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  1. _Xander_
    July 7th 2012 10:20 PM - permalink
    yeah i understand each time i get on here i freak that someone is gonna sneek up behind me and see me talking about being FTM. i don't think my family will disown me but it will just add one more thing on there long list of things to worry about. i'm afraid that they will say that they still love me but they can't accept me as a boy. some of my fears are irrational but i don't know i'm just a worrier i guess. i'm going to come out to one of my friends on tuesday i think and if that goes well then i might come out to my parents.
  2. George^^
    July 7th 2012 06:16 PM - permalink
    I'm sorry to say this, but I have yet to come out either, I'm thinking of it but I'm nervous about it too.
  3. George^^
    July 7th 2012 08:54 AM - permalink
    Happy to hear that your going great, and I can in some ways understand the confusion, I'm pretty confused at some things myself (slowly working through everything).
  4. George^^
    July 7th 2012 03:02 AM - permalink
    Hi Switchblade, Just thought I'd welcome you to TH and tell you that I've made a comment on your blog (I don't think they give you a message that there are comments on your blog, or at least I haven't gotten one yet...) - How are you?

  5. Eternal
    July 6th 2012 10:06 PM - permalink
    Hey there, welcome to TeenHelp!

    I saw youíre new so I just wanted to stop by and offer a warm welcome.
    My name is Nicole and I'm one of many buddies here. You'll see a lot of us around here. Our job is to help out new members, so feel free to ask me or another member with a green username if you have any questions.
    My inbox is always open if you ever need a friend as well. <3

    Since you're new here, you should post in the Arrivals&Departures. That way people can get to know what an awesome person you are.

    You should also read up on How to Use the Forums and Obtaining Advice or Support. That should help to get you started!
    Come into the chat room sometime too, itís another great way to make some friends here. I'm in there pretty often, so you'll already know someone in there.

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Posted July 11th 2012 at 05:45 AM by _Xander_ Comments 1
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wow, that's all i can say. i just never thought this day would come the day in which i'm out to the world. i just can't believe it it is just so insane.
i just got a text from my dad want to hear what it said. k here i goes
i love you as my daughter, son or transgender as hetero, homo or bisexual. i only want you to become a happy, healthy, responsible and produttive adult.
as i type this i can't stop crying yes i'm a boy now but that don't mean i can't cry. it just feels...

Posted July 10th 2012 at 11:00 PM by _Xander_ Comments 0
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it's kinda as if indigo is dead as if she died and i'm standing in her place. it's kinda weird now but i like it. it's as if everyone is mourning the death of indigo even me, but at the same time it's good cuz Xander is a better person then indigo could ever be. as i was watching my hair fall of my head it felt as if i was being reborn and as if this time i was born right. each chunk of hair a peice of me i no longer felt i needed to hold on to. live was good as a girl but life as a boy is the best...

Posted July 10th 2012 at 07:35 PM by _Xander_ Comments 1
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damn... wow there are no words for how amazing i feel right now. i can't believe this! i feel wonderful and almost whole right now i have told everyone except for my dad and friends. i am just so happy i can't even dicribe how happy i am that my moms and my brother acept me my older brother is having trouble but i cna't excpect them to get this right off the bat. wow i just can't stop smiling it just feels so good to have my mom call me he. i chose my new name today it's alexander so if u want u...

Posted July 8th 2012 at 08:44 PM by _Xander_ Comments 3
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For the past couple of days each and every time someone says she, her,or girl I cringe. Forcing my voice to sound normal I answer them but what I really want to do is scream at them that I'm not a she or a her hell I'm not even a girl. I'm a boy just a normal bisexual male. I can't wait for Tuesday so I can get this feeling to stop, but at the same time I'm dreading it the anxiety is eatting away at my soul. I'm still having the dreams and each morning its harder and harder to make myself get out...

Posted July 8th 2012 at 03:16 AM by _Xander_ Comments 2
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i woke up this morning from another dream and in it i was a boy. when i had fully woken up and relized i wasn't a boy i wanted so badly to be a boy that i actully became one. JK i can only wish. but i did relize that i could become boy, but... frist i have to do the most terriefing thing in my life. come out to my friends and my family. i now know the only way to become what i am on the inside on the outside i will have to show the world who i really am. so slowly with very small babysteps i'm...
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