By nicky1
Re: Need an impartial opinion - Is is ok that a girlfriend in a long term relationship find other males attractive?

That is exactly what I said in my post. But after that I also said that this is what my logic tells me. Still, emotions are quiet different from my logic.

Also those are not just some random...
Forum: Relationships and Dating November 30th 2011, 12:14 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,190
Posted By nicky1
Need an impartial opinion - Is is ok that a girlfriend in a long term relationship find other males attractive?

But you need to understand the whole perspective. [Edited] We are in a long term relationship (3 and a half years to be exact).

I love her more than anything in the world and I know she feels...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 19th 2011, 09:40 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 81,744
Posted By nicky1
Re: Where do young people have sex?

Nope, her mother is retired so 100% of the time she is at home, and she is not very understanding. Same with my parents (except father is not retired, but runs most of his business from home, has...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 19th 2011, 09:33 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 81,744
Posted By nicky1
Re: Where do young people have sex?

She is 19 years old.

Well, I guess that is really the only option I have which will please everyone. I will have to get a good lock :) and a good Hi-Fi :) And I will have to be very very...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 19th 2011, 09:29 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 81,744
Posted By nicky1
Re: Where do young people have sex?

Hahahahaha, I totally like your spirit! :D Well they did come in and we didn't stop once - and it was such an awkward and embarassing situation, neither of us would want it to happen again :hehe:
...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 19th 2011, 09:24 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 81,744
Posted By nicky1
Re: Where do young people have sex?

I have never known how true that was until now :( But what is worse is that we are no longer really teens, I already have an income on my own and go to college, but because of extremely poor standard...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 19th 2011, 09:18 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 81,744
Posted By nicky1
Re: Where do young people have sex?

I actually know her mother very well. And she really likes me very much. But she is even less understanding about that than my parents. At least, as far as her home is concerned, because she does...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 19th 2011, 03:00 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 81,744
Posted By nicky1
Re: Where do young people have sex?

That is something I want to hear - interesting ideas! :D

But let's see:
- Secluded place outdoors is impossible because of the climate where we live in, it is freezingly cold most of the time
-...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 19th 2011, 11:26 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 81,744
Posted By nicky1
Re: Where do young people have sex?

They are VERY non-understanding :) It is a very reasonable thing to do, what you suggest. But they behave like they were first time in love when they were 30.

I am uncomfortable about asking them...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 19th 2011, 11:15 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 81,744
Posted By nicky1
Re: Where do young people have sex?

You read my mind, that is something I think is the most possible option I have - to buy a large car like a jeep or something and find a secluded forest near the town :D
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 19th 2011, 10:29 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 81,744
Posted By nicky1
Re: Where do young people have sex?

I wish my parents had fixed working hours, like yours. But they do not :( In fact, they are really busy just a couple of hours a day.
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 19th 2011, 10:25 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 81,744
Posted By nicky1
Re: Where do young people have sex?

Really? Does that mean you live on your own already? Because if I were adult (like, have a job for example) I would most certainly not be living with my parents. But as "non-adult" I just do not have...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 19th 2011, 10:17 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 81,744
Posted By nicky1
Re: Where do young people have sex?

Lucky you, I guess in the house it would be a different story, it is more spacious. Apartments are much smaller, everyone is so close, everyone can just pop in whenever they want. We have our rooms,...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 19th 2011, 09:56 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 81,744
Posted By nicky1
Re: Where do young people have sex?

Of course, that is wise thing to do, and we never even consider having unprotected sex.. until we are married :)
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 19th 2011, 09:54 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 81,744
Posted By nicky1
Re: Where do young people have sex?

See, the problem is that we already did that (turn up the radio while everyone was near), and got caught once, so we are traumatized a bit by that. We just need some place which is unaproachable by...
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 18th 2011, 06:39 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 81,744
Posted By nicky1
Re: Where do young people have sex?

Zelophobia, what you suggested seems rather pessimistic from my point of view - in that case we would have to wait about at least 5-10 years to have completely normal relationship. Way too much....
Forum: Sex and Puberty November 18th 2011, 02:55 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 81,744
Posted By nicky1
Where do young people have sex?

I mean, where can, for example, teens living with their parents, have sex and not be disturbed?

In my whole country, apartments are so expensive that usually each family only has one if any. I...
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