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Hurdles.
Posted January 6th 2015 at 08:07 PM by Koharuchan
Updated January 6th 2015 at 11:41 PM by Koharuchan
Updated January 6th 2015 at 11:41 PM by Koharuchan
Things have got to get moving here.
I'm readjusting alright to Jon being gone again, although I do still miss him very much. However, we are WAY behind on the Wedding plans. I have to get talking to mom and dad about what Jon and I want to do for the Wedding so they can help us get the plans set up.
We already know that we want to just geek this Wedding out.
We're both as dorky as can be, so we're sticking with the nerdy theme. 
One of our biggest problems has nothing to do with the Wedding itself; we have to really get to work on the things we'll need. I specifically asked for silverware, dinnerware, and other such things for Christmas because they're things that Jon and I will need when we're married and living together. Unfortunately, my parents didn't listen. All I got on that level was one set of silverware, everything else was books, a new iPod, etc. So, I definitely need to look at some dinnerware sets and other things. Our biggest hurdle will definitely be the bed; we know we want to get a king size, because Jon is a pretty big guy (He's around 6'4 and muscular!), and I also tend to be not only a cover stealer, but a "side stealer" too. I always try to get onto his side of the bed in my sleep, so we need a big bed. He really wants to get one of the nice ones, too; like a serta or sleep-number (whatever it's called). I don't think we could afford something like that, though.
I'm going to start by at least trying to figure out our guest list; it's small, we only want close friends and family there. But we both have pretty big families, too. A lot of relatives will end up not being on the list because there are so many people, and we have to decide who to invite and who not to invite. I really wish we could set an official date, but we can't do that until later. All we really know is that it will be sometime in May, because that's when he's expected to come back home. We can't set the date until we know exactly when he'll be arriving back here.
I just can't believe all this is happening. The biggest day of my life is coming, but it feels like I'm going to be waiting forever for it to get here.
Not to mention I'm still afraid of my future in-laws, even though they love me! 
I'm readjusting alright to Jon being gone again, although I do still miss him very much. However, we are WAY behind on the Wedding plans. I have to get talking to mom and dad about what Jon and I want to do for the Wedding so they can help us get the plans set up.
We already know that we want to just geek this Wedding out.
We're both as dorky as can be, so we're sticking with the nerdy theme. One of our biggest problems has nothing to do with the Wedding itself; we have to really get to work on the things we'll need. I specifically asked for silverware, dinnerware, and other such things for Christmas because they're things that Jon and I will need when we're married and living together. Unfortunately, my parents didn't listen. All I got on that level was one set of silverware, everything else was books, a new iPod, etc. So, I definitely need to look at some dinnerware sets and other things. Our biggest hurdle will definitely be the bed; we know we want to get a king size, because Jon is a pretty big guy (He's around 6'4 and muscular!), and I also tend to be not only a cover stealer, but a "side stealer" too. I always try to get onto his side of the bed in my sleep, so we need a big bed. He really wants to get one of the nice ones, too; like a serta or sleep-number (whatever it's called). I don't think we could afford something like that, though.
I'm going to start by at least trying to figure out our guest list; it's small, we only want close friends and family there. But we both have pretty big families, too. A lot of relatives will end up not being on the list because there are so many people, and we have to decide who to invite and who not to invite. I really wish we could set an official date, but we can't do that until later. All we really know is that it will be sometime in May, because that's when he's expected to come back home. We can't set the date until we know exactly when he'll be arriving back here.
I just can't believe all this is happening. The biggest day of my life is coming, but it feels like I'm going to be waiting forever for it to get here.
Not to mention I'm still afraid of my future in-laws, even though they love me! 
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