Questions for the opposite sex

[Raining Glitter]

What's a good way to get a number?

I'm quite shy and awkward, definitely when guys flirt with me. I tend to accidentally play hard-to-get bc I just like don't saw anything/ignore because I'm too nervous on my response. So yeah, what's a good way to get a guy's number? And a good way to get a flirty guy's number? :P

[Warachia]

Is there anything wrong with being a quiet person.

[Zyzz]

@ Raining Glitter. Just ask Just like how us guys ask girls for there numbers.


@ Warachia. There is nothing wrong with being a quiet person.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by Raining Glitter

What's a good way to get a number?

I'm quite shy and awkward, definitely when guys flirt with me. I tend to accidentally play hard-to-get bc I just like don't saw anything/ignore because I'm too nervous on my response. So yeah, what's a good way to get a guy's number? And a good way to get a flirty guy's number? :P

Just ask Believe me, the guy will be impressed with your bluntness

Originally Posted by Warachia

Is there anything wrong with being a quiet person.

There is nothing wrong with being quiet.

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by Warachia

Is there anything wrong with being a quiet person.

Why would there be something wrong with that? Lots of people are quiet, there's nothing wrong with it.

[Choose]

Originally Posted by Raining Glitter

What's a good way to get a number?

I'm quite shy and awkward, definitely when guys flirt with me. I tend to accidentally play hard-to-get bc I just like don't saw anything/ignore because I'm too nervous on my response. So yeah, what's a good way to get a guy's number? And a good way to get a flirty guy's number? :P

Basically, just ask. I know what you mean though, because admittedly I can be the same way (shy/ reserved/ uncertain/ inexperienced in this venue). You may blush, or have the tempation to run away, or trip while walking up to the dude and fall flat on your face, or stutter or WHATEVER (almost all of these have happened to me ). The bottom line is that most guys will be impressed.

Originally Posted by Warachia

Is there anything wrong with being a quiet person?

I would generally say no, but there is a point where being quiet has its downsides. You could be that quiet mysterious dude that no one knows about (mystery is a good thing), or you could be the socially awkward dude that can't carry a conversation to save his life (this has been me before, but I am slowly growing out of it).

So... generally, no. Nothing wrong with being quiet.

[shortiie.so.nice]

I think that sex is not as important in a relationship but if both of the people in the relationship enjoy the sex then have protected sex.. My opinion sex doesnt define the relationship

[lanoyo]

Females: why do you like to make guys guys Chase after your love? I mean why can't it be like "I love you you love me hey let's date " instead of you like me but I like you but you don't know that so I'm gonna sit here and make you Chase after me.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by lanoyo

Females: why do you like to make guys guys Chase after your love? I mean why can't it be like "I love you you love me hey let's date " instead of you like me but I like you but you don't know that so I'm gonna sit here and make you Chase after me.

It really depends on the girl. Personally, I don't make guys do this. If I like a guy back, it's as simple as that & we figure out what we want to do. I don't make a guy chase after me if I feel the same & I definitely don't make a guy do that if I don't have the same feelings in return.

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by lanoyo

Females: why do you like to make guys guys Chase after your love? I mean why can't it be like "I love you you love me hey let's date " instead of you like me but I like you but you don't know that so I'm gonna sit here and make you Chase after me.

This isn't true for all girls. For the ones that do however, it is because they are shy or they may not be fully sure if you like them back.

[Warachia]

What's the best way to get a conversation pointed towards you?

Is it better to give short answers or long answers to a girl's question?

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by Warachia

What's the best way to get a conversation pointed towards you?

There are several ways. If you can relate the topic to yourself, you can do that. Most people don't like to center the conversation around one person for long however, so if there is something you want them to know then you can just change the topic.

Originally Posted by Warachia

Is it better to give short answers or long answers to a girl's question?

There is no set answer to this. It depends, really. You don't want to give such a short answer that the conversation falls flat, but you don't want to get into too much description and end up hogging most of the convorsatoin. Its a balance, just make sure to answer their question with as much detail needed- don't go overboard.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by Warachia

What's the best way to get a conversation pointed towards you?

