Whats the best way to start getting into the dating game??

[Lars]

Well Ive never been in a relationship. Ive never had a girlfriend nor have I had sex. I not awkward around women, I just have never felt it was the right time to get into things, weither it be family and stuff I have always put other things first. Whats the best way to start asking women out?? Im a college student who lives at home right now and Im unemployed at the moment as my job is seasonal. Im not a bad looking guy, I have just never found the right way to get into it? Please help !!

[Nicole!]

For now, just start off as friends and be social. Get to know some girls and then find one who you could see yourself dating. Then, ask her on a date. Its best to have some conversations so that you can get to know each other rather then just asking out a random girl. You sound confident, which is always a good thing. Just be friendly and don't stress too much about asking girls out. Dating should be fun, it shouldn't be stressful.

[Lars]

I give off to much of a friend vibe and I dont know how to get into the more than a friend mode. I dont know when to flip the switch so to speak lol

[Nicole!]

Have you tried flirting at all? That can give off hints that you are interested in being more than just friends.

[Lars]

I try but it comes off as just being friendly I guess, I havent seen any results

[Nicole!]

Maybe those girls just weren't interested in you. However, how do you know that you were stuck in the friend zone?

[Lars]

To be honest, Its the way they talk to me like hey bro! Aye dude. Like they intentionally address me with emphasis on those words. I just think I suck at flirting hahaha

[Nicole!]

Well that doesn't necessarily mean that they don't see you as boyfriend material Have you tried asking any of them to go on a date? Never know until you try

[Lars]

I asked one of em out senior year to an icecream parlor and she invited a bunch of friends without me knowing -_-

[Aletheia*]

Originally Posted by Lars

I asked one of em out senior year to an icecream parlor and she invited a bunch of friends without me knowing -_-

She probably did this because she was nervous, and in a group, things are less likely to be awkward.

As Nicole said, I would start off as being friends first, and getting to know people. Don't try to jump into the dating scene right away. I always think that friends make the best relationships (my boyfriend and I were friends for 2.5 years before we started dating, and we've been together for nearly 3 years now).

[Chair]

Talk, tease, tickle. Not necessarily in that order.