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July 2nd 2009, 05:45 PM
1 day ..... you guys are all doing well
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July 2nd 2009, 08:04 PM
2 days, damn me, think I might break that tonight  ...although, did 4 months before 
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July 2nd 2009, 09:57 PM
about fifteen minutes.
it's getting addictive again
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July 3rd 2009, 06:25 AM
Six weeks, two days
Drown in the music,
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July 4th 2009, 12:36 AM
5 weeks.
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July 4th 2009, 05:36 AM
5 years 3 months 2 weeks 5 days SH free
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July 4th 2009, 11:24 AM
Five months 
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July 4th 2009, 11:32 AM
1 week.....
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July 4th 2009, 01:52 PM
48 days! but omg its getting hard!
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July 4th 2009, 05:56 PM
'bout an hour and a half.
Yup, back to counting...
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July 4th 2009, 05:59 PM
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Originally Posted by dancer
'bout an hour and a half.
Yup, back to counting...
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i'm sorry ] :
you can do it this time though
i believe in youu!
superisingly 54 days...
when life is in discord; praise ye the Lord
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July 4th 2009, 07:03 PM
8 Days! I'm doing great after my relapse
Compromise is not a sign of weakness. It is the strength to withstand caving to an ultimatum.
Living with one takes great strength
Last time I cut myself
October 19th, 2012
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July 4th 2009, 07:17 PM
About half an hour.
I didn't think it would get this bad.
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July 5th 2009, 08:22 AM
1hour. I had been 2 months before Friday
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July 7th 2009, 09:02 PM
1 day! go me! lol
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July 7th 2009, 09:17 PM
About an hour.
Sometimes I feel like a hypocrite for telling people to stop because I do it too.
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July 7th 2009, 09:21 PM
10 Days........
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July 10th 2009, 05:10 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by xxJesus_Freakxx <3
i'm sorry ] :
you can do it this time though
i believe in youu!
superisingly 54 days... |
Thanks, Cassie
4 days now
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Originally Posted by Jenn x
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Good job You can do it!
Quote:
Originally Posted by braidenowns
About an hour.
Sometimes I feel like a hypocrite for telling people to stop because I do it too.
Braiden.
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Don't feel like a hypocrite. It's awesome that you tell others to stop.
Hang in there
Drown in the music,
dance in the rain,
block out the thunder,
and let the scars fade.
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July 10th 2009, 11:38 AM
27 days and keep going
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July 10th 2009, 06:00 PM
Awesome job everyone, 3 months for me
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July 10th 2009, 06:02 PM
A month or so...scared I might lose it tonight.
You were the angel of my life, taught me to be free Now I'm a stranger in your eyes.
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July 10th 2009, 06:03 PM
Well done everyone. 
1 year 1 month and 10 days for me.
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July 10th 2009, 06:08 PM
Ok...8 days
PM me/ VM me
She wont turn around, the shadows are long, she fears, if she cries, that first tear, the tears will not stop raining down.
I'm here. I'll always be here. Last cut: 2nd July '09
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July 11th 2009, 04:43 AM
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A month or so...scared I might lose it tonight.
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That's awesome about going a month! Hang in there.
5 days
Drown in the music,
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July 11th 2009, 06:26 AM
About half of a day, which really is a success considering the shitty day I had  .
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July 11th 2009, 07:53 AM
28 days.
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July 11th 2009, 02:55 PM
Almost two months I think.
I didn't count the exact days. I wasn't really planning on stopping, it just kind of happened.
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July 11th 2009, 03:33 PM
11 months...yeah almost a year!!!
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July 12th 2009, 11:11 AM
Hey im new here and its taken a long time to bring myself to get some help/advice.
I started Self harming when i was about 14 so would be comming upto 9 years now. Its weird to think i can openly talk about my SH with my close friends but when they ask the reaons for this i dont know i feel once upon a time there should have been a reason but i cant remember and now there isnt one. I seem to sh when i get frustrated but not by others by myself and for really silly things like showing up late etc.. i blame myself for nothing and get into a state where i find the only way to come back to earth is by SH. i dont even know im doing it i get this sence of relief (not a buzz) something to take my mind else where (else where from what i dont know as i have a great life) and it dosent hurt until the next day then i think pap.
Ive never asked for help/support before you see i hadnt Sh For almost a year so i thought great its gone but then last week i had a silly argument not thinking it was both our faults and SH because of it. I always find to do it in the same place (Does anyone else) I never wanted to ask for help cause i felt like if i said anything to anyone id be a freek and still get this feeling now. Ive never met another SH but would love to so if anyone know of any support groups or people in the north east of england to point me someplace id be gratefull
Please help me just understand and possibly other ways of stopping being frustrated by myself. What i also dont understand is why SH brings me down into a calm state and i hate doing it. 
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July 13th 2009, 05:51 AM
one week... just have to keep going...
Drown in the music,
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block out the thunder,
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July 13th 2009, 06:18 AM
one week.
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July 13th 2009, 06:50 AM
1 1/2 days.
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July 13th 2009, 10:26 AM
1 month today
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July 14th 2009, 02:42 AM
60 days without cutting
1 year exactly without burning
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July 14th 2009, 05:26 AM
eight days
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July 14th 2009, 07:35 PM
17 Days cut free..
But I burned bout 5 days ago so I guess that puts my no self harm thing back down.
so... 5 days
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July 14th 2009, 08:07 PM
two hours.
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July 14th 2009, 10:00 PM
4 or so days
She whispered to her own reflection "I will be strong."
"I am not what has happened to me.I am what I have chosen to become."- Carl Jung
"If ye harm none, do as ye wish."
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July 14th 2009, 10:09 PM
About Two Weeks For Me.
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July 15th 2009, 03:25 AM
4 days w\o cutting
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