Just join in & give your opinion or insight on whatever the topic is.

Originally Posted by Warachia

Is it better to give short answers or long answers to a girl's question?

Answer it whichever way is best for you. I think if you know a girl well enough, you'd know whether she likes long or short answers. It really just depends on the girl.

[Tyr.]

Originally Posted by Warachia

What's the best way to get a conversation pointed towards you?

There is no best way. Just don't do it. If you need to start a conversation about a particular topic - just go ahead and do it. Don't piss about trying to steer or manipulate conversations, especially when you are trying to get the conversation focused on yourself. Doing that is called "conversational narcissism", and it's considered to be rude. Also, it's never interesting for others involved.

Originally Posted by Warachia

Is it better to give short answers or long answers to a girl's question?

Just answer it. Getting into too much detail is boring. Too little and it's kind of like waving her off. Use your discretion and common sense.

- Yogi

[Warachia]

What do girls think of guys who air guitar?

What will happen if I remain "mysterious and silent" at college?

Do girls dislike heavy metal?

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by Warachia

What do girls think of guys who air guitar?

I prefer if they play real guitar, but air guitar can be funny.

Originally Posted by Warachia

What will happen if I remain "mysterious and silent" at college?

Only do that if its your personality. And we cannot tell you what will happen. It may be harder for you to develop friendships however.

Originally Posted by Warachia

Do girls dislike heavy metal?

Don't generalize. Lots of girl like heavy metal, I am one of them.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by Warachia

What do girls think of guys who air guitar?

Depends on the girl. Personally, I think it's funny, but if it's overdone, then it could get annoying, I guess. As Nicole said, it'd be better if they played real guitar.

Originally Posted by Warachia

What will happen if I remain "mysterious and silent" at college?

If it's your personality, then there's no problem. Just be who you are & don't try to be someone you're not. It makes things too complicated & you end up getting people liking you for the person you're pretending to be. There is nothing wrong with being "mysterious & silent" if that's who you are & you can find people who like you for that.

Originally Posted by Warachia

Do girls dislike heavy metal?

Depends on the girl's preference. Some girls like it, others don't. Personally, I like some of it.

[Warachia]

Should I refrain from talking about my novel stuff/dark poetry/dark quotations, if the girls at youth group don't like horror/scary stuff?

What if all of the girls at youth group don't like video games,anime or horror?

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by Warachia

Should I refrain from talking about my novel stuff/dark poetry/dark quotations, if the girls at youth group don't like horror/scary stuff?

It's really up to you. If you think it could bother them, maybe not. But if you think they'd be fine hearing it, go for it.

Originally Posted by Warachia

What if all of the girls at youth group don't like video games,anime or horror?

I'm sure not ALL the girls would be against all of that. Even if they are, no big. That doesn't mean that they wouldn't be open to suggestions & hearing about it.

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by Warachia

Should I refrain from talking about my novel stuff/dark poetry/dark quotations, if the girls at youth group don't like horror/scary stuff?

You could talk about it with the guys there if they like it, but if the girls aren't interested then it may not be a good idea to talk about it.

Originally Posted by Warachia

What if all of the girls at youth group don't like video games,anime or horror?

Then ask them about their interests until you find something you have in common. Then just go from there.

[chickenonsteroids]

Why must bitches be crazy?

no that's a joke

why, for the most part, are you so bloody organised? It's almost weird.

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by chickenonsteroids

Why must bitches be crazy?

no that's a joke

why, for the most part, are you so bloody organised? It's almost weird.

Not all girls are organized, but usually its because we like to be neat. At least that's the reason as to why I am. It can also be helpful.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by chickenonsteroids

Why must bitches be crazy?

no that's a joke

why, for the most part, are you so bloody organised? It's almost weird.

As most of my responses say, it depends on the girl. Some girls, such as myself, like to be organized. Other girls may be over-organized if they have OCD or such. I don't think it's a reason to think they're crazy; they may just not be the girl for you.

