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Disability allowence. -
July 26th 2009, 07:11 PM
My sister is starting to get disability allowence due to her being anorexic.
Shes currently in a unit for it but is pretty much and her target weight and if all goes well, will be home in a few weeks time. The doctor at the unit had to write down all the stuff for her to get her aloowence, and he wrote things like 'Needs assitance when walking, especially when walking up/down steps or out of a door' and 'needs someone constantly up with her at night'. Its all bull shit. Shes not that ill anymore. And now cause off all he said, shes getting like £97 a week. How is this right?! 'You don't always have to be positive, but you need to put things into perspective.' - 17/5/12 Selfharmforummod| MentalHealthforummodlHelpLinkmentor|Blogmod|LiveHelpoperator|Depressionandsuicideforummod |
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July 26th 2009, 08:33 PM
hey,
sorry to say it, but it doesnt seem right. unless she needs that help and they are trying to protect you by not telling you?? i get Disability allowence as do many of my friends, but a lot of them have to exagerate how much help they need in order to get the maximum amount. they all need it most of the time but they judge you on whether you can be left on your own or not which is total crap. if your sister is younger than you then that might be why, if shes like under 12 i think you get more money for less of a disability depending on whereabouts you live and what your doctors like. maybe you should talk to your parents and see how ill your sister really is, if she is in a unit then she is obviously not well and needs the money, but if shes much better and coming home soon, i dont think she needs that much unless its specific from an anorexia allowance. talking to your parents will probably be best to find out if shes okay. i hope she is and hope she gets better soon ![]() hope ive helped, PM me if i can help anymore or if you ever want someone to listen to you ![]() Hannah X "He who does not weep, does not see" - Les Miserables. keep reaching and living your lives. you are who you are. PM me whenever and ill do my best to help! ![]() Im here if you ever need anyone to talk to or to have someone to listen to you ![]() |
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oh, really?..
Jeez, get a life!
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July 26th 2009, 08:58 PM
to be honest they shouldn't have lied on the form. i receive DLA of the higher rate with a few other benefits and it works out about £600 a month. although whenever they write to me it says on the letter at the bottom something like.. "if your circumstances change and you don't inform us or we find the information you have provided us to be incorrect you may face prosecution.."
so yeah.. its benefit fraud technically. a lot of time you HAVE to exaggerate how bad the situation is or you won't get the money - but actually lying about it is probably a bit stupid tbh, because if they find out it won't be great. |
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Re: Disability allowence. -
July 26th 2009, 10:37 PM
I know its stupid, but it wasnt us who evem wrote it, it was the doctor at the unit. And shes sixteen.
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July 26th 2009, 10:50 PM
if the doctor is blatently lying then i think you should express your concerns to your parents, because as Elle said, you can be prosecuted if you do not alert the correct people to your change of circumstances.
i know you didnt wright it, and there isnt really anything you can do apart from talk to your parents and sister and ask them whats going on. it does show how much of a good person you are by wondering if this is right though, well done for that, most people would just ignore it and keep things simple and easy ![]() Hannah X "He who does not weep, does not see" - Les Miserables. keep reaching and living your lives. you are who you are. PM me whenever and ill do my best to help! ![]() Im here if you ever need anyone to talk to or to have someone to listen to you ![]() |
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oh, really?..
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Re: Disability allowence. -
July 26th 2009, 11:23 PM
yeah but if you know the information to be incorrect and don't declare you're just as liable as the doctor unfortunately..
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oh, really?..
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July 27th 2009, 10:07 PM
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but yeah i agree, they fill it out according to the info when you're at your very worst so it may well be that the information they provided for your sister is actually correct - according to how she is at her worst. |
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