[goffy3]

Quote:
Edit- Woops! Forgot my question! For the guys: Describe your dream girl. From personality to beliefs to appearance.[/quote]

For me its a brunette could possibly have highlights, fairly skinny but not a stick, long hair, brown or blue eyes, nice, devoted to you, talkes to you about anything, isnt scared to tell you about anything, christian, perferably hispanic, +3 or -3 years old from me, isnt a ghetto person, not small and pretty.

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by goffy3

Quote:
Edit- Woops! Forgot my question! For the guys: Describe your dream girl. From personality to beliefs to appearance.

For me its a brunette could possibly have highlights, fairly skinny but not a stick, long hair, brown or blue eyes, nice, devoted to you, talkes to you about anything, isnt scared to tell you about anything, christian, perferably hispanic, +3 or -3 years old from me, isnt a ghetto person, not small and pretty.[/quote]
My answer to this is in your thread

[chickenonsteroids]

if you could become your boyfriend or whatever would you have sex with yourself to how good you are in bed?

[Viky]

Why do all the guys suddenly brighten their opinion of me when i tell them I'm bi and they say "thats hot?" I never understood that

[chickenonsteroids]

Originally Posted by Viky

Why do all the guys suddenly brighten their opinion of me when i tell them I'm bi and they say "thats hot?" I never understood that

usually because of porn hahahahaha

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by Viky

Why do all the guys suddenly brighten their opinion of me when i tell them I'm bi and they say "thats hot?" I never understood that

Guys tend to like girl-on-girl action. I never quite understood why though

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by Viky

Why do all the guys suddenly brighten their opinion of me when i tell them I'm bi and they say "thats hot?" I never understood that

I agree with Nicole. Guys like girl on girl action. However, it really depends on the guy. I know one guy with a bi girlfriend & loves it, but my boyfriend said he wouldn't really, because there's more competition.

[alexthekid]

What are some of your qualities that you think your partner likes about you?

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by alexthekid

What are some of your qualities that you think your partner likes about you?

My boyfriend says he loves how similar we are. We both sing and listen to the same type of music (for the most part). He says I'm really sweet and funny and can always bring a smile to his face

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by alexthekid

What are some of your qualities that you think your partner likes about you?

Well, he's said that loves how I turn red so easily from being put on the spot. He loves the facial expressions I make that are so easy to copy (which also makes me turn red). He loves that I'm loyal & trustworthy. He loves my reaction to things (like if I find a spider & flip out). He's told me numerous things, but I guess those are a few.

[chickenonsteroids]

Girls, if you had to pick the hottest woman in the world... who would it be?

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by chickenonsteroids

Girls, if you had to pick the hottest woman in the world... who would it be?

Me. Haha I really don't know. There are a lot of gorgeous women in the world.

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by chickenonsteroids

Girls, if you had to pick the hottest woman in the world... who would it be?

I think lots of women are hot. Sierra Kusterbeck, Lucy Hale, and Hayley Williams are gorgeous in my opinion

[Warachia]

How good of repellent is the "Girlfriend that doesn't exist" clause(Saying you have a girlfriend, in order to repel from asking you out)?

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by Warachia

How good of repellent is the "Girlfriend that doesn't exist" clause(Saying you have a girlfriend, in order to repel from asking you out)?

I never heard of anyone I know using this way to not get a girlfriend. Probably because it's just hurtful to any girl who could find out. If you are not interested in a girl, you should just tell her rather than lie.

[Acheron]

Originally Posted by Warachia

How good of repellent is the "Girlfriend that doesn't exist" clause(Saying you have a girlfriend, in order to repel from asking you out)?

It doesn't work even a little. In fact, girls are more interested in taken guys than they are in single ones, the treacherous little minxes. Nah, if you want an individual girl to back off, tell her that you aren't interested. And if you want to repel every girl, let it be known that you've never kissed a girl before.

[Warachia]

But, my dear friend.. you are forgetting.

I can reject their answers to ask me out.

Is it good to never answer a girl's question about you?